So, first post here. Sorry if this is all over the place.

I'm having a date tonight with a 33yo woman I met a while ago. We live now in different countries, but I'm currently where she is for a few days and when I called her, she told me she is free basically everyday including Friday and Saturday night. So we arranged the date for Friday (today).

So far so good, but I'm kinda of clueless how to deal with her because she is pretty but very shy and keeps her distance.

We met a few months ago, similar story, had a great engaged dinner with tons of eye contact and smiles. After that I proposed to go to my Airbnb to drink some more wine and listen to music, but she respectfully refused, so we went to a bar instead. We had two cocktails, engaging talks but she was physically distant, and had more of a defensive stance. I sat at the other side of a small table and had only physical "access" to her hands and tried to touch her at certain points of the conversations, but she did not react at all as if she was frozen. Quite discouraging. She also never engaged in any physical contact. After a while she got visibly tired, the mood sank and we decided to call it. As we were leaving, she kept being distant, and I couldn't get the courage to try to kiss her. She got an Uber and went home.

Any idea what went wrong and what I can do differently this time today? While I am told I am very funny and have tons of friends, when it comes to women, I'm usually passive and prone to inaction so I don't have much experience in seduction.