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Even on the very paragraph you have an issue with, you're throwing a very valid "baby" away with the bathwater. Gay men are more discriminated against than lesbians in general.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 05:21 PM
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If you think that someone getting something wrong 'invalidates them', you might just be daft. Don't throw that baby away with the bathwater
/r/MensRights25/07/26 11:45 PM
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That's a good point. Rich people's spouses often get to live that good life with FAR less hard work to earn it.
/r/MensRights14/07/26 10:21 PM
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I guess the question would be what % of companies that go to venture capitalists are run by men?
/r/MensRights13/07/26 11:17 PM
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Just basic stats. Also there are so many irrelevant arguments in your comment. Obviously grand slams bring in more revenue - they have bigger names. On the topic of who's a bigger draw, if you look at the long term average of Wimbledon viewership for men's and women's singles tennis, men's tennis on average get significantly more viewership.
/r/MensRights10/07/26 09:00 PM
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I'm not the biggest fan of hers but that does seem to be a baseless rumour
/r/MensRights09/07/26 08:22 AM
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Pressing that button might be the best moment of my life
/r/MensRights08/07/26 01:42 PM
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Strongly disagree
/r/MensRights05/07/26 12:41 AM
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It bothers me as well
/r/MensRights03/07/26 10:38 PM
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It says something about how men and boys are treated in our societies that you feel you have to cushion your post (which isn't even actually spicy) about legitimate issues with self-shaming language like "incel". Also, I don't think your post is strictly a product of just gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria might be more likely to be the explanation if the things you listed weren't real male disadvantages.
/r/MensRights02/07/26 11:46 PM
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I think that that pipeline towards the MRM isn't always the best.
/r/MensRights02/07/26 11:18 PM
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I am regularly frustrated by MRAs saying tradcon talking points. Imposing gendered stereotypes and norms and pressures on men is not good for men. It is the enemy of gender equality. It does not benefit men to be expected to do the hardest labour, and to be expected to sacrifice themselves for others (even strangers sometimes) because they're men, and to face the toughest of financial pressures without much help.
/r/MensRights02/07/26 11:16 PM
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You're being as embarrassing as "the other side".
/r/MensRights30/06/26 07:10 AM
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I'm being serious
/r/MensRights29/06/26 08:03 PM
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What does your gender have to do with anything?
/r/MensRights29/06/26 06:51 PM
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Also I'm just pointing out a double standard. This whole thing doesn't deserve to be a big issue anyway but you can blame feminists for that.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 06:49 PM
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This does not match what I've seen.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 06:48 PM
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I just looked at the best publicly available information on this topic for the last 20 years and you must be ignorant (or stupid) as hell to hold firm in your overall stance.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 06:45 PM
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I'd be embarrassed if I sounded as arrogant as ypu and, at the same time, knew as little as you do. Look up the average final viewing numbers for the last decade for a more reliable understanding.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 06:42 PM
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A lot of daft assumptions right there
/r/MensRights29/06/26 06:40 PM
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"cHeRrY-PiCkiNG". The figures he stated are a pretty damn good reflection of the last 10 year average. Do you even do any research before you do your internet white knighting?
/r/MensRights29/06/26 11:26 AM
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Holy smokes, your arguments are terrible
/r/MensRights29/06/26 11:14 AM
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Firstly, even individual male issues don't get half the attention individual female issues do. Secondly, that argument exists as a product of a world where, on a very significant level, most of us are trained to overdiagnose misogyny and underdiagnose misandry. Think about forced to penetrate vs rape. Think of blatant lies about who's more discriminated against in hiring. Think about the copious number of lies that mainstream society believes thanks to feminism. Think about how society responds …
/r/MensRights29/06/26 10:38 AM
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But, at the same time, men's issues in general don't get even half of the attention women's issues do.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 09:52 AM
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Possibly the most famous MRA is a woman.
/r/MensRights24/06/26 08:54 AM
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Their immigration rhetoric is massively about foreign MEN bad, white WOMEN innocent and more worthy of care than anyone else.
/r/MensRights24/06/26 08:52 AM
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The right wing is all gynocentric. They care soooo much more about white women's wellbeing than anyone else's, and they often rely on misandry to sell their policies. I know some people here may think the right wing must be kind towards men because the left wing is so openly vile towards men, but right wing DEFINITELY does not equal being positive for men.
/r/MensRights23/06/26 03:20 PM
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They're still super gynocentric. Just maybe a bit less bigoted towards men. They're not great still.
/r/MensRights23/06/26 10:34 AM
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I hear what you're saying and while I think there's some weight in the agency argument, I think that 'them simply not thinking about men's issues' could perhaps more easily be explained by there just being EXTREMELY low compassion towards men.
/r/MensRights20/06/26 09:54 PM
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A really good exercise to illustrate that hatred is to replace "men" with "black people" in those sentences and see if it sounds disgustingly bigoted. Fair warning though, I've actually heard that be called whataboutism 😑. After all, being male is far more of a risk factor in getting worse criminal punishments or being beaten by the police than being black is - men are MASSIVELY systematically stereotyped as being violent animals anyway (and misandry actively feeds into that).
/r/MensRights20/06/26 09:50 PM
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And this was posted her because....... Sometimes I think this subreddit needs to approve posts before they get posted
/r/MensRights20/06/26 06:04 PM
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"Every reason to hate"????????
/r/MensRights19/06/26 09:58 PM
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Paid work where you're employed by someone
/r/MensRights17/06/26 07:15 PM
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Yes. I can't share the link for some reason. It's from pew research. If you care deeply enough about reading the source, you can search this topic up in connection with pew research.
/r/MensRights17/06/26 07:14 PM
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Lel
/r/MensRights17/06/26 06:47 PM
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Not too hard to find. Not sure you'll be open minded enough for it to mean anything to you.
/r/MensRights17/06/26 06:22 PM
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You're objectively wrong
/r/MensRights08/06/26 11:58 AM
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All of those places vary a lot in what they give calorie-wise. 2500kcal a day (or even near it) is, however, very often not the standard.
/r/MensRights08/06/26 10:15 AM
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More oppression against men in the west at least
/r/MensRights21/05/26 12:11 PM
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Also who's bigger on average is a shitty test for who deserves more basic compassion
/r/MensRights21/05/26 12:05 PM
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And women are overall more protected from violence anyway.....
/r/MensRights21/05/26 12:04 PM
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I believe that's a term used by ignorant people and those acting in bad faith
/r/MensRights15/05/26 10:31 AM
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They miss that society is generally meaner to trans women than it is to trans men largely because of misandry. Almost all biological men can't escape misandry - transition or not.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 09:08 PM
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I'm afraid you're the only source of information I trust
/r/MensRights05/05/26 04:00 PM
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I feel a sense of shame from even just meeting eyes with a woman. I know I shouldn't but I do. Women can take videos of men looking in their general direction for less than a second and conclude that that makes the man a creep. I feel like society is constantly trying to get me to believe that male sexuality is inherently cancerous and disgusting.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 03:29 PM
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I think you've just not seen the video(s) I'm referring to
/r/MensRights04/05/26 08:37 PM
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Do you imagine it's better being a man in Scotland than England?
/r/MensRights04/05/26 02:10 PM
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Just factually, a lot of the issues men face in different western countries are similar. That being said, some are unique to certain countries, and the UK generally seems to be worse than the US.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 07:39 AM
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This is exactly what I mean. She says kind things towards men AND she propagates harmful stereotypes. For example, she talked about how it's reasonable for women to treat "men" with caution and the key example she brought up was apparently men kidnap female joggers (to say the rate of occurrence for that is negligible would be the understatement of the year).
/r/MensRights03/05/26 09:58 PM
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I think having ads is understandable. I'm not too familiar with her but I think ads are acceptable.
/r/MensRights03/05/26 08:11 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/MensRights02/05/26 02:16 PM
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Lots of people have their achievements devalued
/r/MensRights01/05/26 10:40 PM
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I've never seen a feminist talk about it from an angle of 'society beating men down'. I see them more use it to tell men to just be better. If they accepted the raw deals men get from society, they'd not just shut down all incel complaints. Their focus on the male loneliness epidemic seems to have far more to do with them controlling the discussion surrounding men's issues. They'd probably much rather talk about that than the male sentencing gap as just 1 example.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 11:29 AM
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Is a black person who views white people as superior racist towards white people or black people?
/r/MensRights30/04/26 10:31 PM
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Don't assume. I'm not him but I feel the exact same way and I'd take being a woman over a man any day of the week.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 10:28 PM
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I feel the same to such a crazy extent. I know the people here telling you to accept yourself probably have good intentions but at the same time, what you want is 100% valid and I think it's more wrong to force yourself to not want what you want
/r/MensRights30/04/26 10:26 PM
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I see significantly more feminists talk about it than MRAs
/r/MensRights30/04/26 10:15 PM
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No to both questions?
/r/MensRights30/04/26 09:11 AM
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But I thought women were all innocent and stuff, and could never do what those vile pig men do? /s Either that or it's the case that bad people do bad things but when that bad person is a woman they're just less likely to get called out/bashed for it.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:40 AM
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"Believe men" is just as absurd as "Believe women".
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:28 AM
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/r/MensRights25/04/26 03:36 PM
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Hopefully that doesn't happen
/r/MensRights25/04/26 02:50 PM
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I think your opinion is valid. That's why I believe this is subjective. For me, I'd hate to have all the pressure be on me and still be perceived as privileged and as an oppressor. That's worse to me. I think it all comes down to what people value most individually. You could male a similar argument about male disposability though which, even in those cultures, weirdly exists at the same time. Violence against women is still seen as worse there. It would suck to know your life matters less.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 02:49 PM
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I think it's subjective who gets treated better overall.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 11:33 AM
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The former.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 09:39 AM
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Dignitas? I'm in a similar situation to you and am wondering what I'd need to take the Switzerland route
/r/MensRights25/04/26 09:36 AM
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No?
/r/MensRights25/04/26 09:20 AM
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Can't wait for the documentaries about this
/r/MensRights25/04/26 09:08 AM
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Feminists can spin privilege into victimhood
/r/MensRights25/04/26 08:54 AM
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Jeepers creepers is a great horror movie
/r/MensRights24/04/26 08:39 PM
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Good reply
/r/MensRights24/04/26 04:00 PM
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An adequate justification implies the reason for committing harm is good enough to make the harm acceptable.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 03:28 PM
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How much of the public do you think excuses female violence as "probably being justified"? How much of the public do you think excuses male violence as "probably being justified"?
/r/MensRights24/04/26 10:30 AM
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I'm yet to see multiple comment sections share that sentiment. You're an absolute fool if you think this is truly a both ways issue.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 10:26 AM
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I'm sorry you went through that. Did she get the 75k?
/r/MensRights24/04/26 08:14 AM
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A touch heteronormative of me perhaps
/r/MensRights23/04/26 11:12 PM
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In your chart, did you mean "Female Violent" instead of "Partner Violent"? Otherwise could you explain what that means?
/r/MensRights23/04/26 10:55 PM
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Agree to disagree
/r/MensRights23/04/26 10:25 PM
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I don't think that's the definition of it.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 08:19 PM
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How about modern media and movies? How about men being called trash in real life and online? How about the many many misandrist comments I regularly hear? Do you have your eyes shut? Why are you here? Why not fuck off to literally the majority of subreddits where you'll fit in perfectly?
/r/MensRights23/04/26 01:48 PM
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They project in-group bias onto men. If they were correct, maybe MGM would be illegal, or maybe men would have reproductive rights, or maybe the government would do a bit more to tackle any of the many important issues facing men and boys. Even then, that'd just be equal treatment to women but it says something that all those male politicians can't even do that. I've said it before and I'll say it again. All those men being in those powerful positions does most men no or next to no good when the…
/r/MensRights21/04/26 08:35 PM
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These are things that are demonized: men looking at women for a second in certain normal contexts. Men taking pictures of scenery (I've personally seen this where a man will take a picture of something, a woman pops up out of nowhere and the man is punished for it because obviously he's a dirty man). Men simply watching porn. Men wanting what they want sometimes which is just sex and not a relationship with it. The wide wide range of actions that a woman could get away with but a man would be ca…
/r/MensRights17/04/26 06:21 AM
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I don't know if the average woman lets onlyfans have a big impact on their lives
/r/MensRights17/04/26 06:08 AM
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Maybe you live somewhere where this isn't common. My advice is never come to the UK.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 09:17 PM
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This is a corner of the internet. The rest of our lives are spent in the outside world. Downvoting is perfectly respectable and a lot better than removing comments. You're quite a contrarian fella but this is definitely not a "both sides" kind of issue if you take a genuine look at it.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 05:20 PM
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I also never said you said that. I simply asked.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 02:33 PM
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That being said, as far as I've heard, Restore only plan on undoing the recent decriminalisation of extremely late term abortion. I'm pro-choice and even I'd say that's not really going out on the offensive.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 01:56 PM
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Trad cons make my head spin
/r/MensRights16/04/26 01:44 PM
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I agree that that's nice but it's so sad that that's where the bar is for a party being good to men. If you look at what restore say, they care SO much more about women than they do men. Have you noticed how every political party blames men? It's just different races of men depending on the party.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 11:40 AM
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Genuine question: what does restore say about the issues of men?
/r/MensRights16/04/26 11:34 AM
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Who said I downvoted you? I'm aware that focusing on women drums up public support. I'm also gonna lose respect for any party that reinforces gynocentrism for political purposes.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 11:29 AM
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"Wamen wamen wamen". If he just spoke about demographic change, that'd be fair enough. He instead is obsessed with unsubstantiated claims about how it impacts women.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 11:21 AM
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Gynocentrism is key to their immigration stance.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 10:54 AM
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Is there a link to it in the article? The tin men also has a post about it with direct quotes, graphs etc. . Alternatively search up the researcher Corey Clarke (I think that's her name - she's a well respected researcher from UPenn I believe).
/r/MensRights14/04/26 08:12 AM
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I'm not opposed to this but I find it interesting that this exists in the same country that has openly misandrist prison reforms. Obviously one gender matters and the other one doesn't.
/r/MensRights13/04/26 07:42 PM
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This is written by the author of the study: https://www.queermajority.com/essays-all/success-men-now-face-more-hiring-discrimination
/r/MensRights13/04/26 04:10 PM
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Could it possibly have anything to do with the fact that the largest meta analysis on hiring discrimination finds that men are more discriminated against than women are? Would NPR call women out for their female privilege?
/r/MensRights12/04/26 04:50 PM
3

