I just get rejection because of her dude friends

stabeebit · 2024-10-18T20:29:57+00:00

You went on 2 dates and started telling her she shouldn't see her friends anymore? I'm little alarmed that you don't see how weird/needy/controlling that is, I'm sorry but I'm glad she shot you down, any reasonable person should and would do that

scandalous_eyes · 2024-10-18T20:55:13+00:00

Well, a lot of those dude friends would probably date your girl in a heartbeat. That's why you have to be very confident and secure with yourself so that you know she wouldn't bother with them, because she has you - and you're the better guy for her.

So if this is an issue now, it's definitely going to be a bigger issue later on.

demyen96 · 2024-10-18T20:27:40+00:00

Made you look insecure and controlling. It's definitely not something I'd bring up till official, so to speak. Even then, I think guy friends are fine unless they're obviously in love with your girl. But if you don't trust your girl around other men which is going to happen in life your relationship probably would never work out anyway.

Chiiiicckkeeennn · 2024-10-18T20:56:13+00:00

Why are you brining up other dudes

SkratchFBA · 2024-10-18T20:51:04+00:00

Yes you just met her, it’s way too soon

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-10-19T01:22:05+00:00

I don't blame her. How would you feel if you were on a second date, let alone married, and they told you that you needed to ditch your female friends?

That's bad enough in a LTR. Doing on the second date just makes you look like an insecure asshole.

Title	I just get rejection because of her dude friends
Author	Remarkable_Run3760
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	October 18, 2024 8:08 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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