It is obvious when they describe dating. It always sounds like a chore to do, spend time with her, plan, talk to her, entertain, meet, and it's all without any guarantee of sex.
The thing is it's not supposed to be like that. You should like person you date enough to find a pleasure in their company. You should like them enough to actually want to spend time with them. I can understand first date, you check for that, but if you don't find that pleasure you simply leave.
Planning isn't supposed to be that hard of a chore. It's just to find comfortable place where you can talk. Some men describe it like they should build it before the date.
It's basically obvious that they don't like women, don't want to spend time with them, see no reason in that except to get sex, which they mostly fail to do. The issue is that attitude is obvious and women in majority want to feel liked, and if you fail to do that - they will more likely than not leave.