You may be surprised to read this but I completely understand why someone wouldn't like becoming a minority of the population in their own indigenous land. The issue here is that you didn't take my note at the start of my post in good faith. My post was actually not about my stance on the immigration debate. It was in fact about how misandry and gynocentrism shouldn't be used as tools in the immigration debate.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 06:24 PM
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👍
/r/MensRights11/04/26 06:17 PM
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I apologise for coming out hot. The reason I brought up subtext is they clearly bring up the fact that a lot of these illegal immigrants are male because they're presenting that as an inherently negative thing. That impacts us British men too - it's a big reason why we get dehumanized and why we face worse punishments for the same crimes. I think many people missed the point of my post. When I said I'm not commenting on whether or not I support immigration, I meant it. This may surprise people i…
/r/MensRights11/04/26 05:36 PM
1

Misandrist hands typed your comment
/r/MensRights11/04/26 05:14 PM
2

Misandrist hands typed your comment
/r/MensRights11/04/26 05:12 PM
7

You're right, people do perceive men as threatening
/r/MensRights11/04/26 04:58 PM
3

Do you know what subtext is?
/r/MensRights11/04/26 04:57 PM
13

It's both. "Fighting age males" is specified because it drums up stereotypes about men.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 02:23 PM
13

It says something about the lack of compassion and care for men in politics, that men flock to the right wing, when the right wing does very little good for men and probably harms them more than they hurt them. It's disturbing that many men see the right wing as the kindest option for them. I guess it's better than the far more active demonisation that comes from the other political side.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 02:21 PM
18

Did the Nazis centre Jews? MANY FEMINISTS WILL ALWAYS FIND ANY WAY TO MAINTAIN PERCEIVED VICTIMHOOD.
/r/MensRights27/03/26 12:11 PM
13

Ngl haven't seen too much of that. Not strictly denying it though.
/r/MensRights26/03/26 10:35 PM
11

If you wanna bash men's rights, why not go to the vast majority of other spaces in society. You'd fit in great.
/r/MensRights26/03/26 06:54 AM
29

I wish feminists, as a whole, could be more like their dictionary definition and less like what they tend to be in reality.
/r/MensRights25/03/26 10:24 PM
1

Men of colour in the UK get higher punishments AND get social currency and sympathy from it. White men still get worse punishments than the 50% of the population that is female but the empathy and social currency doesn't come with it.
/r/MensRights24/03/26 09:07 PM
1

I think you may not recognise the advantages you have
/r/MensRights24/03/26 08:48 PM
1

People like you are so exhausting and blatantly incorrect
/r/MensRights24/03/26 02:36 PM
3

You're a lot more confident than you are accurate.
/r/MensRights24/03/26 02:33 PM
2

That'd probably be askstraightbros
/r/MensRights24/03/26 02:27 PM
16

Wouldn't that be rape?
/r/MensRights24/03/26 02:27 PM
38

I think misandry sometimes causes misogyny. The end product is hating women for their gender - the journey to that point can have to do with cultural misandry. That being said, the comment section here is so mature. A FAR CRY from comment sections full of people laughing at a man getting violently assaulted.
/r/MensRights22/03/26 07:39 AM
21

The whole of society is constantly kissing your ass. How insecure do you have to be to come to this corner of the Internet? Also, with the level of logical thinking I'm used to from feminists, I'm not surprised you think this post is pAtRiArChY
/r/MensRights20/03/26 10:50 AM
1

I think openly talking about ways in which society is failing men and boys is important because I'm yet to really see much of that on TV. This could be a step towards helping men in general.
/r/MensRights18/03/26 07:19 PM
12

I hope your documentary does good things for men and boys (and breaks the mould by not portraying/editing them the way an establishment mouthpiece like Louis Theroux would). That being said, it may be hard to get men to fully openly detail the raw deal men get from society, because they know how much they could get penalised for that. Unfortunately, well behaved men don't change the present and there are real-world consequences to not being well behaved. I'm gonna have to pass on this but good l…
/r/MensRights18/03/26 07:03 PM
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I don't mean to come off too strong but is the message of this documentary gonna be that all we need to do to solve all our problems is to be less "toxic"? I'm just cautious since I'm not used to genuine good faith compassion from mainstream media. Generally, I think the position of young men and boys in the UK is very tough. We're taught shame by schools, media and entertainment. It's made pretty clear to us that the violence we face doesn't really matter, and that we're just not as worthy, and…
/r/MensRights18/03/26 05:20 PM
6

It is impossible to be a man who cares about men's rights and to not be familiar with lots of loud voices that oppose advocacy for your rights.
/r/MensRights16/03/26 11:45 AM
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It is beyond wild to say that men, arguing for men's issues, can be used to seeing no opposition. I'm sorry but that's a legitimately wild view of the world. Many things are "both sides" kind of issues - for example, there's hatred on both sides. This, however, is not one of them.
/r/MensRights16/03/26 06:45 AM
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Theroux needs funding and Starmer needs votes. You have a much easier time getting both of those when you're biased in favour of women and against men.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 08:48 PM
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Some women are so used to facing no opposition whatsoever that they'll go to war with people who are actually on their side.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 07:43 PM
17

If I were to cut off people who've been openly misandrist in front of me, I'd have to cut off my parents, both my sisters, my grandparents, several of my aunts, and a good chunk of my colleagues. The amount of people I've seen make misogynistic remarks are FAR lower. With all due respect, it's not a comparison, and I think you'd do well to assume less about my experiences.
/r/MensRights13/03/26 08:07 AM
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Or maybe your mind can't comprehend when it does happen
/r/MensRights13/03/26 07:55 AM
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Cos it's not happening to you, it's not happening huh?
/r/MensRights13/03/26 07:54 AM
2

I hate this false narrative
/r/MensRights13/03/26 07:08 AM
6

What do you mean by that, sorry?
/r/MensRights07/03/26 10:29 PM
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So many women (and most of mainstream society) don't believe the male experience is worth getting to understand.
/r/MensRights06/03/26 06:55 AM
1

Isn't it a green party rule that you can't disagree with a woman?
/r/MensRights05/03/26 10:33 PM
2

Is it impossible to escape misandry?
/r/MensRights05/03/26 08:04 AM
1

Trans women can't escape misandry.
/r/MensRights04/03/26 02:25 PM
3

I literally said we should study the past. It's also however undeniably true that the present is far more important. We ought to be capable of recognising both of those things. Feels like you might be arguing for the sake of it.
/r/MensRights04/03/26 07:00 AM
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I've lived in a muslim-majority country and gay acts I did there were considered illegal. I know that what I said is context specific. That being said, if you live in the west today, the situation that matters is what is happening in your country at this time. The past can be interesting to study but people should know it's quite a few tiers below the present in regards to importance.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 03:54 PM
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I get that. I feel like regardless of whether you're a straight man, a bi man, a gay man or anything else, your sexual orientation will be pathologized. Straight men are seen as oppressive monsters for just being attracted to women. Homophobia has historically (and also currently) been more severely targeted towards men. It's well documented how poorly so many women treat bisexual men - bi men were seen as a gateway for AIDs to get from queer spaces to heterosexual spaces and that distrust of bi…
/r/MensRights03/03/26 09:18 AM
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I'm a bisexual man and I think men are heavily shamed regardless of their orientation. That being said, It's great not being straight. I feel overall far more shamed for my attraction to women. I've seen homophobia as well but that was never as systemically acceptable as the "straight-man-bashing". Men who are attracted to women are viewed as monsters just for the sin of being who they are naturally. Homophobia I've faced has definitely been uncomfortable but I never felt like wider society supp…
/r/MensRights03/03/26 08:53 AM
1

I don't have to be the target audience to have a valid and accurate opinion.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 01:06 PM
1

Firstly, I'm not even white. I can just see reality. Secondly, I claim lack of compassion because that's correct. This reminds me of the world leading researcher on incels who said that when he talks to people about the struggles of black or brown incels, people actually respond with compassion. When he speaks about the struggles of white incels, people respond with dismissal. Quite literally, that's what compassion is. Also CEOs are rich, yes. You may think they receive compassion because women…
/r/MensRights28/02/26 01:05 PM
3

