I've decided that I should put into writing blunders I have committed in the past which had led to my failure with women.

Blunder: It doesn't matter how attractive one is, the moment a man gawks or stares and admire a woman's beauty, is the moment he has set himself up for failure.

Correction: Be spontaneous and make the move.

Analogy: One of the best weapons in war is the element of surprise. Staring at a beautiful woman too long make one look like a helpless little boy**, or rather, "a low value man."

**Lack of experience, indecisiveness, lack in confidence, etc.