Can anyone help me make sense of how this girl wanted to hook up with me? [Field Report]

BaconEggsAndSleaze · 2015-11-17T19:52:15+00:00

Does she know you're out of the closet?

Welcome to college, where the CC begins for most girls.

It also should show you just how easy it is for a girl to get laid.

Make sure you wear a rubber.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-11-17T20:52:57+00:00

Sometimes, God sends you pussy.

You decide if you want to fuck it or not, and if you do, wear a rubber, in case she turns out to be a petri dish.

[deleted] · 2015-11-17T19:45:21+00:00

So.. are you saying she showed up at your dorm room and you fucked her?

If that's what you're saying, then what happened is probably your running aloof asshole game on her without really knowing it.

She saw you, liked the way you look and act, you made an impression on her when you met her that one time. You talked to her like a man talks to a woman. You teased her or more likely, you just ignored her, rather than fawned all over her trying to get into her panties.

So, when she showed up at your door, one of a couple of things was probably going through her mind.

1) She was really horny and wanted to fuck, saw you were at your dorm alone and buzzing, and decided to go for it.

2) She was really horny and wanted to fuck, but also likes you very much and wants a relationship with you. She saw you were at your dorm alone and buzzing. In addition to wanting sex because of her horniness, she is hoping that her offering up some sex will cause you to notice her and that you'll now offer a relationship to her.

fnordsnord · 2015-11-17T20:07:11+00:00

You haven't really given us enough information to give you a solid answer. So here's my Scientific Wild Ass Guess:

You guys are young enough to still be in the dorms and only recently out from under direct parental supervision. My guess: she has only been devirginated recently and is now in her "experimental period."

In mah yoot, Catholic girls who went to all girl schools were FAMOUS for this type of behavior. It wasn't universal by any means, but about 1 in 4 or 1 in 5 Catholic girls would just lose their shit as soon as their Dads weren't keeping them under constant, strict watch. It's got nothing to do with being Catholic, of course, and everything to do with reacting to having grown up in a strict household.

It could, however, be the opposite. Her parents could also be "free love hippies" and she's just trying to make friends.

buddboy · 2015-11-18T02:48:22+00:00

The whole time I was a freshmen, I was in a committed ltr, and was in coed dorms...

I had nights where I was going to bed, but a girl high on ecstasy would beg me to fuck her. I would weigh her against my ltr, if my ltr was more valuable, I wouldn't fuck the random girl. Non of the girls were better than my ltr and so I didn't fuck any of them.

However if I was single, I def would have fucked some of them.

Redpill bashes sluts as their is often something wrong with them. But what I learned in my 5 years of college is that some of these girls weren't just "sluts", but were horny for me.

If you were already attracted to this girl then fool around with her. If you were not already attracted to this girl, then you don't have to do it. For example, if she is in your friend group, that could create drama. Just do what you want man. If you have good values than you won't hurt anybody. you don't need our permission to bang some slut. We look down on sluts because there is often something wrong with them. However if you like them, then just go for it. You're position isn't complicated. Do what you want without hurting anybody. Don't cheat. And don't fuck your friends gf's.

buddboy · 2015-11-18T02:51:59+00:00

The whole time I was a freshmen, I was in a committed ltr, and was in coed dorms...

I had nights where I was going to bed, but a girl high on ecstasy would beg me to fuck her. I would weigh her against my ltr, if my ltr was more valuable, I wouldn't fuck the random girl. Non of the girls were better than my ltr and so I didn't fuck any of them.

However if I was single, I def would have fucked some of them.

Redpill bashes sluts as their is often something wrong with them. But what I learned in my 5 years of college is that some of these girls weren't just "sluts", but were horny for me.

If you were already attracted to this girl then fool around with her. If you were not already attracted to this girl, then you don't have to do it. For example, if she is in your friend group, that could create drama. Just do what you want man. If you have good values than you won't hurt anybody. you don't need our permission to bang some slut. We look down on sluts because there is often something wrong with them. However if you like them, then just go for it. You're position isn't complicated. Do what you want without hurting anybody. Don't cheat. And don't fuck your friends gf's.

MattyAnon · 2015-11-18T18:27:04+00:00

What's the confusion?

She finds you attractive, tracks you down, comes round for sex. She probably liked you the first time you met, and hoped for more, and so she made it happen.

Women are occasionally quite pro-active when they want something.

Title	Can anyone help me make sense of how this girl wanted to hook up with me? [Field Report]
Author	chandlerarlen
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Date	November 17, 2015 7:25 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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