I know white-looking people with Muslim names who've been stopped by black people and were being harassed until they told the black people their Muslim names and then they were let go because they aren't "actually white". Rude racist interactions happen to all groups. It's just the case that minorities receive compassion from the mainstream. White people, not so much.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 12:56 PM
1

When was the last time a major mainstream not-really-that-controversial TV show was produced that's whole point was to unashamedly attack and shame your entire race?
/r/MensRights28/02/26 12:53 PM
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Piss poor test for compassion.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 12:50 PM
1

Actually I think the right wing is least compassionate towards men of colour and the left wing is least compassionate towards ALL white men. The difference is that the left wing has far more control over mainstream institutions. Therefore, white men are at the bottom overall.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 12:33 PM
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I don't think the general public buys that group's "oppression" as much as they do with women.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 12:18 PM
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White men are nowhere but the bottom. A tall white man is actually seen as more of a threat. You're kidding yourself if you think white men aren't at the bottom of the compassion hierarchy.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 12:13 PM
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I've genuinely heard women say that men can't be sexually assaulted by women. It's INSANE and objectively false. Women are used to getting away with things. They know they can get away with inappropriate behaviour and they'll sometimes even admit that. Honestly, I wouldn't feel comfortable dating a woman. There's such an inherent power imbalance. I have to potentially walk on eggshells with my own partner, they can do whatever the fuck they want because who'd even take a man seriously if he accu…
/r/MensRights28/02/26 10:17 AM
10

San Fran are gonna have a stacked roster next year
/r/MensRights28/02/26 09:57 AM
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Few things are more gynocentric than UK media.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 09:55 AM
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The main reason the lefties cared so much more about Palestinians than they did Ukrainians was because Palestinians tend to be brown. Let's not kid ourselves, even in the west, a white boy can't get no compassion. A white girl, yes. A white boy, no.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 09:54 AM
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Prenups don't have to be abided by when it actually matters. Who's gonna control and change the mindsets of a very gynocentric gender? What you're describing is la la land.
/r/MensRights26/02/26 09:31 AM
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If they release movies about struggles that boys/men have and they don't come to the conclusion that all you need to solve your problems is just shedding your toxic masculinity, I will become a Disney fan. I need that and a strict "no misandry" rule.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 11:57 AM
3

Have as much power as you want, you don't have more power than the government, the courts, and the other societal institutions.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 11:52 AM
3

Everyone ought to know that perceived victimhood is power. Who'd give that up?
/r/MensRights25/02/26 11:38 AM
4

So many British men are wrapped around feminism finger. I wouldn't mind it if they were egalitarian but they're such self-hating feminists also. I've got 0.00 respect for a man like that.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 09:41 AM
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Ah the life of a man/boy
/r/MensRights22/02/26 09:39 AM
6

Free skydiving for all lgbt people once the demographics shift enough
/r/MensRights22/02/26 09:32 AM
8

A technique that's been around for a long time. Wanna get people passionate about an issue? Say it hurts young white women the most. Tried and tested.
/r/MensRights21/02/26 03:21 PM
4

I think he may mean those politicians might have to choose between their focus on women and their focus on ethnic minorities
/r/MensRights21/02/26 03:01 PM
92

Talk about systemic victim blaming
/r/MensRights21/02/26 02:47 PM
89

2 complete shitholes
/r/MensRights21/02/26 02:31 PM
11

Be an autistic man.
/r/MensRights21/02/26 02:18 PM
1

I feel for you, brother.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 02:16 AM
4

It's kind of you to show compassion towards a vile bigot
/r/MensRights14/02/26 11:40 AM
7

As a bisexual man (someone who's seen how it is on both sides), I can attest to queer privilege.
/r/MensRights14/02/26 11:39 AM
1

Imagine being dumb enough to think the gender sentencing gap benefits men
/r/MensRights12/02/26 10:03 PM
3

I'm in awe of your intelligence and maturity.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 09:06 PM
21

This is the classic male sexual assault survivor experience
/r/MensRights12/02/26 07:38 AM
1

Thank you for making my point better
/r/MensRights11/02/26 09:03 PM
1

WRONG (at least where I live)
/r/MensRights10/02/26 11:22 PM
1

They've gone after many white men for mundane shit. In fact, they have to often show restraint around minorities - at least the liberal ones (the majority of them) do. If you want a slam dunk example, look at the UK. Right wingers focus on asian grooming gangs but the feminist machine is FAAAR more trained on young white men and boys. Also, what Tyler The Creator said in his lyrics is SIGNIFICANTLY worse than what Robin Thicke said in Blurred Lines, and Robin Thicke got a way bigger backlash tha…
/r/MensRights10/02/26 11:20 PM
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Tried it. Wouldn't recommend it.
/r/MensRights10/02/26 11:13 PM
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This is the end product of dehumanization. Unfortunately we are a group that has been largely dehumanized.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 10:13 PM
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Are we gonna have an article about how unfriendly a workplace McDonald's is for men? Naaaa, if McDonald's regularly played songs openly spewing hatred towards women however, we'd see articles about how sad it makes women who work there feel and we'd be having a big societal discussion about the hatred of women in the music industry.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 09:11 PM
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Interesting that you avoid focusing on the two misandrist songs. I'm annoyed by the societal double standard that allows one gender to do things to a far greater degree than the other gender can.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 08:51 PM
3

Very bad. Suicidal.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 08:24 PM
23

No self-respecting man would pay any money to an artist who is openly bigoted against men.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 08:00 PM
45

One song about how boys are nothing but trouble, that kings and queens song (but the kings are getting comparatively put down), and one charli xcx song (super gynocentric more than misandrist).
/r/MensRights08/02/26 05:44 PM
2

If you hired the services of an accountant and you didn't get the service promised, I wonder whether other accountants would say you're not entitled to that accountants' services?
/r/MensRights07/02/26 01:59 PM
1

What I'm trying to get at is would you say you encounter much gender-based bias from individual people at work?
/r/MensRights30/01/26 09:31 PM
1

Have you seen much individual bias or was it only that small town guy? Also how long ago was that small town experience?
/r/MensRights30/01/26 09:14 PM
1

That's so interesting. And in any of the jobs you've worked in, would you say there's a gender based difference in who's taken more seriously?
/r/MensRights30/01/26 08:37 PM
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Is your second sentence in regards to women? Also have women been taken seriously in other places you've worked/studied?
/r/MensRights30/01/26 08:33 PM
1

And do you mind me asking if you work in an office job or what kind of field?
/r/MensRights30/01/26 08:31 PM
1

Have you worked with men and do you find that you and other women are dismissed or not taken seriously by them more than other men are? I'm just really interested because I've witnessed so many male-female interactions and never seen women be taken less seriously. Now, sometimes a man may be dismissive but I've seen those types of men be dismissive of other men (including myself) as well - some people are just dicks.
/r/MensRights30/01/26 02:37 PM
1

So you've never seen the narrative of men taking women less seriously play out?
/r/MensRights29/01/26 04:54 PM
1

By "those places", do you mean workplaces?
/r/MensRights29/01/26 02:34 PM
1

Why do you think women genuinely believe they experience this? Do you think it's the lense they interpret things through? Do you think it's something else?
/r/MensRights29/01/26 01:53 AM
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Fair enough. I was just interested in anecdotes because I don't know whether there are reliable and fair studies on third party male observation of this feminist claim. Also I imagine you have seen lots of general male-female interactions at work, right?
/r/MensRights29/01/26 01:23 AM
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I'm more interested in personal interactions you've witnessed. Have you seen female-male interactions in work and what did you personally see in regards to the subject matter of this post?
/r/MensRights29/01/26 12:57 AM
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My post went WAY over your head, huh?
/r/MensRights29/01/26 12:31 AM
5

I've seen a trend where the women are all wonderful in movies and the men are terrible
/r/MensRights27/01/26 03:25 PM
13

That would make life a lot easier if you live in the UK
/r/MensRights22/01/26 10:17 PM
8

You have an extraordinarily narrow understanding of what makes rape possible/impossible
/r/MensRights22/01/26 10:07 PM
4

I have to say, I don't like those jokes either, and I think sentiments like that are bad for this subreddit.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 10:02 PM
1

Most young men I know won't hug a male friend
/r/MensRights20/01/26 06:14 PM
0

Most young men I know won't hug a male friend
/r/MensRights20/01/26 06:13 PM
3

Nothing annoys me more than people who feel they have to grovel every time they talk about men's issues.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 01:45 PM
1

That's so interesting. I guess I wish the women in my life were a bit more like the women you see.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 05:06 AM
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Look at campaigns men run or contribute to to help women in areas where men actually have it worse. Look at the extraordinary amount of men who put women on a pedestal above all men. Look at the research that literally says this. Look at basic evolutionary psychology. Look at how many more men talk about women's issues than men's issues. Look at men generally doing the roughest and dirtiest jobs so that others won't need to. Look at the stats on what % of risky stranger rescues are done by men (…
/r/MensRights15/01/26 04:45 AM
10

It's sad that the DV and mental health spaces are like that but, honestly, I'm not surprised. This is the space that was/is associated with the insane bigotry that we know as the Duluth model. Also the first-hand anecdotes I've heard about the experiences of men studying psychology are so often grim (especially since misandry just won't be institutionally called out). Misandrist spaces breed misandry.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 04:26 AM
8

In my real life experiences of interacting with both men and women, I've found that women are empathetic to women's struggles, animals, children, and even the non-male-specific struggles of individual men. However, I've seen no such empathy towards "men's struggles". I've seen a lot more vitriol than compassion. I have seen some compassion but it's rare. In regards to men, I see less publicly displayed compassion than I see from women. However, the group I see men show the most compassion toward…
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:09 AM
7

That's good to hear
/r/MensRights15/01/26 02:53 AM
8

Tbf I once did a post here asking women what made them come around to men's issues and that got really good engagement
/r/MensRights15/01/26 02:53 AM
2

I think that victimhood narratives are often used to exploit. At the same time, I get what you mean about that. You already know people are lumping us all in with groypers so there a perhaps unfair high amount of pressure on us to distance ourselves from the Fuentes fanboys.
/r/MensRights14/01/26 10:30 PM
1

What an idiotic nonsensical response.
/r/MensRights14/01/26 09:44 PM
2

You seem like somebody who likes a scrap. "called those who killed babies "baby killers"". <---- so you think it's fair for every single young man who was forced to fight to be called a baby killer regardless of whether he did or did not kill a baby. Terrific logic! Also who forced the soldiers to fight is implied. I'm not obligated to list everyone ever who harmed the soldiers. I obviously highlighted the liberals because they're literally always going on about peace, love and justice. That's w…
/r/MensRights09/01/26 12:09 PM
1

Yeah I've seen that bullshit too. Ain't the left supposed to be all about lived experiences? I guess they only care about the lived experiences of the people they like.
/r/MensRights09/01/26 12:06 PM
1

I factored those elements in and, even with taking those into account, the amount of misandry I've seen far far outweighs the amount of misogyny I've seen (when I apply the same test for both).
/r/MensRights08/01/26 02:37 PM
3

Firstly, thank you for your service. Secondly, where did most of discrimination and assaults you faced upon return come from? Was it from women, men, young people, any older people? Also, I can't imagine how much anger I'd have felt if I'd just come back from a difficult war and the people who were living a cushy life at home were now attacking me for being forced to fight. It pisses me off just hearing accounts of it from Vietnam vets. How did you feel about it and how did you control your ange…
/r/MensRights07/01/26 11:10 AM
23

