How do I become less "one dimensional"

Xemnas81 · 2015-10-19T01:55:43+00:00

What concerts do you go to? Tell me more about them. Have you considered joining the hockey squad?

I'd recommend Models C13: How to be Charming. Read on framing narratives, open questions etc.

stickfiguresk · 2015-10-19T01:47:53+00:00

Magazines/news papers, or the online equivalent to talk about shit without getting too personal. Hobbies can make you more interesting.

TeflonDon3000 · 2015-10-19T02:24:51+00:00

You're labeling something a weakness that isn't necessarily a weakness. If you like how your life is, don't adjust it just for the sake of conversation with a woman. Only add things it to your life if you want it in your life.

To be honest, women hate when you talk about yourself or your interests. They could truly care less.

I know when they ask me what I'm into they are just being polite and returning a question I've already asked them, often because they think that's how conversations work.

I stick on the topic of them. What do you like? Why? What got you into it? Who do you do it with?

I'll often ask questions that involve critical thinking or introspection, something most women don't do often or are completely incapable of.

All the while questions directed at me about my personality, beliefs, or hobbies are completely deflected or ignored. It creates an air of mystery, while building comfort and interest in them.

If you're a simple man, stay simple, stay mysterious... It'll make you seem more complex.

Title	How do I become less "one dimensional"
Author	superbob97
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	October 19, 2015 1:42 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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