The VIRAGE survey (Violence et rapports de genre; [Violence and Gender Relations]), conducted by INED in 2015 on a sample of almost 16,000 women and 12,000 men representative of the metropolitan French population aged 20-69, examines sexual violence in different life spaces (school or university, workplace, public places, partner, ex-partner, family and social circle), in the last 12 months and over the lifetime.

For each life space, three questions were asked to record all facts relating to rape, attempted rape and other sexual assaults, and to specify their nature and the context in which they occurred:

Question 1, for women: “Has anyone, against your will, touched your breasts or your buttocks, cornered you in order to kiss you, rubbed or pressed against you?”

Question 1, for men: “Has anyone, against your will, rubbed or pressed against you?”

Question 2, for both sexes: “Has anyone forced you to perform or submit to sexual touching, and has anyone attempted to have sexual intercourse with you against your will, or succeeded in doing so?”

Results : An estimated 580,000 (2.90%) women and 197,000 (1.03%) men were victims of all forms of sexual assault in the previous 12 months.

https://www.ined.fr/fichier/s_rubrique/25953/538.population.societies.2016.november.en.pdf

They do not explicitly seperate made to penetrate, so that we might a clearer picture of rape against men but this is still enough to show that men can be victims many times more than people think. And that men are not always the perpetrators.