It seems that when a man is wanting sex more often than the wife desires, then he has a "problem". He's a sex addict. He's selfish. He's abusive. He should be grateful for whatever sexual intimacy she is willing to give him. However, if the roles are reversed, then there is something "wrong" with him. He needs to go see a doctor and get his testosterone checked. He needs to go to counseling and determine what his issues are. He is neglectful and not fulfilling his marriage vows.

The double standards are very glaring. It seems that a guy just can't get a break.