I have noticed that I analyze everything like math and science, strict, straight-forward, and only one correct answer. But social interactions and language are like art to me that I don't really understand what to do or know how to interpret the situation. I usually take the leading role in a conversation or a reporter asking questions a lot. I'm not very good at having even conversations. Acting as everything is a joke works and gets laugh and chuckles but it doesn't feel like I am building a connection.

Are even conversations with people who only think alike? Do i need to talk more for it to come to me? How should I view the conversations as? As equal or as me above? Entertainer? Is every person different and I have to find my own voice? Are there books on conversation and speaking?