I married a women that was a habitual liar. She is an expert at gas lighting. And she cheated throughout our marriage. In 2020 I caught her in 2 affairs with local cops. She told me it was all in my head. Then proceeded to break and smash every computer, cellphone, fitness watch, tablet that she owned. I started to record everything on my phone. Video. Audio. And sent copies to family. We have I child together. A little girl. And 2 older daughters that are from her previous marriage ( A sheriff Lieutenant) I was in the process of hiring an attorney and found out that she was trying to hire a cartel hitman to have me and a different ex (she was fighting a custody battle with) murdered. I had video , audio, and text proof of it. Within 2 days I am being survailed by her cop buddies. She attacks me the next night badly. As she has in the past, but I thought she was going to kill me that night. Weeks later I am charged with Domestic violence against her for that night. I DONT HIT WOMEN. But what I have learned in these situations is that

It doesn't have to be true. It just has to be whispered in the right ear, and it becomes gospel......

Unless of course the assault was captured on my phone. 🤣🤣🫣. I can laugh about it now. But the gang mentality of those cops and her playing a pretend victim was sickening. She was me tally abusive to my daughter. She withheld her from me and then told her that I didn't love her.

I tried to involve Child Protective Services, but the women running it is a long time friend of my ex.

Here is a message for ANYONE going through an abusive , gaslighting, manipulative relationship and is looking to get out safely.

Record EVERYTHING. AND BACK IT UP IN PLACES SHE CAN'T GET.

Woman like my ex will destroy everything to hide the shit they pull. Screenshot conversations. Especially on Instant Messenger.

Remember this. All is fair in love and war.

I am suing law enforcement for a large sum of money for what they orchestrated with her. And they are caught red handed.
The media is involved. And when the dust settles I am opening a Non profit organization called

"D.H.M.D".
Don't hit My Daddy

It will be there to help men that get punched on by women knowing we won't run to police. To offer legal help. Housing. Asset protection for fairness. And counseling options that aren't geared with a broken narrative that all women are victims and all men are monsters.
And most importantly. There will be a war chest for child custody, guardian ad litem payments, and child counseling resources. Because children are hurt by this the worst.

I am including a song that I wrote in the comments called "Custody Haze" sang by a female artist out of Texas.

Fight for what is right. Get counseling. Don't be quick to duce into a relationship because of loneliness. Learn to be ok without someone else. It will make future relationships stronger.

Thanks everyone. I am hear to listen and provide any help I can. Every situation is unique. I went to hell and back for almost 5 years.