Why didn't women complain that they were underrepresented in those serving and dying in Vietnam? Could it be that feminism doesn't actually care about equality?
/r/MensRights07/01/26 01:48 AM
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It's interesting how the patriarchy didn't swoop in to save those men from any of this. Hmmmmmm you'd think that a system that's built to solely benefit men would find a way around forcing entire generations of men to go through the worst ordeals imaginable. 🤔🤔🤔
/r/MensRights07/01/26 01:29 AM
0

I respect your experiences but also you might be accusing white men today of exactly what the right wing accuses people of colour of. People of all races put in effort. It's equally wrong for you to not acknowledge the experiences of white men today. I agree that research says that white people are considered most attractive. However, us men of colour have a unique advantage in dating white women. We don't have to always be seen as the more oppressive one in the relationship - in fact, we have a…
/r/MensRights05/01/26 11:38 AM
4

As a bi man, I actually think it beats being straight. Dating men is so much more comfortable and straight-forward.
/r/MensRights05/01/26 11:27 AM
8

As a man of colour, I disagree that we have it uniquely bad. The issues and prejudice that I face because I'm LGBT or a person of colour are made significantly easier to cope with because I can Google the issue and find comfort and warmth in the mainstream. If I were a white man, I couldn't do that. You can't underestimate how big a difference that makes. Also, if we're being real, the left prefers us over white women. We're viewed as being close to the tier of where white women are on their "ho…
/r/MensRights04/01/26 10:58 AM
2

What a bigoted thing to say.
/r/MensRights02/01/26 01:49 AM
2

A grown woman's life matters more than a little boy's life. Wow
/r/MensRights29/12/25 10:58 AM
4

WHAT A JOKE THAT WAS. Just let the number 1 ranked woman and number 1 ranked man play head-to-head with regular rules and a regular-sized court for each of them. If you want to make it spicy, say the gender that wins will get paid more by ratio of points they won compared with the points their opponent won.
/r/MensRights28/12/25 08:00 PM
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The key difference is that "believe women" often hurts men and people view that as okay because society has successfully dehumanized men.
/r/MensRights28/12/25 12:43 PM
3

Maybe go onto a different subreddit if you really can't stand people raising legitimate complaints about bigotry? Maybe there are some Chinese revolution subreddits around.
/r/MensRights28/12/25 12:27 PM
5

No way! Your bookshop has a book about the Chinese revolution in it? Oh golly, that counters everything I said in this post. Thank you genius person for letting me know. 🙄
/r/MensRights27/12/25 08:32 PM
45

Incredible. It's wild that we talk about female authors in the past using male names. We now live in the reverse.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 08:25 PM
1

We need anti-misandry classes in schools to teach girls how to respect men and boys......
/r/MensRights27/12/25 04:54 PM
1

This is irrelevant to the topic but I'd estimate about 10-12 most years.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 10:59 AM
9

I'm not anti-action. Maybe you should have a think about how you phrase things.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 10:58 AM
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It's a shame they can't just have the male and female protagonists get equal representation (since "they want equality", right 🤔). Radio and media in general is misandrist and gynocentric. I feel like a man has to hate himself or just be made of very strong stuff to be okay with it.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 10:55 AM
9

A snide little jab in there at the end for no reason. It's a shame because your comment was good before that point.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 10:48 AM
29

I agree
/r/MensRights27/12/25 10:32 AM
0

Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater
/r/MensRights27/12/25 10:24 AM
3

Well, statistically, if given the option, both women and men would rather be approached than do the approaching. Also that makes complete sense - why would anybody rather be the one to take a risk and put yourself out there in a very scary way when you could just sit back and watch your offers roll in? I'd love to be the one who gets approached and I understand the motivation women have to not do the approaching themselves. Women not doing the approaching themselves also has a great benefit for …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/25 11:37 AM
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I think it's heavily informed by evolutionary psychology honestly. I just think most men are gonna have to live with being kinda repulsive to most women. There are things men can do to make themselves better looking but for a lot of men it's maybe a case of putting lipstick on pig (I know that sounds incredibly harsh and I really just used that phrase because I couldn't think of another one, but what I mean by it is that, based on both research and anecdotal evidence, most women just are gonna v…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/25 01:48 AM
4

I'm really fascinated by the concept of men sexualising themselves because I've always gotten the impression (based on talking to women first-hand about this) that the vast majority of women are not attracted to and even perhaps sexually repulsed (maybe that's too strong a word but maybe not) by the vast majority of men. Partly because of that, I've always operated on the idea that the overwhelming majority of women will probably feel that way about me and, honestly, it (alongside general man-ba…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/25 12:55 AM
2

Richard Reeves is very hit-or-miss for me. I'm not sure I've heard Galloway say anything good - I just can't stand him. It's a sad indictment of men's situation that these people are the few people in the mainstream who are supposed to be "in our corner".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/25 12:06 AM
12

THIS IS IT. Most men are so un-picky about who they're attracted to. If women truly primarily cared about being attractive to men, it really wouldn't be that hard.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 09:36 PM
4

The narrative from right wing groups hurts all men as well. Whenever they bring up that the majority of immigrants are "fighting-age men", the imagery is only powerful because it relies on bigotry towards men in general. The imagery also further entrenches in people's minds misandrist ideas. Furthermore, SO many right wing nationalists are just obnoxiously gynocentric in general. They know that nobody would care about protecting men, so it ALWAYS has to be about protecting women and children. "O…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/25 09:04 PM
6

Does showing compassion or kindness towards men and boys get you votes? People don't care enough about our wellbeing for that to happen.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/25 08:57 PM
3

Hilary is honestly gross. What she said is worse than saying that the justice needs to focus more on leniency towards white people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/25 08:55 PM
16

That's because women don't have to perform or be on their A-game nearly as much as men do in order to get dates. Women (or at least most of them) are the dating bourgeoisie. They usually sit back, chill, and watch the options come and do their best to try to impress her. Being bad with men is nowhere near as much of a dating death sentence for women as it is for men. Why do we all think autistic women have a far easier time with dating than autistic men do?
/r/MensRights18/12/25 08:48 PM
12

No party is good for men, but, if we're being genuine and removing left-wing bias, Labour are worse when it comes to male-specific policies/rhetoric than the Tories are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/25 04:46 PM
0

So you're what every bigot thinks they are? You're what the mainstream tries to portray us as.
/r/MensRights17/12/25 12:30 PM
0

Aww look at you trying to play dumb. I'm obviously referring to this: "Anyway, you are just proving me right". Connect the dots (if you're mentally capable of it). Also you just conveniently ignored the other giant assumption you made. Poor reply on your part.
/r/MensRights17/12/25 12:29 PM
1

There are some annoying tradcons there (I often end up arguing with them), but, in reality, it's a mix between right and left wing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/25 09:25 AM
0

Men are held to harsher standards than women. Bigotry from people like you really hurts men's rights. Honestly, nobody pisses me off more than people like you. Without any exaggeration, you seem like an enemy of gender equality and a liability on this movement.
/r/MensRights17/12/25 08:06 AM
0

You seem to be someone who is big on making baseless assumptions. You assume 50% of the world is all like a particular way. You assume that I'm in that 50%. You're wrong on both counts. I just can't take your arguments seriously at this point, you know what I mean?
/r/MensRights17/12/25 07:59 AM
1

?
/r/MensRights17/12/25 12:58 AM
2

Feminism is what a successful supremacy movement looks like
/r/MensRights17/12/25 12:48 AM
4

My family and the people I just have the misfortune of being in the same courses/places as, are not often people I can actually cut-off. I've heard the sentiment before that social media and very particular groups are where misandry lives but that could genuinely not be further from the truth in my life experience. Explicit misandry has been and is everywhere around me. It's in people who go on social media a lot and those who don't. Why wouldn't it be when just about every institution is misand…
/r/MensRights17/12/25 12:40 AM
-1

Lots of very angry little people on the internet.
/r/MensRights17/12/25 12:35 AM
1

Also I can't deal with the idiots (you) who think many many many anecdotes are worthless. I've got no time for that. Of course it's not fucking research but, at the same time, research samples are often smaller or the same size as the samples I'm working with in my anecdotes.
/r/MensRights17/12/25 12:33 AM
1

Someone's a grump
/r/MensRights17/12/25 12:31 AM
0

You seem too stupid to comprehend what I'm saying
/r/MensRights16/12/25 09:00 PM
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Making generalisations is a very bad place to start from. If you're gonna have the audacity to make comments like this about 50% of the human species, I'm afraid it's on you to prove that that's true for every single one of them.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 05:01 PM
3

Let's not be as bad as feminist spaces with these kind of attacks
/r/MensRights16/12/25 11:36 AM
11

100%. Honestly I'm cautious of people talking about masculinity. One side of the debate thinks it's bad and men's own fault (which is just a wildly bigoted stance), and the other side of the debate uses it to enforce the BIGGEST burdens in society on men. In reality, men and boys are men and boys regardless of what they do. They should be free, and this is a space for standing up for their rights and wellbeing.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 11:29 AM
1

Your comprehension of my reply was not great if you think I was attacking "Muslim men" in general. Also I am pakistani. I know pakistanis better than you.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 11:12 AM
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If a woman rapes a man, the man could still be required to pay child support. We are the gender that lacks fundamental rights.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 01:39 AM
9

You must've missed the misandry part
/r/MensRights16/12/25 01:18 AM
2

As someone from a Muslim background and someone who has lived in a poor Muslim country for 8 years, about half of the male friends I know there have told me they've been sexually abused (now imagine how many have actually been sexually abused). Being religious does not automatically equal being virtuous. Some people do act more virtuously because of Islam but Muslim countries generally are FAR from shining beacons of moral light.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 02:11 PM
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They have blood on their hands.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 10:36 AM
8

Same with domestic violence. They admit that they'd have to share money if they recognized male victims.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 10:15 AM
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I've heard that before. In all countries, boys are uniquely vulnerable in the sense that it's harder for them to speak up and society will care less about them.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 12:49 AM
2

Nonsensical
/r/MensRights12/12/25 07:37 PM
2

You tradcons are wild. This movement is about gender equality. How can you possibly be in support of gender equality when you believe in imposing social rules/obligations on people based on their gender? Maybe find a "I want to control both genders" subreddit? You might prefer that one.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 01:42 PM
2

JK Rowling is a shitbag. I usually don't like cancel culture but she deserves nothing but the worst so I won't be shedding any tears over her.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 01:04 PM
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If feminists were in favour of equality, they wouldn't get offended by people identifying primarily as egalitarian instead.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 01:01 PM
15

Men have to possibly permanently alter their bodies and never have their own biological children, as an alternative to having rights? What if a man later wants biological children (as many people strongly prefer)?
/r/MensRights12/12/25 12:56 PM
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Men are in DESPERATE need of a sexual revolution for them
/r/MensRights12/12/25 12:48 PM
4

Go back to the 50s.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 02:49 AM
12

Men don't owe anybody anything
/r/MensRights11/12/25 03:40 PM
13

I'm sorry you're going through this. Sounds like repeated sexual assault. Also I'd be surprised if she's reading a post on a MRA subreddit.
/r/MensRights10/12/25 05:22 PM
6

