Girl i went out with yesterday admits everything TRP teaches, but....

BaconEggsAndSleaze · 2015-11-09T16:59:03+00:00

I'm curious why you assume they backed out because of TRP.

Are you sure, regardless of your gaming style, that they only wanted your validation?

Now ask yourself what would be worse - You spend a week texting a girl and she flakes, or you spend a night texting a girl and she flakes.

youeatlikeachild · 2015-11-09T18:01:08+00:00

It's worth mentioning that attractive girls on tinder generally have one or more alphas fucking them already and are hoping to tie them down.

A decent percentage of attractive girls on tinder are seeking betas and orbiters for validation, time hoes, etc. She wants more guys to take her out on dates, spend money on her, worship her etc and so if you aren't hitting that category, she just doesn't need you.

No girl below your SMV should ever flake on you without a legitimate reason, if that's the case, it's something with you, or you could also be overestimating your SMV.

It doesn't get talked about here a lot but if you are going after the top 10-20% of females, they aren't looking for multiple alphas to fuck, if they have one doing that already and keeping her chasing, she is more than likely looking for men to entertain her.

youcantdenythat · 2015-11-09T21:32:21+00:00

Yes, throw a little conversation in. In my exp pulling girls from Tinder, you need to convey 3 things to her to get a date. You should do this using as little texting as possible.

She needs to know that you are comfortable talking to women. To do this have an 10-20 message convo with her. Don't go overboard.
She needs to know that you aren't needy. To do this, stop the convo early, go silent for 24 hours. Then reply with "hey, do you have any time next week?" and set up a drink. Never try to set up a date the same day, best is 2-3 days out.
She needs to know you are not dangerous. To do this throw in a little humor, act like you are not needy and if she says she can't meet, be ready to say "Ok, maybe another time."

M3_Drifter · 2015-11-09T22:04:40+00:00

it seems being simple, stern, and to the point gets me a lot of flakes

IMO you should be simple, fun and to the point. Stern is for when a plate fucks up.

Title	Girl i went out with yesterday admits everything TRP teaches, but....
Author	RedPillN00B
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	November 9, 2015 4:08 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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