Guys, Hope you all are well. First time ever posting in reddit. In short: I am 30 years old and recently divorced. I have beautiful 3 year old daughter with my ex. We were living in CA with my mum in law. After divorce, she and mum in law took her back to jersey. Due to some unsolvable challenges, i have to live in CA. My kid is very attached to my mum in law and ex and my ex ll give me hard time for sure to interact with my kid. Have and how anyone of you dealt with trauma of living away while your kids grow up. I worry about us not being able to have a healthy relationship in future etc. I will go to every extent to visit often and try to get my kid over in summer etc but how did you navigate that? I feel like a dead beat father.