Finally caught my wife but was stupid to confront her with little evidence but some. Ill sum it up as my wife has been changing over the past year with multiple things and she recently hot 40 and started working out more and more. I felt in my gut somwthing was happening after multiple secret text messages and other things I noticed. So today, when she got hone I decided to check the VAR i placed in her car and bam...it looks like on May 1 when I was away for most of the day she made a call that was recorded bir it was less than 10 seconds long. Basically saod, hey babe, what are you up to and the guy respons by saying " go to his house, I want to fuck, and something else that I cant make out to which she replies yes. and then hangs up. I saw her location and she had both of our dogs that dau, but it appears as she went to a house for a few minutes did whatever then left to finish the vet run she was going on. I was fumming and confronted her and she shut down and denied it to the point that she called the cops but nothing happened as I didnt do anything bad.

Now I am sitting here confussed as hell as she said that is me in the recording which I can pretty much say it isnt...But also dont understand how she could have gone to meet a dude at a house, fucked , took the dogs to the vet and made it home pretty quickly. I was stupid I know, I should have waitied for more evidence but I was angry. Now, I am debating to file for divorce tomorroe (today) when I wake up or see of she wants to talk so I can be sure I am not making a mistake.