The church I started attending has a program to help "single mothers" with car repairs. They actually have a large building at the back of the property that is set up with auto repair equipment and tools. When a single mother requests help with car maintenance or repairs, the vehicle is brought to the church's shop on a Saturday and a group of men attempt to fix it. When it became known that I am a professional automotive technician, and have been one for 41 years, they were all over me wanting me to help single mothers with their cars in their "ministry". So, I attended a meeting about this ministry. They felt so good about helping these "women in need". I asked, "What about single fathers, what are you doing for them?" They had a blank look on their faces and were speechless. I pointed out that many of these women had full time jobs and were getting child support as well as alimony. So, they had money. What about the single fathers that have lost his wife, lost his kids, and is having to work two or three jobs to support himself as well as pay all of that child support and alimony? They had nothing to say. Just a blank expression on their faces. I asked, why can't the program be for "single parents", both mothers and fathers. They just couldn't process that. Said, "No, this is for single mothers only." I got up and walked out.