The Ebstein double standard

vikingosegundo · 2026-02-27T22:37:12+00:00

I dated A for a few month. It was great. The sex too. just one thing: She kept biting me. Not some love nibbling — no, full force, black bruises and dental imprints. Each time I told her that it hurts asf and that I don't like it. Each time I explicitly told her not to do it again.

One day we had plans with her friends. I brewed some coffee, brought it to the bed and woke her with a kiss on the cheek. We had brunch and headed out. It was a nice day — and the last time I ever saw her.

4 years later she reached out. She needed some data I had backed up for her.
I asked her, why she disappeared. She said: "You abused me sexually, you are a terrible person"
After some back and forth she explained: I had not asked for consent before waking her with a kiss. There-for it was abuse.
I asked her, if repeatedly biting me not only without my consent but me asking her not to do it again and again also was sexual abuse? she: "Haha, no, that was fun"

New-Distribution6033 · 2026-03-02T18:06:11+00:00

Meh.

Honestly, I don't like this guy's messaging. If he were to just argue that feminism leads to such biases, sure, fine. But whe he starts in with "women do this" "eomen are like that." He is doing the same poor thinking that individuals like Clementine Ford grift their audience with.

Title	The Ebstein double standard
Author	roharareddit
Upvotes	42
Comments	6
Date	February 27, 2026 10:18 PM UTC (5 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1rgks6j/the_ebstein_double_standard/
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