i don't get it. for example MMA/martial arts ( i dont do MMA personally , i just do bodybuilding ). that subreddit is filled with man-hating. and words like fragile ego and toxic masculinity. reading their comments gives me anxiety.

Once a boy made an innocent post. a simple innocent post that he lost to a girl and feels embarressed. boy the way they ripped him to shreds... RIP! they said words like fragile ego, "grow up" , " man up" , and other insults.

can't you people just ( with kindness, humbleness, love and with calm attitude ) explain to him the solution to his psychology? why do u have to shame him for the feelings he has no control over?

First, they don't explain or give a shit about men and their mental health. and then when men face problems like these they use feminist insults and rip him to shreds. Its so fucking confusing and humiliating. feels like the whole world hates us. OH and not to mention the gaslighting!

"it is your own fault because of your fragile ego blah blah blah" *completely ignoring the fact that society is the reason why men feel this way!*

Why can't people spread love and kindness. just tell that man " hey, its ok. no need to feel ashamed. men and women are equal. you both are equal and loved. just keep training, all of you are here to train and become strong! and we support one another" there you go! problem solved!

i want to train in a love filled and positive environment where people do not hate me because of my gender.