Hey guys,

Just ended a LTR I'de been in for a long time, and wanted to try tinder for the first time. Did some reading about what works and what doesn't, and attempted to use it. There was a girl I matched with that talked a lot about sushi, so I started with that. The conversation went as follows:

M= me, H = her

M: sushi every day would be glorious

H: You'd probably lose your abs lol but I'm glad my bio sparked your apetite

M: Very true, low carb diets are brutal lol. Having said that, I do still get cheat days, and your profile made me really want sushi. Going to [sushi place name] at 7 tomorrow, want to join?

H: haha you dont waste time

H: but considering you're offering sushi (my weakness) then I guess its a sushi date ;)

M: It's impossible to resist the temptations of sushi ;). What's your number?

H:It really is!

H:[number]

So texted her with my name and "see you tomorrow night".


now here’s the problem. I’ve never met someone through tinder. Been in a lot of relationships / with a lot of people, but its always started in a nightclub or other setting where you just go for it without any pre-tense. As I’ve never started with a traditional style date, I have no fucking idea what I’m doing when it comes to first impressions. When first meeting someone for a night like this, what are some good ways to greet her to impress the shit out of her / frame yourself in a sexual way?