Ever since back in high school during my tomboy years, a part of me acts like a man bec I want to see myself being a guy doing boy stuff and at once I used to have a boy cut, bec I imagine myself being a man that you get to do cool stuff of what boys do like in friend groups, gaming and other kinds of stuff men do or be popular in school, but as of growing up in my adult years and facing the real reality made me see it differently, I've seen other women I've met talk about how boys get away with everything and get all of they want and think they're better than women, look I'm not going to deny I've met Misogynists in real life who disrespects women and think they're better than women or the quirky ones like in Boys vs Girls memes. But it took me years to see the situation of what it means for other guys on how they were treated in society and by other women and men, bec let's be real if you're born to be a man, at worse you might get accused of Sexual Assault, Sexual Harassment, or R@pe most especially people that are willing to side with the supposed victims despite the false narrative and at worse a man might be shamed and humiliated and lose friends, relatives and loved ones and jobs bec of false SA accusations, or if a Man gets SA or r@ped and when a man tells his story online or in real life to his friends and family, he might get toxic comments wishing they're in the man's place or discrediting or laughed at his SA that it's not as serious as Women's SA, and what's even worse he had to paid for child support if the Woman r@ped him, as for mental health I think we all know that men have the highest suicide rates, but this is also not me discrediting female suicides, but I also seen other women celebrating men's suicide bec they think they deserved it regardless of context may not matter to them. In regards to people saying to boys to "Man Up" their problems and stop crying bec men can't cry or voice their real feelings.

Other Feminists may say Misandry doesn't kill yet I've seen other articles of women killing male victims, stabbing a man in the genitals for refusing to marry a woman, including a mother killing her own sons out of fear that they might grow up to be abusive, or a group that wishes to kill all men, and other women might say that men only are abusive to women yet I've seen stories from other men who faced domestic abuse by their girlfriends or wives, or when it comes to media sexualizing Men against their will let's not forget in Thor Love and Thunder where Thor got his clothes stripped until he got naked in a clip from the trailer before the movie was released where he was humiliated and sexualized and it was played for laughs, but thankfully in recent years like Hazbin Hotel where male SA was divisive among SA victims largely due to Vivziepop's mishandling the subject matter behind the scenes bec of her fetishizing Angel Dust's SA and defending the storyboard artist who is not an SA Victim including in her show that people are starting to call out the double standards in Sexual Harassment in media in Western that is played for laughs that not only does it disrespect real life SA Victims but also Male SA Victims who hate seeing SA not being taken seriously, and as much as I've seen other Feminists willing to help women's issues. I'm not gonna deny the toxic and obsessive ones who get into Misandry or being biased in their view of men to the point that Feminism loses it's meaning and it's no wonder why the Feminist community from my experience is really divisive and I've seen other women left the community and if someone dares to call out their bad behavior you might as well get kicked out or banned from any subreddit related to that, just look at r/JustUnsubbed if you searched feminists subs related to that and there's a list on google search page. Lastly when it comes to a certain man or groups of men doing crimes I've seen other women generalizing the entirety of men as if they're all the same which is why there are other guys reminding of them regarding that but they'll get comments like "It may not be all of men but it's always a man." Can you imagine if we reverse genders and it's instead a woman or other women doing crimes similar to men, you might say that "It may not be all of women but it's always a woman." I'm pretty sure that statement wouldn't be well received, bec let's be honest men and women regardless of gender and sexuality can do immoral stuff and it's not rocket science, the issue I have including other men was always the generalization and guilt by association that all guys are always the same and therefore no different from one another, and can you imagine if we apply to women and think they all act the same? I'm pretty sure feminists and women wouldn't like that, and I feel bad for other men who treated women with respect but yet there are others willing to lump them with the bad guys bec of their gender and it sucks.

Despite all of the negative things I listed that men faced, I just wanted to say something hopeful in the end, bec if you're a Man reading this, regardless of what other men or women say negative things about you in regards to your gender or saying Misandrist stuff to your face, do not be embarrassed being a man or you shouldn't be ashamed being born a man in this world, I'm pretty sure regardless of what society thinks about you that shames you for being a man or being lumped with the bad men, being faced with false accusations, or disregarding the abuse you received, mental health issues, and etc., prove to them that you respect women, but also including your fellow men the same, and if other people still don't see that and don't respect you, I'm pretty sure you will find people most especially women in the future that respect you as a person and as a man, bec there is no perfect society in this world but if we can find ways to improve and make sure other people feel welcome then we can do it.