I don't know if this is exactly what your post is about but, regardless, people really ought to have the talk about safety with their boys more often. Males lack reproductive rights and can easily be accused even if they meant no harm. Young men need to know that and act accordingly.
/r/MensRights10/12/25 05:19 PM
2

C O P E
/r/MensRights09/12/25 05:47 PM
0

What do you mean by vibes?
/r/MensRights09/12/25 05:04 PM
3

Thanks for the answer! It's a shame that the left wing is as bigoted as it is. I'm probably a leftist at heart but, when it comes to associating with people, there's a limit to the bigotry I can put up with from the side that claim to be fighting for all that is good, just, and anti-bigoted in the world. I think the issue is dehumanization. Just like how the right wing dehumanizes groups that they don't like, the left wing has dehumanizes groups they don't like, and dehumanization naturally lead…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/25 04:58 PM
1

What rough % of the lesbians you know would you say are misandrists? I know that's the common stereotype and while OF COURSE it isn't true for everyone, I'd be interested in knowing whether you think it's true for most lesbians (you know). Do you know other lesbians who are interested in men's issues or who are openly compassionate towards men? Are there quite a few?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/25 04:30 PM
1

That's a very interesting stat. Where did you get it from?
/r/MensRights09/12/25 03:46 PM
1

Follow the money
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/25 10:02 PM
8

I appreciate this post. Honestly it gets hard to stay strong when mainstream society is constantly bashing you and then has the nerve to say that that bashing is good. I'm trying to stay strong but I'm just so done with this treatment.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 02:49 AM
1

1- Both genders perpetuate gender norms. In order for gender norms to be overcome, both gender do need to be involved. 2- I agree men need to play a role (and they currently do that in these spaces). It's also important to note the in-group out-group biases between the genders. You simply can't compare women's ease of doing a movement like this with men's level of ease. 3- Also come on now with the revisionist history of the feminist movement. If men didn't do anything to help in the past, women…
/r/MensRights16/11/25 02:14 PM
4

Honestly, I'm not the biggest fan. 1-She's sometimes overly biased towards men and will spin so much that shouldn't be spun in that way. 2-she's hella traditional and will play in to the "men are still kinda inherently dangerous" thinking at times. 3-just generally cringey. I think some things she says are alright but overall PASS.
/r/MensRights16/11/25 03:52 AM
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I agree that men should try to do that. It's possible (and honestly realistic) to hope for something good but also recognize the hurdles in your way. Also what do you mean by "women can't be the only ones responsible for giving men safe spaces"? Do you believe that most male safe spaces that exist today were created by women? Some women do great work for men (and I recognize that) but I think that claim is questionable.
/r/MensRights16/11/25 03:47 AM
1

I suppose one could view this subreddit as a bit of that. The problems still remain however. It's risky to discuss this with other men, and men are not evolutionarily selected to have in-group bias to nearly the extent women do. Men do come together but it's very rarely for male related issues. Heck, men are more likely to unite to defend a woman than they are to be there for each other. It's super important to realize that the acceptability of discussing male issues in widespread society is far…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 02:25 PM
2

It's to do with women having an in-group bias while men have an out-group bias. It's also to do with social media and wider society telling men that other men who discuss men's issues are "basement-dwelling incels". If other men are plausibly going to hurt your reputation or bash you because you shared men's issues with them, they are not a viable option for sharing. This subreddit here is the single closest place I have in my life to a place where I can share issues and that's honestly really s…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 09:36 AM
1

That seems questionable
/r/MensRights15/11/25 02:50 AM
2

I admire how understanding you're being. This is a far cry from the misandrist women I have in my life. People like you give me hope. P.S. I have a lot to say in response to your post if you're interested.
/r/MensRights15/11/25 02:05 AM
2

I feel like society is constantly bashing me for being a man. It is socially acceptable to paint me as a dirty predator for the crime of being born male. Male sexual attraction is massively demonized. How men sit or whether they explain something can be used as a stick to beat them with (think mansplaining and manspreading). We're oppressive if we uphold gender norms that are pushed on us and we're largely unattractive if we don't. Men currently suffer from a sentencing gap that is significantly…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 01:56 AM
1

Not according to the definition.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 12:40 AM
1

Sexual Assault has a strict definition. There's no need to force things into wrong categories when preexisting acceptable categories apply.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 12:39 AM
6

The key takeaway is that what people think isn't always what's true. Many germans in Nazi Germany genuinely thought they were the ones being oppressed by the Jews.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 12:25 AM
4

Feminists tend to be disgustingly bigoted to autistic men. Outside of that, I haven't seen added hostility towards disabled people.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 12:23 AM
1

In reality, in sports, if you aren't as good, you won't be paid as much. People tend to accept that when it comes to disabled vs not disabled but struggle to understand that when it comes to gender. That's the feminist nonsensical propaganda machine for ya.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 12:20 AM
0

10000%
/r/MensRights12/11/25 12:18 AM
1

Bro, you lived in the UK?
/r/MensRights12/11/25 12:12 AM
10

So basically they're gonna be given free government housing. FUCKING HELL! THE UK IS APARTHEID.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 12:10 AM
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I'm fine with women wanting to be tradwives if that's what they want. I wouldn't get into a relationship with one because I'm not carrying the entire load. What I don't like is imposing gender norms. Imposing gender norms is not kind to any gender. It's not fair to expect men to carry the financial load alone either.
/r/MensRights08/11/25 08:32 PM
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Flashing really should be considered sexual harassment instead of SA. A key element of something being SA is making physical contact with someone.
/r/MensRights08/11/25 08:28 PM
6

I'm a biological man with gender dysphoria (pre-op I guess). I feel this SO deeply. It's just like constantly adding insult to injury. Makes me incredibly suicidal honestly. The worst part is that so many people, in reality, will bash you if you even mention this so you can't even talk about this problem much.
/r/MensRights29/10/25 10:32 PM
7

'Being forced to go through the most traumatic 5 year long ordeal anybody can ever go through is a privilege.' C'mon man! You should see all quiet on the western front. You sound a lot like those young boys at the start of the movie when they think the war's gonna be about purpose, pride and glory.
/r/MensRights29/10/25 10:16 PM
2

There are some violent bigots on the right - I agree. It's obvious that that isn't excusable. At the same time, you get violence and bigotry on the left too. Also what you said doesn't negate the point I was making. I'm a queer man too btw.
/r/MensRights26/10/25 12:31 PM
2

I'm a bi man (so can also comment on what being attracted to men is like). I find that, in the mainstream, both women and queer men are not considered dirty evil beasts for being attracted to men. That's quite different for straight men. Despite most humans, in reality, being attracted to people they're attracted to in a bit of a crude way, straight men are shamed like no other group for it. Lesbians wouldn't engage in a conversation about women being hot with straight men, because "ewwww it's g…
/r/MensRights25/10/25 09:37 AM
4

Funny how the left wing spaces are supposed to be the wonderful, open-minded, inclusive places. My ass!
/r/MensRights25/10/25 09:29 AM
5

As another bi male, I think being bi is really interesting. It gives you exposure most people don't get. You get to see what it's like on "both sides", and, honestly, my experience is that I'm far more shamed for my attraction to women than I am for my attraction to men. I genuinely don't think any sexual orientation is more shamed than a straight man.
/r/MensRights25/10/25 09:27 AM
2

I feel that last sentence so incredibly deeply.
/r/MensRights25/10/25 09:21 AM
4

I'd LOVE to be infantilized if it benefited me.
/r/MensRights24/10/25 10:47 AM
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Firstly, I'd have to accuse you of being either ignorant or disingenuous if you believe manosphere related violence against women is not overemphasized, and that female violence against men is not way way way underemphasized. Also if nobody considers feminist hate to be hateful, why would any female attack on a man even possibly be considered hate-based? Also that's a weak sauce argument in general. Women tend to hurt people in ways that are less violent a lot more. It's stupid and outdated to s…
/r/MensRights18/10/25 12:48 PM
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It is high level victim blaming and attempted manipulation. It starts with taking a problem men face. It implies to them that they are somehow to blame for it despite the fact they, as an individual, obviously aren't. It attempts to strip them of victimhood status and even perhaps give victimhood status to the woman saying it. It stinks of point scoring and a lack of basic compassion.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 12:31 PM
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Lololol look at my reply that denounces his comment which (at the time of writing) has about as many likes as his does. Also what I said was relevant - if both sides of a gender war have negative elements in them and only one of those sides is the victim of constant high profile socially-mainstream bashing of their ENTIRE MOVEMENT because of it, that is highly relevant. I worry you only see negative things. Might wanna look into that.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 12:23 PM
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I think people get shocked when we're defined by our worst and feminists aren't. If you actually believe there isn't a glaring double standard, you're beyond hope. I agree that any bigotry is bad but I think you're maybe more on one side in general than you are on the other.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 12:10 PM
17

It's not just in the context of parenthood either. I had multiple older female relatives try to pressure me into saying women are superior to men.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 12:05 PM
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How about having your gender be called trash or worse than dogs right in front of you. I've never personally heard a man say anything nearly that disgusting in front of a woman. I've had several women who are friends and family say that in front of me.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 11:51 AM
17

This isn't an answer to the question. If a woman said this about men, I'd consider it bigoted. I dislike it just as much when a man says it about women.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 11:21 AM
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When men are victims of issues caused by society, they're told to "deal with it" or "stop being a wuss". When women are in the same situation, they get showered with compassion.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 11:10 AM
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One example is that men can be called "creeps" or a "creepy guy" for talking to a woman or making the egregious error of existing near her (that happens). Women, on the other hand, do extremely creepy things and are openly crude about their attraction to men but will practically never be called a "creep".
/r/MensRights18/10/25 11:07 AM
5

The UK (where I'm at) is quite terrible also
/r/MensRights18/10/25 08:33 AM
9

I wouldn't be jealous of society's whipping boy
/r/MensRights17/10/25 10:11 PM
4

I appreciate that it exists but it's an EXTREMELY minor party. No 'serious' party even cares as much about male issues as they do female issues. Perhaps Reform - but they Reform crowd are gynocentric in the way they frame immigration arguments also.
/r/MensRights17/10/25 07:54 PM
4

I'd need to have one of those handmaid's tale hats on when I'm in my local book shops to escape misandry. Just focus on the ground in front of me and don't look around at other book titles too much.
/r/MensRights17/10/25 07:26 PM
10

The book titles. The topics they're on. How they bash men. The books that get written these days. The themes the book shop does displays on. One theme was literally on trying to erase male artists and they had a bunch of books out. This really shouldn't be shocking.
/r/MensRights17/10/25 07:21 PM
4

200%
/r/MensRights17/10/25 07:17 PM
3

10/10 reply.
/r/MensRights15/10/25 04:45 PM
0

I'm getting a really pessimistic vibe from you. It takes a pessimistic reader and a bit of a spin doctor too to only focus on the negative aspects of an overall mixed bag comment. I feel like you're either being disingenuous or you're just up for a scrap considering how you made no good faith attempt to respond to my second reply. Either way, I don't need the negative energy you exude in my life. Bye!
/r/MensRights13/10/25 10:18 PM
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If men give too much concern to their safety, their offspring starve. If women don't give enough concern to their safety, their offspring die. Big difference.
/r/MensRights13/10/25 10:11 PM
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My reply acknowledged that we can do things to help improve the situation (and it ought to be implied that I think improvement is worth pursuing). At the same time, I think it's a touch unrealistic to think our evolutionary biology plays no part. Men have literally been evolutionarily selected to care less about their own well-being. In cave-dwelling times, women stayed with the babies and men risked their lives hunting dangerous animals. A man who complained a lot about his own safety/well-bein…
/r/MensRights13/10/25 05:03 PM
4

