I've come to the conclusion that the only place to find a girl worth marrying is at church. Am I wrong?

RedPillJax · 2015-10-23T23:31:26+00:00

I am also not religious, but I think you're incorrect in your conclusion.

I don't want a virgin. I don't want a woman with no life experience. I want a high-value woman with a lower n-count, but who displays traits of loyalty and ride or die (as much as a woman ever could - they're limited by their inherent traits, don't lecture me on this - I'm well aware of what I'm saying, and I hope you understand the context).

Honestly, the best place to meet a girl worth marrying is anywhere that isn't a bar / meat market. Through friends, coffee shops, bookstores, saturday (early) morning yoga (it's a good workout, shut up).

Basically, you just need to avoid conventional routes of meeting girls for most guys. Girls at the bars are going to 80% of the time bad candidates. Tinder broads are absolutely not suited to LTRs. I made that mistake twice.

Look for girls where most dudes aren't, and be willing to approach when they aren't. That's the only secret here, if you're really desperate to meet a woman to 'marry.' I'd still advise against marriage period, but there you go.

[deleted] · 2015-10-23T22:44:19+00:00

Very wrong. There are none.

I don't mean to say there are no girls worth marrying because of the girl, there are no girls worth marrying because of the legal system in place.

(In the u.s.)

However you can find a good mate if you vet very carefully and are constantly on top of your shit. Ask yourself, would I stay with me for 22 years plus if I was being thrown several options a day?

Be honest with yourself, for the overwhelming majority of people, no is the only true answer.

As for where you find them, the only thing I can say is where you're looking the fish you want aren't biting. So find a new pond or change your bait.

[deleted] · 2015-10-23T23:33:04+00:00

Yes. There are no places to find a woman worth marrying.

MarlboroMan62 · 2015-10-23T23:02:30+00:00

i think you may be wrong. the church is full of the same girls that you have difficulty with on the outside. only difference is, they are at church.

its not whether a woman is in church or not in church, its just a plain fact that any woman born after 1960 may have the modern attributes to behave the way they do because the church, society, the parents and the courts allow them to. its a modern american society thing.

i went to several churches before i settled at the church im at now and i will share some observations.

one church was a mega church with over 3000 members. hey man, lots of chicks there. i even sat in with the singles sunday school class. it was very amusing. i was in my mid 40's at the time. all the divorced mad-at-the-world girls sat on one side of the room and looked at us dudes in disgust. all the outside of church sunday school events kept getting cancelled, naturally because a bunch of flaky women were in charge of setting things up.

that church was full of rich snooty folks and they would sling attitude all over the place. dont get me wrong, there were some nice folks there for the right reasons.

i went to another church on my side of town because i heard they were looking for a bass player for their music program. not one sumbitch said hello

at my regular church that i attend now, im on the outreach commitee. we visited this one hot latina that i had my eye on, and i remember she said "I just want to serve the Lord and meet a nice Christian man". I says to myself, now thats a good thing. she ended up being ill mannered to me and dragging some young guy in there, she's my age, turned out to be a cougar, i got a good chuckle out of that.

now having shared my observations, i encourage you to go to church if you feel that is what you need to do ... do your own research, dont just take my word for it. there are woman at church, lots of them, dressed up nice and behaving themselves for at least on a sunday. they are just the same girls you meet on the outside. give it a try, just dont put a ton of faith in it as the foolproof way to meet marriage worthy girls, it is simply another alternative with its own set of flaws just like any place else. I will continue to use the church as way to meet girls and being an outreach minister is a plus for me.

im not happy at the church im at now, but i like that pastor and he follows Biblical doctrine well so i will stay as long as he is there. if he goes to another church, i go with him ... if he moves out of town then I will go to one of the churches downtown ... that has a lot of women in them.

as far as where to meet a girl worth marrying? your'e going to have to consult with some of these other cats, i have no clue

Title	I've come to the conclusion that the only place to find a girl worth marrying is at church. Am I wrong?
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Date	October 23, 2015 10:20 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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