mods, i hope this is welcomed, if not my apologizes but i ran across this video and it gave me amazing clarity on my marriage, relationships now and how things are not always "our" fault. some people we are in relationships are just more damaged than we are.

i have seen jordan petersons name before but never listened. things i missed out on!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=MQgGH3_HrD8