Need advice to get out of the anger phase or how to attain inner peace

thor_away92 · 2015-09-25T12:35:22+00:00

Remember the blue pill way of thinking of how "a woman is just exploring her sexual nature and expierencing life and blah blah just getting fucked by a plethora of attractive people because she can" ?

It's the same shit, blue pill mentality we didn't give a fuck that they were slutting it up because "she's just expressing herself". Again it's the same mentality only red pill flavor, we hold her accountable for being so slutty and call it "hypergamous nature". Plus you can't blame them for maximizing benefit. We're all in TRP to do the same thing.

You stop being mad once you realize it's the same damn thing and no matter how upset you get it's not going to change. So you have two options be mad because women are women, or get the fuck over it and understand that you can use their slutty nature in your favor to get shit you want from them.

PROTIP: Stop reading those useless fucking posts about "ultimate beta wonders why dead bedroom over at /r/relationshits reveals red pill truths" or "man gets divorced rape, proves redpill once again"

Those posts are fucking useless. A. If The OP was actually applying TRP he shouldn't have time to post that shit.

B. The OPs of said posts are just seeking validation from TRP via upvotes. lolwut?

C. Those posts give you a terribly negative view on women due to their volitaile writing style. Women are warm, pleasing, elegant, fun plus sex lots of sex. How do you be mad at that?

EDIT: Feminism, people talking about it, women acting entitled, etc. Who gives a fuck? None of that shit matters, it doesn't change how you bench press, and doesn't make blow jobs feel any less good, it doesn't effect your studies, it doesn't change gas prices. It doesn't change a god damn thing. So why does it even matter to you? Your focus on you.

It doesn't even change who you fucking hold doors for. That cute girl can follow your ass inside the door, or she can hold the door, and she'll be more happy with you for not holding the door and leading instead.

Sure you got rape accusations and divorce rape, but that doesn't matter either.

-Don't get married and your assets aren't a legal contract to any woman.

-Have class and don't fuck anything that walks. If she's super entitled SJW or lunatic mode nope out of there and find a different chick and you're less likely for a false accusation. You're going to be amazed at how down a lot of women are for no strings fun sex. It's pretty awesome.

[deleted] · 2015-09-25T12:07:42+00:00

First, your anger is internal, not external. Previous explanation I posted:

excerpt on anger

5) Impotent rage, translation (I'm angry at something, but don't realize that something is me.)

You are always angry at yourself. Maybe your lack of power, your lack of status, your lack of motivation, your lack of perseverance, your bad decision making, your lack of experience, your incorrect expectations, your inability to see signs, but it is always a measurement on YOU. You have the ability to redirect your energy. If you are ever angry, it is simply proof of your failure in some way. That's why anger hurts, and is also cathartic. Any externally focused anger is an illusion, YOU'RE ALLOWING YOURSELF TO BE PLACED IN SOMEONE OR SOMETHING ELSE'S WORLD, YOU ARE LETTING YOURSELF BE CONTROLLED BY IT. Simply put, you can't stop anger, but you can take responsibility and focus that anger towards addressing the root of the cause. Yourself, your preparations, your failure, your effort.

Secondly, accepting the way things are is a foundational part of being happier. This isn't simply accepting the facts of the world, but how you choose to regard those facts. I very much recommend a second order approach to acceptance.

excerpt on stoicism The glass is always broken. This is something to internalize, it is the case of objective reality. Everything you interact with, (in a tangible sense) women, love, men, relationships, business, your lawn mower, your wife's vibrator, they are all broken. Maybe not now, but soon.

Things are imperfect. People are imperfect. They will fail, they will skip up, they will eventually provide you a sorry experience. They are not ideal. The world is that way, things end. Accept that. You will die, you will get sick, your body will break.

Finally, outlets. You may need to find people who share your perspective, though if you realize and adopt the above successfully chances are venting won't be nearly as necessary. I suggest finding others in internet forums, in person, who share your belief. The best way hands down to do this is begin meeting people

excerpt on meeting people

1) "how do I meet people", translation (do the thinking for me)

You meet people by doing just that, going to fucking meet people. It is the modern digital age, Google local free events and get moving. Use meet up. You are responsible for not meeting people. Don't come here begging for false confirmation by planning, mining, complaining, just fucking go out. Every day. Get turned down a hundred, a thousand, ten thousand times. Build up thick skin. If you've done that and are still having issues, post an fr and ask for help. Don't show up with nothing in hand. Have you been doing what you're afraid of for at least 3 months? No? Then we can't help you because you're too afraid to take control.

Good luck OP. I believe many of us have been there, where you are.

If you accept that you are only renting your life instead of owning it (ownership implies total control in a purely non religious sense) you have accepted the fact that things fail.

demilitarizdsm · 2015-09-25T12:25:19+00:00

Only works if you like economics

Start thinking of people like they are all corporations. Assume they are fined tuned utilitarian machines trying to reap the most benefit for themselves from any situation. Then it is so easy to laugh off how bad they are at being that, rather than being so mad that they aren't all the things you thought they'd be from media, parents, culture, etc.

Title	Need advice to get out of the anger phase or how to attain inner peace
Author	romaxyz
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	September 25, 2015 11:41 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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