Outreach programs might have a partial impact. My worry is that the reasons for male underreporting are just too wide ranging and entrenched in our evolutionary biology. While I'm not sure we can fix this issue perfectly, I think the underreporting gap can be made smaller at least.
/r/MensRights13/10/25 11:53 AM
6

That's interesting information. However, even on those kinds of surveys, I think men are sometimes likely to underreport more than women. I say that because those types of 'smarter' surveys are sometimes done for DV and a man is more likely to mentally brush off an occasional act of violence from their partner than a woman is. Therefore, even in answering those questions, women are more likely to report bad things done to them.
/r/MensRights13/10/25 11:21 AM
17

Domestic violence being an almost legally enforced example
/r/MensRights13/10/25 11:07 AM
21

That's part of why men become chronic under-reporters
/r/MensRights13/10/25 11:03 AM
4

My phone won't let me share screenshots over here but I've had comments on several posts just telling me to stop whinging when I discuss unfair treatment towards men. Just off the top of my head, there was one about the superman movie, one about men feeling undesired, and one about just general difficulties of being a man. This really isn't that shocking. Men are like this towards each other. Especially common among the stoicism or Andrew Tate crowds.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 11:09 AM
5

I'll just go and drink a bud light and play some pool and never feel emotion again. God, some men just try to be a stereotype. Also this is a really backwards comment. Firstly, I'm not on dating apps and barely go on social media (making assumptions is a bad look). Secondly, why the fuck are you on a men's rights group if you can't handle men talking about their issues - maybe consider fucking off!!! Also wow you know me so well (sarcasm) - go and be a stoicism guru on YouTube to someone else.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 10:24 AM
1

That's what's good about same sex relationships - men don't have to date a gender that is far pickier than them and usually refuses to put in the effort to approach you.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 10:18 AM
5

I think being in a mindset where you're okay with not trying is involuntary
/r/MensRights11/10/25 09:24 AM
6

Labour is completely optional and lasts how long???? Also this is a bad comment in general - are you the sort of person who responds to someone's issues with "it's no big deal, other people also have issues". Downvote incoming.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 09:22 AM
70

Men all die. WAMEN HAVE IT WORSE.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 02:14 AM
2

I agree that hatred towards anyone is bad and while I don't see too much actual bigotry against women here, I agree there is some. On another note, I hope you recognize that this post has been allowed by this sub to be up for a long time. Quite a more open-minded approach than you'd find if you called out feminist subs on said feminist subs.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 12:09 AM
6

I appreciate that!
/r/MensRights10/10/25 11:02 PM
9

I tried autistic spaces but the amount of misandry there drove me away. I honestly feel like I can't talk to anyone really. If I talk about issues to do with being an autistic man, in particular, I get attacked by the misandrists online, I would get no sympathy from my family because half of them tell me to stop whinging and the other half don't have any care for things that primarily hurt men, and I have basically 2 or 3 friends who I talk to but nobody helps. I wanna be super productive and im…
/r/MensRights10/10/25 10:35 PM
8

Also I don't doubt some women put tonnes of effort into their profiles but what's far more impactful than that is just the fact that they're women. Conventionally unattractive women on tinder can have the s_x life that a hot guy would have (I know from experience).
/r/MensRights10/10/25 10:25 PM
17

Stupid assumption from a (probably) stupid person.
/r/MensRights10/10/25 10:18 PM
16

I don't even know if I'd want a relationship. I just want to feel like people would want me, I want to not feel so inferior, I want to feel like I'm worth approaching, I wouldn't mind an occasional human complement, I want to feel like society cares about my issues. My issue is more broad than just loneliness. Also, the charm and confidence thing is a hell of a difficult requirement to meet for an autistic man.
/r/MensRights10/10/25 10:15 PM
11

EXACTLY! I'm a liberal at heart but liberals have made it very clear they think I'm scum. It's hard to get behind people who think you're scum.
/r/MensRights08/10/25 11:22 PM
10

You could not pay me enough to vote Labour now. I always hated that slimy Starmer and my dislike of him has just kept on increasing. I don't know who I'll vote for next time but Starmer and his lot can eat sh*t.
/r/MensRights08/10/25 10:47 PM
9

Imagine Reform coming in and literally saying they want to create new laws where white people will only go to prison if they actually commit the most heinous crimes. Imagine the uproar. And now combine that with the fact that the gender sentencing gap is significantly larger than the racial sentencing gap.
/r/MensRights08/10/25 10:39 PM
9

Say it louder and they may rethink this rule
/r/MensRights08/10/25 10:36 PM
10

That's a good comment. Can I ask a couple of questions. Which country are those stats for? What are the factors that are controlled for when arriving at the 63% gender sentencing gap? Do they include the existence of dependants and criminal records? Also it's true that the male rate of trauma or mental health issues would be very underreported. Men chronically underreport traumatic incidents and mental health struggles.
/r/MensRights08/10/25 03:55 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheTinMen/comments/1igpkm9/government_prison_reform_in_breach_of_the/
/r/MensRights08/10/25 03:02 PM
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I've found so many women to be super creepy around men they find attractive. The reason we don't talk about female-on-male sexual harassment more is because the majority of men are invisible/seen as trash by the majority of women. That's a whole other problem but because it primarily impacts men, nobody give a f*ck.
/r/MensRights08/10/25 09:38 AM
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I don't know what that ethnic slurs thing is about. You're clearly a progressive, if anything
/r/MensRights08/10/25 09:28 AM
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100%. The heightened hatred towards trans women is proof that the right is sexist towards men (because the right wing sees them as a man in a dress and, according to everyone, MEN ARE SCUM).
/r/MensRights07/10/25 06:20 PM
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Scott Galloway pisses me off so much. He has said some insanely stupid things. Andrew Tate I believe says shocking things to be shocking - and I think many people recognize that.
/r/MensRights22/09/25 08:44 PM
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Men have out of group bias. Women have in group bias.
/r/MensRights22/09/25 08:40 PM
2

Seems like the sort of language that came before the Rwandan genocide. Hmmm I wonder whether any Feminists have ever called for genocides of men?????
/r/MensRights22/09/25 08:35 PM
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???????
/r/MensRights09/09/25 01:56 PM
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I get that you're offended by it but mutilation is mutilation. I'm glad you don't mind it. That's definitely not the same for many other people. Also, this is what makes it so insidious, you don't even know to attach disadvantages you may face with the fact of your circumcision. You don't know that you may be missing out on better orgasms. Someone as a baby who goes through an experience like that doesn't know that issues they may face later are linked to a childhood trauma they don't consciousl…
/r/MensRights09/09/25 01:54 PM
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I didn't mean to be having a go at you. It's crazy because MGM became a practice in many cultures because it's supposed to decrease male sexuality and pleasure. How we're still okay with it is insane. I imagine it now has something to do with the people doing it making a bit more money out of new parents.
/r/MensRights09/09/25 12:09 PM
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The babies in videos of MGM certainly don't look calm. Also I've heard some people say MGM doesn't matter because it happens to babies and they can't remember anything but that's absolutely not how trauma works. The effect of trauma on a baby can be severe and life-long. The fact that they can't remember what caused this trauma may even make it worse as it may be more difficult to pinpoint and fix, they'll receive less help and understanding for it, and they're more likely to blame themselves fo…
/r/MensRights09/09/25 12:01 PM
8

I have to say, I think the horror of FGM is more about gender than it is about age
/r/MensRights09/09/25 11:54 AM
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Is MGM in Somalia also done on boys of the same age or is it done on baby boys?
/r/MensRights09/09/25 11:54 AM
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That detail about it being done on older children isn't even required for genital mutilation there to be massively denounced. The genital mutilation happening on its own is enough. My point is that MGM isn't even seen as genital mutilation. The fact that it's legal literally everywhere doesn't register.
/r/MensRights09/09/25 11:50 AM
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I've been sexually assaulted many times and I'd have to think a false accusation would hurt SO much more
/r/MensRights09/09/25 11:40 AM
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Women know they can get away with a lot and people may even celebrate them for it.
/r/MensRights31/08/25 12:01 AM
1

