I'm incredibly clumsy, I have no experience whatsoever.

And I seem weird even to those who like me. Once I get to know someone, I open up a bit. My current friends are all people I met online. It started with a group chat, then it progressed to phone calls, and finally to meetups. But in person, I'm a disaster.

In fact, paradoxically, I know I could much more easily find someone on a dating app.

I have decent numbers on dating apps, and I could probably get better if they didn't mistake me for a catfish so often. But I'm not finding my target. I might find a target at a speed dating event I might attend soon.

Speed ​​dating could be easier for me because it's also based on attraction. But I'd like to avoid exuding anxiety, tense body language, etc.

I was thinking about random video chats as a way to gain experience. How would you advise me to handle this?

Any other suggestions or ideas are highly welcome.