Just wanted to come here and let yall fellas know that life continues to be good and bad. When the good comes run with it! Bad comes learn what you can.

Since the divorce, I've been really putting myself first. I have signed up for fitness competitions, running close to 15 miles per week. Lifting weights, dropping fat %, took a week trip to Asia.

I had 0 intention in dating until in my 40's. I'm currently 34. but guess what? I connected with friend that I have met 10 years ago and we clicked now official. I can say few things that made this possible.

  1. Mental health : I stopped drowning myself about my divorce, fitness helped me to get clear future goals.
  2. Physical health : Like I mentioned. I workout 5 days minimal a week. I don't work out just to work out. I workout to compete. (I dont drink or smoke)
  3. Career Goal : After these 2 above, I focused on what I wanted for myself before I hit my 40's. and where I want to be financially. I'm on my ass on this and people see this. (dont talk the talk walk the walk)
  4. Get up early : I start my day around 6am. Lots of people see this as something to be respected. Shows you are diligent and consistent. I do this because I love getting ready a bit slowly and enjoy my breakfast.

Best of luck to all single fathers out there. Don't chase woman! let them come to you!