You don't appoach because they give you signals, you approach because you want to, because it's what you feel like doing and the fact that you feel the impulse to approach them is a valid enough justification to do it.

And if they don't feel like meeting you, that's fair, you move on without insisting or pressuring to engage, because you only wanna keep trying if they accept your proposal to meet each other.

That impulse to approach you feel isn’t a flaw, or a risk to apologize for, it’s the only real “signal” you need to act on. Because when you do what you feel you are being honest, not just with her, but with yourself.

Logical analysis of the situation however is what prevents you from being honest with her and with yourself, because you start thinking “Does she look interested? Does she give me permission? What if she rejects me?”...

And you trap yourself in endless analysis paralysis. You end up frozen or cautious, trying to predict how she’ll react instead of trusting your own instinct to just do it. Instead of acting from genuine impulse, you’re acting from fear or calculation, which comes across as inauthentic and hesitant.

If you really don't wanna make them uncomfortable with your approach, just be polite and respectful, that's it. Approaching is not what makes people uncomfortable, it's how you do it.

If you start taling about sex right away, then yes you will make them uncomfortable, if you start asking personal questions right away for no reason, that will also make them uncomfortable because the are thinking "why does he care"... "What's his intention", "why does he assume i can stay here talking without even knowing what he wants?"

So just tell them respectfully what your intention is, simple as that, so that htey make a decision to engage with you or leave.

And what is your intention? You want to get to know them because you like something about her and would regret not trying to meet her real quick, if that's cool with her. So just tell her exactly that.

"Hey, listen i don't normally approach everybody like this, but i saw you and i really loved your style and i thought "man i want to meet this girl so bad real quick or im gonna regret it later", you feel me"

It doesn't matter if she says yes or no, if she says she is not interested, then just say "that's ok, i respect that, had to try anyway, see you". Simple as that.

Now, a few girls might ocassionally say "it's kinda weird to approach people like this", but this is a test to see if you are actually comfortable in your own skin. If you don't have the full conviction that approaching someone like that is legitimate and valid, then you will turn them off. Because why do something that you don't fully think it's right?

But if you choose to have the full conviction that approaching someone is legiitmate, simply because you feel it and feelings outweight logic, then women are more likely to relax around you because they see that you don't doubt yourself, that you don't act apologetic or defensive or guilty.

You simply act as if approaching because you feel it is the most normal and legitimate thing in the world, and they get drawn to that energy more often than not. And if they don't, it doesn't matter because you are not harming them in any way. You respect their "No" without causing drama.

So it's about having a backbone. Being sure of yourself. And stop trying to play it safe, and avoid risk at all costs. Because otherwise that shows you are spineless. And who wants a spineless boy? No one.

So remember, the only justification to cold approach a woman who did not give any clear signal or indication at all on whether she wants you to approach or not, is the fact that you feel like doing it and don't apologize for feeling it.