So i started talking to a girl i was working with on a uni project for like 1 month, after the project was finished she called me out for a smoke at night for a smoke now im a very pasive guy, didnt try anything then just hung out whiel dropping her she was very awkward and we both kinda stared at each other till we ended up shaking hands lmao. I cringed inside but went back to my room now she started calling me unnecessarily the next morning i wasnt that bothered cause i didnt kike her that way yet but we started hanging a bit more and i realised i was vetting emotionally invested. But i just enjoyed talking to her and letting it progress to wherever, as i tried hooking up in the past and it didnt end well each time.
Now we were both chatting and joking around when she suddenly bought up her past hookup and went into quite a bit of detail and said she was anxious as she had to meet him again, now this reminded me of my own patterns about emotional venting to a doormat basically, but i also felt a pang of jealousy and i realised i was more invested than i thought, i then joked a bit and told her to deal with it on her own basically and ended up adding that i didnt do hookups anymore then the vibe shifted and she went quiet and i decided to leave. I went chilled out a bit by night then the next she ended up texting me while i was asleep asking with a very formal tone about me having extra cig as her friend had a bt which i chalked her to being high as people tend to do. I just replied in the morning that she couldve just called me and if her roommate was okay? She then replied very dismissive like yeah yeah some shit happened i was high. I just replied understandable and dipped.
Now i know i realise this is a wrong sub for advice like this and im immature and a but fucked from pssd from antidepressants so my emotions dont work properly what do i do in thsi situation like i like her but im fully prepared to completely dip out if this shit is bad. My emotions Dont work properly after pssd. what should i do next
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