Hey, a little embarrassed to ask but fuck it.

I'm 20 and a virgin. My life was a state a few months ago. I've cleaned up my act, put on a lot of muscle, stopped sitting around all day on the internet, got my army basic training coming up in a few weeks, becoming better socially. I even go on dates, we have fun, I've gotten a few kisses, but after that there seems like no real way to get around the "I'm a virgin" without my SMV tanking so I bail and find the next girl which is probably actually pretty good for practice but it's not the end goal, you know? If not through saying it then my lack of experience showing when it comes time to do it will surely out me and LMR will increase tenfold.

So I ask if you think there is a good way to approach this. It's a stumbling block for me and, honestly, a source of embarrassment and shame which can probably shine through a little.

What do you think?