The best advice

My biggest Mentors

David X Anthony Robbins Owen Cook / Tyler

  1. Do exactly as you did!

I was extremely well rewarded by the game bacause for me it wasn't a game, I was in crisis mode and needed to change my life. I was desperate, I needed to improve my social skills no matter what. I poured my soul into getting good at this. My moto was G.F T.O.W (go fuck ten other women), I had to get to know at least 3 new women everyday. My life, i let go for this, this was my new life 100%

  1. Use all your resources!

I used to think, I have to be aligned, I'll be completely honest and open, my intentions will be shown, my heart will be so joyful and loving that there is no way someone will reject me. I only wanted the best for everybody around me, and always tried to improve the mood of the place I was in. CONGRUENCE.

  1. Own the floor you step in.

I had to be at my best. Every day was a new day and I was in love with myself first before I even said a word. People could see in me how self-loving, joyful and complete I was. I was happy out of thin air, my hi! was positive, I used to hi five random women I saw for the first time and they liked it! My confidence was completely self generated!

If you do those 3 steps right thats more than enough!

  1. Approach day after day!

I didn't just do game at night, every interaction I had anywhere at anytime was an approach, game was my attitude all the time. Never have I wanted a girlfriend, it was about quantity. You never attract one woman, you become attractive to all. By the same token, the woman is never attracted to YOU, she's attracted to the man you are, to the masculine energy.

  1. Don't feel surprised by reality!

One thing I was not expecting was the weight I would have to carry after seeing what reality is. All my prior societal beliefs were dropped. I was becoming an individual person, and I knew that my life was my responsibility from now own. My older Models, the people I thought highly of, were nothing more than brothers and sisters on the journey of life. It was my time to make myself the best i could be!

Having married women, or women with LTR wanting to fuck, took a toll on me, I was not prepared to face that reality at the time.

But learning about sexuality, understanding reality and dropping your old beliefs to create new ones based on truth, is part of the process.

  1. Get used to rejecting women!

This is something so unthinkable to a beginner, that when it happens you are not ready for. I still remember the days I rejected women that were always my dream kind of women. I suffered immensely at the time with self doubt, questioning if I was really at the level to do this. But I was growing and maturing, I was getting used to a new life I never imagined as possible. So having this kind of women in my knife now was the new normal, and I had was getting used to it.

  1. Its normal for the game to fade!

With time, this all became more normal. Game became something I was aware of, it was part of my life. So the importance i gave to it, morphed into my daily life. I got used to it, and couldn't get the same excitement from getting women as before. I focused more on other ambitions in my life. At daily interactions with women I started to dial down with my masculinity, avoiding the escalation of any sexual tension.

  1. Inner game and confidence was the best reward!

The change in my internal state, my peace, my confidence, my emotions, my feelings, was the best payout I could ever get!. Anxiety! gone, fear! gone. Getting better at game was a step of courage I took in life that made me who I am today!

It's all part of growing up. You're learning about reality.

XXX. Get comfortable with your sexuality!

It's ok to have a hard dick! You're a Man. It's part of your life. Don't get overwhelmed with it. Life is supposed to be good, and pleasurable. Work your feelings about it!

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I said nothing about concrete actions during approach, kept general and abstract. Because what you do doesn't matter!. You can pick up girls without talking!. Just with face expressions, and body language!. You just need to turn yourself 'on' to it. You need to like it, its supposed to be fun, have fun, feel the pleasure in doing it.