21 years married. We’re both LL, but mine has picked back up in recent years, leading to some frustration.

We could both stand to learn more on the subject of intimacy, but haven’t prioritized it. Mental health problems on my side; mostly stemming from the marital stress.

Significant credit card debt. School loans. I make more money so alimony, child support despite joint custody?, reestablishing a home, lawyers, how do people address these in my situation?

Advice appreciated!