Firstly, I can’t tell if I’m in the right place. Divorce_men oddly seems like a railing crime. However, I do think this is the sub read for men going through or potentially going through divorce correct if not, ladies, you could help me too.

I don’t want anything no assets no money nothing except split custody with our children. In truth and hopefully validated through anonymity on Reddit, we both are shitty partners, but great parents separately. How does one start the filing process if I don’t want any type of monies that could be awarded. I already lose half the time with my kids. I realize I stand to lose more through the money, but it’s just it’s just not worth the fight. I know if I go for money she’ll go for time and it’s crushing. Again, ladies, this is not a bash towards ladies. We are bad partners together. I have no intention of fighting anymore. I think she feels as if I’m running out on her, not realizing the effects of her alcohol and consumption. I’m not passing any drug test, but last night she claimed that my 36-year-old first microdose psychedelic experience of MDMA at home in my bed next to her is somehow riskier her 4 to 5 night a week double bottle bath.

I never wanted to divorce, but I certainly never wanted to be married to who this person is while drinking for reference I smoke weed around her she drinks smokes weed around me. Of the four total psychedelic experiences I’ve had, none of them were done before the age of 35, also very important. None of them were done prior to researching the subject from a mental health standpoint. I did used to work in a prison facilitating programs for behavioral modification. This stuff does kind of sing to my character and my inner self.

I just want to know how to best strategize to lose as little time as possible with my kids. I already lose my stepdaughter’s as they were Weaponized against me numerous times at the hands of alcohol.

Seems long when I could’ve just said where do I start to lose as little time as possible. I feel like there’s gotta be some context form of context when we talk about custody.

My counter culture ideologies certainly boost my fitting the definition of substance abuser, but considering the information that I continue to seek about the subject, I find it hard to believe that my experiments with understanding my body and my emotions connected, is as bad as drinking two bottles of poison every night no offense to anyone that chooses to drink