I'm a late 20's guy who has never really put in much effort to practice game so I'm here to post my FR's here in order to accelerate my learning and solidify my understanding of the subject.

Some background information: I stupidly got married pretty young back when I thought watching a few redpill videos would somehow make me an alpha overnight. In other words, I was using redpill strategies for my bluepill goals. I've since realized that's futile and have gotten through the divorce pretty clean. I'm mostly focused on night game at the moment. Partly because it's fun and partly cause it'll make for easier lays (of which I don't have many). The good news is I'm in great shape and have style and social skills which I've noticed the benefits of. I've been to the nightclub recently twice as described below.

FR 1

Got dinner at a bar then headed to the nightclub after. Had a lot of fun despite this being my first time ever at one. Was in my head a little at first but then quickly realized I'm here and might as well make the most of it. Chatted with a few guys at the bar to loosen up and ended opening a group of four girls with the line "Who's birthday is it?". (That's been working for me regardless of whether or not it's actually someone's birthday). I was right so they immediately turned to face me and were surprised at the fact that I could guess that it was one of their birthdays and the correct age of said birthday girl. Chatted with them for a few minutes but couldn't figure out where to take the interaction so it fizzled out. I'm realizing now that I saw them playing pool with some guys later that night so that probably would've worked for me but oh well. Also I wasn't really expecting that big of a positive response from them although it did get me in the right mood.

Opened a cute chick with her friend who was super receptive and ended up dancing/grinding with her a few times throughout the night but I should've escalated and tried to pull to a separate location or at least gotten her contact info in order to try to rendezvous later because I didn't see her after she went to look for her drunk friend. Lesson learned. I also tried to get her logistics too early on the loud dancefloor instead of somewhere quiet. I did pass a shit test when I asked her about where she lived she responded, "You're not coming with me!", cue feigned disappointment from me. Probably could've just smiled and ignored it but whatever. Chatted with another girl a few times throught the night who was receptive but also standoffish while dancing with me, which I assume was due to some kind of weird dynamic with the coworkers she was there with. At least that's the vibe I got. Decided the juice wasn't worth the squeeze so I moved on. I was social all night and even chatted up the bouncer (I've since added this to my toolbox) in the lounge part of the club which was my anchor spot. Carried that good energy to a pizza spot after the place closed and kept having fun chatting with people and with some light flirting with a few chicks before going home satisfied that I put myself out there and got some experience.

FR 2

This night I focused more on dancing and having a good time which loosened me up a bit as I wasn't really feeling on top of my game at first. My goal here is usually to find the group of guys who look like like they're having the most fun and get in on that which boosts my energy. It also takes my focus of the girls which raises my outcome independence.

Complimented a chick on her cool shirt and saw her later and reopened when I saw her walking somewhere with her friend, who left us alone after we started talking which is a good sign I've noticed. I sat down with her and chatted while passing some shit tests and led her to the dancefloor for some grinding. Gave her a kiss and kept dancing when she said she had to go somewhere so I said cool and just kept dancing some more. Part of me thinks I should've kept the tension going for longer instead of kissing right then but being that it was my first ever K-close after meeting someone so quickly (around 10 minutes) I was satisfied either way. Because of that I ended up not focusing on chicks that much and just kept dancing and enjoying myself until last call.

As everybody was walking out during closing I ended up asking a dude who was with two chicks which one was his. He immediately got the hint and pointed out his girlfriend but said he'd wing for me with the other one (out of their earshot) which was cool. He slid me in their group and I introduced myself to her, to which she acted non-impressed. Played it cool for a little and kept warming her up while we all walked down the street with me and the guy working on finding a cool spot that was still open that late. She opened up and started laughing at some of my banter but her friend caught the tail-end of something I said without context and decided to kill the vibe by catching an attitude despite her boyfriend's attempts to get her to let it go. My girl ended up apologizing and giving me her snap which unsurprisingly didn't go anywhere but I was on to next anyways.

Afterwords, I ended up chipping in for a pizza with a group of 4 girls I chatted up on my walk there. Didn't really have an end goal in mind at this point besides fun. Found out they needed a ride somewhere 10 minutes away so we started walking to my car which was a short walk away. This helped strengthened my leadership skills as I handled the logistics from the pizza place to my car. While we were walking me the girl I was focused on were leading the pack and she was telling me all about herself which got kinda boring honestly. Probably should've kinoed more at this point. One of her friends kept interjecting and and even started walking ahead of us while twirling/dancing happily. Later I realized she was probably trying to get my attention which I could've rewarded a little while trying to pivot to her. (potentially easier lay)

I realized my car was dirty so to give me a chance to throw out the junk, I waited till we were close and told them to wait on a nearby bench with the justification that I didn't want to make them walk so much and that I would swing by to scoop them up. I should have had it cleaned already but honestly I wasn't expecting to have anybody in it. I wasn't familiar with the city's layout so I ended up going in circles until I got to the spot which at that point they had already left. Kind of kicked myself after, partly because my logistics sucked and partly because I didn't even get to eat a slice of pizza haha. Otherwise the night was fun.

Will post more as I continue to make progress. I appreciate any critiques or insights in advance.