So I married a woman 16 yrs ago that to this day is still hot af. Everywhere we go she gets attention.

So Im always giving her superficial compliments. I mean I already have her right?

You seen all that advice about stoicism and how to get a woman’s attention your compliments must be unique. Every one tells them that they’re beautiful, and with that compliment you’re like everyone else.

So with my wife the other night coming back from the casino. I was a little drunk. We were lying in bed with my back towards her and I decided to tell her this: “ you know I’m always giving you superficial compliments, but you know what? I never tell you how intelligent I think you are. (We run a business together) I admire the way you handle business on the phone. I think it’s sexy the way you carry yourself and your talent a closing deals. I just think that I need to tell you how much a appreciate what you do”

She leans over my back turns me around stars making out with me….seconds later im re-arranging her guts.

Today she tells me, “you know why we fucked last night? Because you had never given me this type of compliment before, it was different” I got her all wet. I could feel it.

I know what I’m going to say is going to sound manipulative but, when I did this I knew what I was doing from the videos I saw recently on this topic. However I had no expectation of the results. But, it fucking worked. And I was only testing this theory because I just wanted to go to sleep.

All those videos you see on charisma, push pull techniques, not only work on strangers but your own wives and girlfriends.

I didn’t recite anything and my comments were 100% honest on how I feel about her that i never told her.

I’m starting to think this is part of why there is dead bedrooms. Our partners need to hear from us a unique compliment to get their sexual motor running. Now this is not a fix all but it fucking worked for me.

I want to tell her so bad why I did what I did but it will kill the magic. A good magician never reveals his tricks.

There are other things on these videos on youtube (search stoicism) that I’m going to try at parties. I’m going to see what works. Also if you try something that works DON’T over do it with the same person.