People generally interact with each other only if they have a reason to.

It could be goal oriented - as in you need something from them or tangential - you both are in the same space at the same time for similar reasons.

These cobstant interactions is what can potentially become curiosity and understanding.

Women do not seem to want to interact with men. They have no interest.

Men on the other hand want to at a minimum have sex with women and at a maximum want to be in a long term relationship with them.

So a guy sees a girl he thinks is desirable he can't look at them and point to his cock indicating a desire to have sex.

He can't walk up to her and kiss her

He can't walk up to her and say "let's have sex"

He needs to interact with her figure out what could he offer her that she would want to continue positively interact with him and beyond that he needs to learn about her as a person.

Human beings are social creatures and are not sadistic by default. We can't help but root for each other. Hell we root for animals we empathise with. So the woman he wanted to fuck becomes someone more becomes a whole human being with desires and goals.

As a man he will learn how to put her at ease, how to be safe and how to make her laugh ... Not only as a person but also as a woman in this world.

Women don't ever really have to do that. Not nearly to the same extent.

Do I have proof? No.

But I do have tangential evidence.

The worst and most malicious takes off women's motivations for the way they behave cone from men who have had the least interaction with them..... Including me.

Like the assumption of all women being gold diggers, the myth of concious and intentional AFBB, the genuine belief that women do not care about men at all in general or personally etc are all held by men who have the least interaction with women

The worst assumptions of mens motivations on the other hand - the desire to have power, intentional oppression, just waiting to take advantage, just waiting to rape ---- there is no experience inexperience dichotomy her ... The woman saying this hateful rhetoric is just as likely to be a femcel as she is likely to be married with kids.

It's a loathsome level of ignorance.

Women remark they hate men who start becoming feminist once they become dad's.

How much more deserving of hate are the women who do not understand men