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first dates

No-Wolverine7793 · 2025-04-28T04:09:46+00:00

Got any tips like I start of strong through the talking phase we go on a date then I almost never get a second one like I have no problems hooking up and...

No-Wolverine7793

April 28, 2025

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Title	first dates
Author	No-Wolverine7793
Upvotes	6
Comments	2
Date	April 28, 2025 4:09 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1k9mty7/first_dates/
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[–]ImpossibleBritches 4 points5 points6 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Consistently failing to get a second date can indicate one of a couple of things:

1) you have all the skill you need. But you are pulling in women who can simply tell that you aren't suitable for them.

Getting the first date requires skill. Once you've landed a date, you should be on cruise control. All you have to do is relax and enjoy the date. She knows exactly why you are both there, and she'll make up her own mind about whether things go further.

All you have to do at that point is not fuck it up.

So if things aren't going further, it means you are are likely getting dates with women who will simply never be into you.

So become more selective.

2) there's something off about you, and the women can tell.

From a woman's point of view, that's pretty much the point of a first date. She's curious about you, and you fail the assessment.

There's nothing really anyone can do to help you with this one. Just keep working on developing your character. Become the more attractive version of yourself.

[–]yourfavcutietonight -1 points0 points1 point 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link