The judge just awarded my ex half of everything, plus $200k. I was awarded the house, but can't afford it. I will have to get a mortgage on my house to pay the remaining $380k I owe her after the $168k already transferred. I imagine CS to be at least $1k per month despite 50/50 custody and 3 years of spending less than $4k per month.my son is 13.

The last 3 years I earned $130k $250k and $125k.(90k salary plus irregular bonus or bonuses). The $250k year was the highest year on record for the company due to reprocussions of the pandemic. She earns around $65k.

As for the house, on top of expenses, a new loan for the equilibration payment and CS. I can't really move without forfeiting custody.

I'm really struggling with how to keep going. Any financial advice? Any way to readdressed the court?

Live in South Dakota.