Help with text

Jironasaurus · 2025-07-17T13:19:20+00:00

"Are you ready for our lessons, <name>?"

"I bet our friends were wondering what we were talking about last night..."

"<name of friend> sure did a great job introducing us last night 😉"

Choose your poison.

bafun13 · 2025-07-17T13:14:55+00:00

"Wassup"

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-07-17T13:43:50+00:00

I don't get why if you could say things in person without help, now in texts you need help to say things?

You already could say anything, and the only reason you are probably asking is because you want to say the right thing to get an specific result, instead of being yourself and just not caring about the result that being yourself brings you.

Yesteryday, in person you said things that could have had any result, you didn't care apparently about the result, you just said whatever came to mind.

Now that she's given you some kind of "reward", your mind has now shifted into "i don't wanna mess it up because i got so far", so now you are needy, outcome dependent, and your vibe changes. You are not cool and authetnic anymore, now a day later you've become a guy that performs, instead of being authetnic.

Why can't you just be like yesterday in texts? You said you joke? then why not throw anotehr joke withotu caring if it lands or not? Why do you need to make sure you win? Because the more you try to win the less likely you are, due to how robotic, fake, overly careful, you will come across, which will only make you stiff and boring at best.

She didn't give you her instagram hoping you would copy/paste someone else's sense of humor or osmeone else's perosnality. She isn't even worry about what you will think of her, she is not worried to say the wrong thing, or afraid to lose her chance with you. She knows that whatever happens happens, whereas you are trying to force control over the outcome, and that is exactly why you can't get girls.

She gave you the instagram because of who you were when you didn’t care, not because you said the right thing.

You need to be willing to say anything, so instead of asking: “What should I text her?”,... ask yourself:

“What would I say if I wasn’t afraid of losing her and i just wanted to have fun”

Title	Help with text
Author	Top_Database7931
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	July 17, 2025 1:08 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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