Two weeks ago after posting about wingmanning in NYC I was able to go out and run some night game with 2 redditors. It was a success and so was the field report as so many of you guys contacted me and asked about getting added to the group chat that we were able to do it again another weekend in a row.

We decided to meet up at the same spot in Brooklyn again as it was pretty familiar and we knew we weren't gonna get turned down for entering as a trio of guys. When running night game it's really important to know the location you're headed as its gonna attract a certain crowd. Certain spots play certain music, attract a certain crowd or type, and charge a cover or are super strict on group/dress code. This spot was a safe bet as we all enjoyed it last time and felt we'd have a good time again.

I get to the spot and I find the boys waiting on line to get in. I shake hands with the new guy and hug homie who popped out last week. I ask everyone what's the goal for tonight and a little bit about themselves and the things they want to work on. As soon as we walk in we do a round of shots and make our way to the patio area and take a seat. The homie immediately starts chatting up with a group of girls and we swoop in talking to their friends. As a wingman my role is really to just entertain her friends while the initiator goes and does his thing with the girl he wants. If her friend is cute than its a bonus and we just chop it up.

This is where I admit that I messed up and I pregamed too hard drinking on an empty stomach, and somehow that shot sent me over the edge. I like to use alcohol as a "social lubricant", but it can backfire bad if you aren't careful with your intake. I'm no longer smooth talking and am now just blabbering to her friend and in the moment I can't even stop to give her a moment to let herself talk. I'm not ashamed and I don't wanna leave anything out LOL but yeah I had to cut my night early with a lyft back. Luckily the homie held it down and took new guy under his wing and they kept the night going, eventually heading to a new spot nearby and chatting it up with a new group that they got along with.

Not a major success in terms of getting girls but I still think its a success in the fact we were able to meet up two weekends a row and work a little bit towards our goal again of being more comfortable around women and putting ourselves out there. Every time you do it is another chance to take her home, make out with her, dance with her, or even just chat and get her number. You can't win every night, but we'd rather give it a shot and strike out then stay home and not try at all.

We've grown the group chat to 15 people now all based in NYC who want to find available wingmen who share the common interest of meeting girls and giving it a shot. If you wanna join the chat, just hit me up! We're currently trying to organize for this weekend again, probably in Brooklyn.