Need some dead honest advice.

I 26f dating 34m

Sex very good.

We have been together over a year and have almost lived rather entire time too. He tells me he doesn’t think about sex or anything regarding it much because he’s 34 and I’m his first he’s been with. In my mind I’d imagine one would want it more than right? I’ve been with a few and been married as well and I wouldn’t say I’m the best. I’ve just had experience. Which isn’t something I hold against him. Cause it’s amazing when it does happen. I am nearly in the mood 95% of the day. Yes. We’ve discussed about how i literally cannot keep my hands off him where I pleasure him probably more than average couple. I’m not trying to compare our relationship to yours or others. But at the same time I am. I imitate 100% of the time. And I’ve expressed my wants and needs. I never get touched. Even just when I go to try cuddling. He’s just there Like I get it if he don’t want to be the one always initiating but like once in the while. Or even just him holding me. Ya know like I go to give him a hug and kiss throughout the day and he’s like a brick wall. Sometimes he’ll put his arms around me. And I know he’s a touchy guy cause I’ve experienced it with him. And I’m not sure what stopped him from doing anything. What am I not getting? Other aspects of our relationship are good. Without going into detail on that haha.