A reoccurring theme for most of my adult life is a very direct apprehension from women and wondering if its a common thing.

This apprehension I am talking about is a females response to me in conversation, social outlets and god forbid having to be alone with me. I could be minding my own business, trying to help out or just talk socially and I get a deer in the headlights look from them.

Its like they are saying, dont be too nice, dont agree to anything socially, duck and cover girl... Its like if I run into them, they give the stink eye of "did you follow me here?". They put them selves in such high standards, that my presence must be chased away because I am only there for fucking.

For a while I wanted to lead with look bitch I dont want to fuck you, so calm the fuck down... but I figured that would be direct.

So I went with the your not good enough for my time, dont waste my time, thank you bye. And oddly enough this seemed to work better. But in the end the same results came to be... no results. Me being too busy made it easier for them, not to have to worry about it or see me as a "threat". * and yes creep shaming has happened in the past, and it did wreak me at times before I learned how to not give a fuck.

How do you deal with women in these situations?

Is this the norm that we all must face?

How does this reflect on me? (personally it makes me feel like some nasty fucking grease ball, foaming at the mouth, and yea that fucking pisses me off).