The demonization and bad things are about us
/r/MensRights29/08/25 01:53 AM
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The issue with that is that they may actually be proud of that. Autistic men are bashed by women SO much and many misandrist ableist women will even admit to it. They may not admit to race hatred though - your better bet is to ask them if they mean black men and make it a race issue. Imagine if feminists were challenged on picking a bear over a black man (after all, don't they know that the category "men" includes black men) - you'd watch them scramble and dodge.
/r/MensRights27/08/25 09:07 AM
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Maybe that's in part because men have far more violence, everyday dangers and gender based hate directed towards them.
/r/MensRights27/08/25 08:53 AM
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Drink that kool-aid. Look at reported numbers only without estimating for different rates of reporting on violence. Go by stereotypes. I've lived in Asia before. I know what goes down in many families there.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 11:08 PM
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The existence of true free will is heavily debatable but, even if we assume people have it, it's one hell of an assumption to say it counters the difference in average reproductive preferences that come down through evolutionary biology. On the topic of SMV, it's therefore relevant and thus my point regarding it stands.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 11:04 PM
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Men also care a lot about this. In many men's minds it is a masculine duty to care more about the well-being of women than the well-being of men.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 12:46 PM
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Honestly I think the reason this goes unchecked by so many people is because it's that baked into our biological makeup. As women were generally with the children and men were generally out engaging in dangerous hunting, for the survival of offspring, men needed to not care that much about their own safety as they needed to bring back meat or ensure the survival of their group by fighting men from other groups. Since women were usually with the children, the wellbeing of the mother was tied to t…
/r/MensRights25/08/25 12:41 PM
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You keep on bringing up kids - that base is already covered - move on, mate. Regarding the other points, what you're saying is tantamount to grasping at straws when you balance it against the average male vs female preference for the most ideal and fun reproduction strategy. Also, if the past were a completely self-serving patriarchy, I'd think men could do a far better job of getting regular sex without having to commit to 1 person for life. I'm bidding you adieu because I don't waste much time…
/r/MensRights25/08/25 11:01 AM
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I did in my post already acknowledge that men likely get into marriage for that exact reason. It is however the case that a monogamous serious relationship is practically the ideal female reproduction strategy whereas it's still at odds with what many men would consider to be the most "fun" reproduction strategy for them.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 09:53 AM
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You're an individual - how you feel is valid for you. Reproduction strategy is literal evolutionary biology so it's just simple reality. SMV is a crude term, I agree - but it's usually an accurate one, are you actually gonna give me the hippie argument that nobody cares about either the looks, money or status of their partner anywhere along the process from first meeting someone to getting married to them? I get you're all wholesome and stuff but those two points are undeniable. They're not whol…
/r/MensRights25/08/25 09:45 AM
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Are you not familiar with ACAB? It's a reference to BLM stuff and you misunderstood my comment.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 01:31 AM
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I'm from Muslim background and if I think about where fundamentalists fit into the Muslim identity, I could say they don't mean all of Islam is bad (and that may be true), but it doesn't change the fact that those fundamentalists are still Muslim. I can't stand when people say "oh those aren't true Muslims".
/r/MensRights25/08/25 12:57 AM
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All Feminists Are Bastards??
/r/MensRights25/08/25 12:54 AM
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Also they really shouldn't call themselves femcels if they're getting sex
/r/MensRights25/08/25 12:51 AM
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They're on a higher level of dating privilege than men are. If getting free sex for them is the same as men having to pay for sex, that is female privilege point blank. Also getting into a relationship is easier for women (on average) too. They only find it "hard" because Mr.Top10% doesn't wanna put a ring on her finger.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 12:50 AM
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I think the reality of life is that different people want different things
/r/MensRights25/08/25 12:41 AM
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I empathize with your position. I think, however, that it's not universally true that they had nothing to be jealous about. For some people, being objectified is worse and, for other people, being invisible to the opposite gender is worse. Both can potentially be bad for mental health. I think a lot of people would prefer not being invisible (which can be seen by the booming market for making yourself more conventionally attractive that exists for both men and women). I think what's most tragic …
/r/MensRights24/08/25 01:00 AM
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I empathize with your position. I think, however, that it's not universally true that they had nothing to be jealous about. For some people, being objectified is worse and, for other people, being invisible to the opposite gender is worse. Both can potentially be bad for mental health. I think a lot of people would prefer not being invisible (which can be seen by the booming market for making yourself more conventionally that exists for both men and women). I think what's most tragic about the o…
/r/MensRights24/08/25 01:00 AM
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I'm a man who also belongs to one of the "protected groups" in society that woke people like. I face issues because of me being in that group and I face issues because I'm a man. The "male" issues are harder to face because I get 0 public support and compassion for them. HAVING YOUR ISSUES BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY BY SOCIETY IS A HUGE PRIVILEGE.
/r/MensRights16/08/25 05:59 PM
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You can always tell someone is immature when they bring up this argument. It screams "I care more about scoring victimhood points and assigning blame than I do working towards gender equality".
/r/MensRights11/08/25 08:47 AM
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Bang on
/r/MensRights11/08/25 08:46 AM
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Competition within the same gender is a part of both genders' hierarchies. That doesn't, however, disprove differing compassion and empathy rates towards other people of your gender. Men tend to be far less empathetic towards men than women are towards women, and while I do agree that empathy can sometimes be performative, I don't think it always is - and honestly I'd prefer shallow empathy over someone telling me to stfu. A lot of empathy is shallow (after all). In reality, you can share your i…
/r/MensRights08/08/25 03:04 AM
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You can be free to talk about how the issue impacts you AND be productive. To give a blanket statement against complaining for all men is macho man stuff.
/r/MensRights08/08/25 02:20 AM
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Both genders are ruthless towards each other. It's honestly just a stereotype that women do it more.
/r/MensRights08/08/25 02:15 AM
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As another man who is around women a lot more than I'm around men, women aren't perfect with each other but there's a lot less shunning of sharing feelings and, honestly, even with the drama, female-female interaction > male-male interaction. Female to female compassion far outweighs male to male compassion and this is backed up by proper research into in-group biases and empathy gaps. It's anecdotally correct and correct based on research.
/r/MensRights07/08/25 02:03 PM
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How does a man in the west have more freedom?
/r/MensRights06/08/25 05:02 PM
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I'm sorry your dumb ass can't distinguish between any attempt at dismantling gendered pressures and mainstream feminism
/r/MensRights04/08/25 12:46 PM
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Fuck off with your sexism towards men.
/r/MensRights04/08/25 12:45 PM
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I forgot the video this was in but Karen Straughan has a really good piece about this. She compares it to a situation where you have two groups. Group A controls the food distribution and Group B goes out to work in the field every day and the output each member of Group B produces equates to the amount of food they get given by Group A. Occasionally, in an effort to get more food, violence breaks out between members of Group B - they compete viciously, they sometimes might even kill each other …
/r/MensRights04/08/25 12:33 PM
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My comment is as factual in my opinion as your stance is in your opinion.
/r/MensRights04/08/25 12:24 PM
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Nobody actually knows all of the ways in which society can successfully function
/r/MensRights04/08/25 12:21 PM
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This is at odds with gender equality
/r/MensRights04/08/25 12:18 PM
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What humans are attracted to is (perhaps unfortunately) rooted in our evolutionary biology. We may want to think we're so enlightened but we, at our core, are ruled by primitive impulses and desires. I'm not sure how much we can change what we find attractive. We can settle but how many people want to do that when they have a better alternative.
/r/MensRights04/08/25 12:10 PM
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The UK's only become more gynocentric since. A white woman got killed by a police officer and everyone lost their shit completely - which led to widespread socially encouraged man-bashing. A few years after that, our current government was voted in and I don't know how familiar you are with them but they'll say and implement the most biased things in the name of misandry. The UK government also intends on further widening its already HUGE gender sentencing gap.
/r/MensRights03/08/25 03:43 AM
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Tumblr enters the chat
/r/MensRights02/08/25 09:55 AM
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Bye again!
/r/MensRights01/08/25 03:18 PM
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I think you may be misinterpreting what I'm saying. I'm not denying people sometimes support things you wouldn't expect them to (based on their identity). I'm saying how often do people of an identity, today, in their own identity's rights movement, pick someone of the "opposite" identity as their favourite advocate? The answer is it's uncommon. Also Karen Straughan was the most popular MRA within literally about a year of her having started. That says a whole lot.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 03:18 PM
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I agree that most subreddits in general risk becoming echo chambers. Nevertheless, being downvoted is objectively better than being banned. Downvoting literally just means people disagree with you. Being banned means no discussion is ever allowed from you because you said one thing that was disagreed with. Also I'm not gonna go through your entire history but I've seen many of your dissenting agreements that weren't heavily downvoted. I'm not saying you've never been downvoted - I'm just saying …
/r/MensRights01/08/25 03:13 PM
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Something else that is a comment on the relative openness of MRAs is the fact that you haven't been banned or censored that much (based on looking at your activity history). I've had experiences on opposing subreddits where dissenting from the subreddit's pervasive narrative as much as you do would have lead to a ban LONG ago.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 02:50 PM
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I agree it's not a full gotcha. It does however say something that she is the number 1 MRA (especially with the level of demonization of MRAs). In how many identity-oriented rights-based movements is the number 1 most liked activist someone of the opposite identity group. It's not too many. That undoubtedly says something about openness among MRAs.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 02:45 PM
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I respect those honey badgers so much. Their lives would be so much easier if they just stuck to working on or talking about their own (more socially acceptable) issues, but they choose to stand up for men. That says something about their strength of character.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 02:36 PM
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Dr Janice Fiamengo
/r/MensRights01/08/25 01:56 PM
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I think Islam hurts everyone as well. It undeniably enforces gender differences. There's good stuff in the Quran as well though.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 01:50 PM
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Inconsistency is the worst thing. I live in the west but I'm also from a Muslim background and I don't love many things about it either. It is big on gender stereotypes and those hurt everyone (men included).
/r/MensRights01/08/25 01:05 PM
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Even the rules in certain Muslim countries that unfairly restrict the freedoms of women are done based on misandry. It's originally done based on the assumption of men being inherently dangerous
/r/MensRights01/08/25 12:49 PM
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Misandry is rising and therefore more women are taking note of it
/r/MensRights01/08/25 12:41 PM
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I appreciate you!
/r/MensRights01/08/25 12:38 PM
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True, the most prominent documentary about men's issues was made by a woman.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 12:35 PM
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Can you tell me where she talks about her son
/r/MensRights01/08/25 12:34 PM
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I don't mind someone having an OF if there's no added context to it. My issue is that her having an OF makes the motivations behind her men's advocacy seem potentially suspicious. I could be wrong and, if so, I apologize but I think it undoubtedly raises a level of suspicion in the area of motivation
/r/MensRights01/08/25 11:19 AM
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Doesn't Roma army have an only fans account? I'm fine with people having them but it does raise reasonable suspicion about what the motivation for her advocacy is. I don't know any honey badgers who have an only fans.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 10:54 AM
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Men's in-group bias is factually way lower than women's in-group bias.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 10:18 AM
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LOL. Our cultures we're brought up in reach us to overdiagnose misogyny and underdiagnose misandry. I've seen some misogynistic comments on here but it's tiny compared to what is socially acceptable to say about men even in real life.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 10:13 AM
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I like that you put different things like the leaf at the end of your comments. Why do you do that?
/r/MensRights30/07/25 09:04 PM
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I think Karen has done an extraordinary service though in bringing so many more men to the movement (just look at a few first-hand accounts of that on this post). A lot of people on the outside would like to demonize MRAs as not taking women seriously or even just blindly hating all women but the fact that Karen Straughan is arguably the favourite MRA among men (as a whole) tells a different story. How many feminists would hold a male feminist above practically all other female feminists (not to…
/r/MensRights30/07/25 08:39 PM
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I agree she hasn't changed the minds of many women. I however don't think that's a strict reflection of the quality of her efforts.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 08:28 PM
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They sound like a hateful bigot
/r/MensRights30/07/25 01:12 PM
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Have you seen the videos of women running gender swapped tinder accounts - they get a rude awakening. Men naturally feel compassion for women. Women naturally feel compassion for just about anyone but men - animals, children, women etc.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 10:09 AM
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Because women are seen as innocent and men are seen as aggressors. It's just basic sexist moral type-casting.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 08:33 AM
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Another example of men doing their "god-given duty" of defending a lady's honour and make sure she never, under any circumstances, has to do the dirty work herself. <- sarcasm
/r/MensRights30/07/25 08:31 AM
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These feminists won't admit to it but I bet they'd support a lynching.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 08:29 AM
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The narrative about men today has deep shades of the narrative about black men in the reconstruction era. That reconstruction era narrative was also supported by the powers at be.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 08:28 AM
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Do you think they say the dad bod lie to continue the narrative that women are so pure that they don't even need men to be too physically fit?
/r/MensRights30/07/25 08:15 AM
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On the incel point, sure, some incels get resentful but since when does that mean we throw the baby out with the bathwater. They have several legitimate grievances and society should surely approach those human grievances with a degree of compassion as well. Dating is brutal for most hetero men and it's a real shame that you get demonized for expressing that fact. Maybe women don't take male dating complaints seriously because they only see the top 10% of men who won't commit to them and somehow…
/r/MensRights30/07/25 08:11 AM
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Funny how women say they like dad bods.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 12:42 AM
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I'm curious as to what point in your body transformation journey you felt a big shift in the way people treated you. Was it once you got to just the slightly overweight range or was it after that?
/r/MensRights29/07/25 11:24 PM
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Good news for them is that getting loving ain't that hard for a woman. What the fat, ugly men gon' do?
/r/MensRights29/07/25 11:13 PM
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That makes sense. It's a case of "you're not ugly, you're just fat". I think that's really the main way that these huge 'looksmaxing' (though I cringe at that term) journeys take place. Congratulations on your transformation!
/r/MensRights29/07/25 11:07 PM
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Is your current face conventionally attractive?
/r/MensRights29/07/25 10:59 PM
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How'd you go from being a 3-4 to being a 7-8? Were you fat and now you're fit? I think that kind of 4-point transformation is more difficult for people with genuinely unattractive facial features (not just being fat).
/r/MensRights29/07/25 09:51 PM
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I wonder how much lower her odds of getting said one night stand would have been if she were a man of that exact same attractiveness level.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 09:29 PM
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I appreciate certain things about Chloe Roma but she is a fair few leagues below Karen Straughan's level. Karen Straughan has such an intricate understanding of gender issues and how humans work in general. Chloe says some good things but she isn't particularly insightful.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 09:22 PM
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Karen Straughan explains concepts better than 99% of university professors I've been taught by (and that's not an exaggeration - I can maybe think of one other person on her level). I could listen to her particularly talk about evolutionary biology ALL DAY LONG. She's great on so many topics but I think that's where she shines even brighter. I appreciate that she's chosen men's rights because, with her brain, she could have made so much money and had such a lofty career if she were working in a …
/r/MensRights29/07/25 07:52 PM
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I meant the % of all Muslim women? The reason why I ask is because 90+% of Muslim men are victims of MGM.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 07:44 PM
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Honey badgers by name, honey badgers by character. What icons they are!
/r/MensRights29/07/25 05:51 PM
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I think she's a gateway to this community for many.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 05:45 PM
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I like that she doesn't pull any punches either. She'll say it as it is and not care what others think of it.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 05:45 PM
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What % of Muslim women are genitally mutilated?
/r/MensRights29/07/25 05:42 PM
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Then they wonder why the majority are angry
/r/MensRights29/07/25 05:16 PM
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I'm really sorry you had to go through that. The fact that she felt she could shout it is particularly disgusting and it speaks to the mass dehumanization of men. If you're raised in a society where you can say "kill all men" or "men are obselete", you may feel encouraged to shamelessly shout that an innocent man minding his own business looks like a rapist. Afterall, they probably don't view men as proper human beings who are worthy of compassion and respect.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 03:05 PM
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Society's lack of compassion for men starts early and never really stops. Male infants are unnecessarily mutilated. Male babies are ignored more when they cry. Male infants are more likely to be killed. Male children are less likely to be adopted.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 10:38 AM
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I just searched up a question about "male genital mutilation" and got no results about the gender I was searching up. Can't say I'm shocked.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 10:23 AM
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Also it's interesting that they mentioned respect for their Jewish community but not their Muslim community. Denmark has about 42 times more Muslims than it has Jews, and Muslim men in general are more likely to be mutilated down there than Jewish men are (but circumcision is more associated with Jews than it is with Muslims).
/r/MensRights29/07/25 10:10 AM
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Unfortunately religious freedom trumps male bodily autonomy every time
/r/MensRights29/07/25 10:04 AM
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The barriers there are that men tend not to care as much about male suffering, male genital mutilation is so intrenched in religions and cultures in both the east and the west, and society cares less about men's issues and will even often shame/attack/mock men for highlighting male issues.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 09:54 AM
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Sorry if this is a bit of a tangent but your reply got me thinking about toxic masculinity. I'm sure many people would like to say "if men just had less toxic masculinity, they'd be less lonely". I agree that some stereotypes/pressures pushed on men are unhealthy but there's a fine line to walk with toxic masculinity. Men should try to fight these unhealthy stereotypes/pressures but we shouldn't cross into victim blaming - individual men did not decide to have these pressures put on them (as muc…
/r/MensRights29/07/25 08:42 AM
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The struggle is getting men (as a group) motivated. Men are literally evolutionarily selected to care more about other people's issues. Some men are coming around to caring about themselves as well now but that's only because of how badly we're doing and, even then, we don't have enough men on our side already.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 08:17 AM
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I really don't mind this. In an entertainment industry full of either evil/dangerous or incompetent/stupid men, it's nice to see a man be recognized as a victim and have their life hold enough value to be the cause of woman's actions. There's no shortage of men's issues but this ain't really one of them. On the other hand, if this post is about feminist double standards, I totally get it and actually agree that it's an issue.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 12:12 AM
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2 things: I agree that evolutionary biology is one hell of a foe. I don't expect full equality. I'm hoping for things to get better and I think that's possible (especially if many men choose not to play along, and therefore make their voices heard). Things could get worse or better in regards to ease of life. Men's importance could therefore increase or decrease. However, even then, I don't consider that to be an improvement for men's rights - hard times can often lead to gender roles being impo…
/r/MensRights28/07/25 11:52 PM
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Most MRAs (men's rights advocates) I know don't want to return to traditionalism. In fact most MRAs I know (including myself) are egalitarian and liberal (though we may not be enthusiastic about current "liberal" politicians - which is another issue entirely). Imposing traditional gender norms hurts everyone (men very much included). Gender equality, in my mind, means freedom and equality for everyone (regardless of gender). My issue right now is that issues that concern men tend to not get seri…
/r/MensRights28/07/25 11:22 PM
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Look at male content creators like Jordan Peterson or Andrew Tate even. They're constantly telling men that they must do and be better. Men are always told to be better (even by those in the manosphere). It's built into how even men see men. There are comparatively few pity parties thrown for men's suffering. If a man is suffering, he must simply do and be better.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 10:48 PM
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The male loneliness epidemic is part platonic loneliness and part romantic loneliness. Getting a date as a man is often brutal. Platonic friendships are easier to achieve but there's a reason why so many male friendships don't go too far below the surface - a lot of other guys aren't truly down for that (so your options are limited).
/r/MensRights28/07/25 10:22 PM
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Men need to recognize other men as being fully vulnerable. Many men really believe a man should just shut up about their problems.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 10:09 PM
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10/10 reply.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 05:22 PM
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I've found that even guys who've been through that can sometimes be too macho about it and can impose those misandrist expectations of being macho on other men they talk to. Men unfortunately tend to be less empathetic to other men.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 05:04 PM
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Women 100% recognize the power they have over men.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 05:00 PM
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Of course it is. If a man openly and publicly complains about male specific issues, ridicule usually follows.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 03:31 PM
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Men are killed and assaulted more then women largely because of misandry. Men have a far greater sentencing rate than women because of misandry. Men are demonized far more than women because of misandry etc etc etc
/r/MensRights28/07/25 03:20 PM
1

