I have been exposed to red pill, not much and still it has immensely helped me understand women.

This silly question/thought just popped up in my head.
Red Pill says don't be an emotional tampon or venting machine for some random women.
Everything here is transactional, a women won't even look at you, if she don't see what she is looking for.
But almost every woman, be that a random friend. They are ready to use you as their venting machine.

And women know this, red pill has exposed their shit. So they created their own little badge,
"you're a good listener." This phrase is so popular, you will see it everywhere randomly. My bf is a good listener, ex was a good listener and men who read this, think - oh, yeah I want that badge too.

Listening to someone is not bad but some girl just vents on your and goes her way.
A man feels bad, wtf - that's it. She talked about herself and said bye? nothing about me?

But now, when she says - you're a good listener, a guy feels honored with that stupid little badge and doesn't even feel bad.

Just my thoughts. What do you think? is this right?