Yeah maybe you should have asked men this question

ChaemiR8 · 2025-01-18T02:33:42+00:00

These people have never heard of a fetish, sometimes there's no real reasons why you are into something, you just are. As long as both parties are adults and consenting i don't see why it should be anyone's problem what they do in their bed.

MindoverMuddle · 2025-01-18T04:33:04+00:00

The idea that men inherently find pleasure in their partner's suffering is a bizarre, misandrist fantasy that speaks more to the commenter’s worldview than reality.

Most men prioritize their partner’s comfort and pleasure during intimacy. The implication that men are sadists who want to see women suffer is not only insulting—it’s a flat-out lie for the vast majority.

The claim that anal sex “evidences the woman would do anything” for a man’s insecure ego is ridiculous. Intimacy is supposed to be about mutual consent and exploration, not some twisted power dynamic.This whole “men demand it to feed their ego” narrative is built on a caricature of men as selfish, insecure beings driven solely by dominance.

Ironically, they fail to acknowledge that women often pressure men into extreme acts as well, including pegging, which is apparently considered "empowering" instead of invasive when roles are reversed. Double standards much?

The anus isn’t designed for sexual activity. Sorry not sorry. It’s full of bacteria, sensitive tissue, and lacks natural lubrication. Engaging in anal sex carries significant risks, including tearing, infections, and more. Most men understand this and aren’t interested in it for those very reasons.

The commenters conveniently ignore this biological fact while still trying to paint men as the ones pushing for it. And let’s not forget that pegging is glorified by the same people who criticize men for suggesting anal sex. It’s hypocritical and reeks of projection.

The notion that men fantasize about “curing lesbians” is not only absurd but offensive. Most men respect sexual orientation and don’t waste time imagining forcing someone into an orientation change. This entire idea is rooted in their misandrist projection that men are predatory and lack empathy.

What’s even more hypocritical is the suggestion that women pressuring straight men into acts like pegging or other “new experiences” is somehow acceptable. So coercion is only bad when they think men are doing it? That’s a blatant double standard.

As usual, this rhetoric takes a niche group of people and extrapolates their behaviour to all men. The truth is, the majority of men don’t push for anal sex, don’t find pain or coercion arousing, and don’t engage in fantasies of “curing lesbians.” The commenters’ warped view of male sexuality says more about their biases than it does about men.

Men overwhelmingly prioritize their partner’s pleasure and comfort. These conversations, where men are painted as monsters who seek domination and control, are simply projections of their own twisted narratives.

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-01-18T08:48:39+00:00

Why are so many women, including sex studies, so fixated with the idea that the penis doesn't matter?

Perhaps these particular men, and these particular women, are non hetero.

PrimeWolf88 · 2025-01-18T10:49:18+00:00

There's no need for oral sex or female orgasms either. Maybe people should also do away with those since they only benefit the woman and many men don't enjoy those. Fair is fair.

jcruz18 · 2025-01-18T04:56:38+00:00

Says the empowered women who like to get choked and pinned down and spit on.

LargeBreasts69 · 2025-01-18T22:19:51+00:00

This is so weird, I think guys just like trying atuff

YetAgain67 · 2025-01-19T13:47:28+00:00

Ah, the pathologically sex negative arm of feminism strikes again!

Remember men, your sexuality is inherently problematic by virtue of your gender! And that includes you, gay men, they've started being mask off about you as well.

Mysterious-Citron875 · 2025-01-18T11:38:52+00:00

Women do willingly engage in anal sex

Title	Yeah maybe you should have asked men this question
Author	lolbert202
Upvotes	83
Comments	9
Date	January 18, 2025 1:45 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/EverydayMisandry
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