So I had been together with my ex for 5 years, she had accidently got pregnant after about 6 months of seeing each other. I moved from the UK to Portugal and set up a life.

We separated recently and I made sure I kept my house for me and my ex and my child moved out.

I'm not happy about making my son move out and especially because it's to a smaller place, but I've kept an open door policy for my ex and son (of course) to come and use my house as much as they want.

Am I wrong for keeping my house for me, it is all I've worked for over the last 20 years, selling it and setting up again just doesn't seem fair?

Further context, my ex owns the small apartment they are moving to and I paid the deposit for that apartment, but don't have my name on the title. I bought her a car and I send her money each month (no legal requirement but I will always do it), I also pay most expenses for my child including an international school fees.

We are not married so not a divorce!

I feel often it is the male to lose everything in this situation but it is genuinely just hard to find the best setup/solution for everyone.