Cambridge is a shit hole
/r/MensRights28/07/25 03:17 PM
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Unfortunately most dicks are not precious resources. Most men are not desired by women and society gives no inherent value to men just for being men - men are told they must become, they can't just be.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 03:04 PM
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This is such a crucial point. We can never truly have accurate stats on the gender breakdown for crimes like sexual violence or domestic violence because they usually rely on self-reporting and men will tend to report less. The exact extent to which men report less in each given area can vary and we can't know it for sure.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 03:59 PM
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It was often talked about in a mocking way but that's perhaps a step on the road to men's issues being eventually taken seriously.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 03:25 PM
2

I agree that living alone is great. No unnecessary compromises - your space and your life can actually be yours. The issue is getting over lust and those perhaps irrational feelings that spark up at times where you see a couple and kind of wish you had that (despite knowing how annoying it is as well).
/r/MensRights25/07/25 01:59 PM
62

Always funny to hear women talk about violence. If violence is a measurement of how mean men are, men are soooooo much meaner to other men than they are to women.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 12:45 PM
6

This doesn't seem to stop women from rallying together.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 12:24 PM
44

VICTIMHOOD IS POWER.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 10:13 AM
79

It's like how Karen Straughan said that if I had to be objectified, I'd rather be objectified as a precious object that is kept comparatively safe in a domestic life than I would an object that is called upon to go to war and otherwise has to work the most dangerous and back-breaking professions.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 10:09 AM
109

Why are we so much nicer to the other side than they are to us? I see feminist comments on here that stay up for good.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 10:05 AM
7

This makes me feel like so many women and society at large have no compassion for men (even those with mental conditions that make them more vulnerable). Recently, I've seen women and society accept and participate in an app that unfairly defames men. I've seen entire comment sections full of women mock a man who was burned alive by a female "friend". I've seen society and women openly engage in rhetoric surrounding men that has deep shades of the way black people were talked about in the recons…
/r/MensRights25/07/25 10:03 AM
6

Stupid response. The majority of Americans live in states where you can get an abortion so wtf are you on about. In my country, the UK, every woman can get an abortion. Do you want to know what both those countries have in common though? I'll tell ya: MEN HAVE NO REPRODUCTIVE RIGHTS IN EITHER OF THEM. Always funny to hear people dumb enough to interpret privilege as a lack of privilege and even blatantly lie in the process of it. Ooooooooo you are stupid as hell. Lol funny to hear women complain…
/r/MensRights25/07/25 09:42 AM
1

This is the thing about men sharing issues - they're told to just be different (as if their biological is something they can turn off). Women are so much better at responding to other women's issues
/r/MensRights24/07/25 12:32 PM
2

I think that the definition of rape is sometimes cast too widely but your definition is too narrow. It doesn't account for people who have involuntary freezing responses. That's why consent should try to be gotten - if someone consented but then later decides they actually didn't fully want it, that's where regret comes in. Also places where sex can happen can also be places where people have non-sexual fun. A tad conservative to denounce being in those places at all!
/r/MensRights24/07/25 11:14 AM
1

When in doubt, blame the man (or if no man involved, blame the nearest man).
/r/MensRights24/07/25 11:01 AM
1

Women are beings of pure light who never do harm
/r/MensRights24/07/25 10:58 AM
1

There are probably lots of women saying that
/r/MensRights24/07/25 10:56 AM
64

Conservatives and liberals are both gynocentric in their own different ways
/r/MensRights24/07/25 09:56 AM
1

Not a serious question, lad
/r/MensRights24/07/25 09:54 AM
27

The UK's only 1 step away from that
/r/MensRights24/07/25 09:37 AM
10

Aye, but if he were a she, "call the police, there's been a rape"
/r/MensRights24/07/25 09:30 AM
11

Those misandrist female customers better hope those 3 female drivers are near them and not busy when they need an Uber. But they get what they get for being bigots.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 09:24 AM
12

Uber could follow this discrimination up with more discrimination to artificially change the gender ratios of their drivers. We all know companies get away with proudly discriminating against certain groups.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 09:22 AM
95

This is 2025. Gender equality means men get discriminated against while women get whatever they want.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 09:19 AM
215

Don't crimes against women anyway receive worse punishments than crimes against men? Italy is just putting into law what everyone already knows. Value of a woman's life>value of a man's life.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 09:15 AM
7

But keep this in mind: if they didn't spin this into "women are the better gender", would they even be allowed to publish this?
/r/MensRights24/07/25 09:02 AM
41

This is more mocking the double standard around intoxicated sex than it is a serious question
/r/MensRights24/07/25 08:29 AM
9

Many women know society morally type-casts them as being innocent darlings. They know it and oh boy will they use it.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 08:27 AM
9

And keep in mind that that is despite the fact that most people who transition, transition from Male to Female. It's people who want to be seen as women (despite the fact it's harder to pass as a woman because your voice changes less and despite the fact that trans women are more demonized). In comparison, even though trans men are less demonized, not as many people are trying to become men.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 08:25 AM
19

Lots of women are hella rapey when they find the rare men they're attracted to
/r/MensRights24/07/25 08:18 AM
2

Lots of them were creepy before that too. And they'll sometimes admit to it too.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 12:00 AM
5

I imagine the place where you were being assessed offered the same option for women in your position. Is Uber allowing men to filter out female drivers as well? I'm okay with equality.
/r/MensRights23/07/25 11:25 PM
2

I'm struggling to see the men's rights in this
/r/MensRights23/07/25 10:21 PM
16

Just out of interest, would you see this as acceptable if this were happening but we replaced male drivers with black drivers?
/r/MensRights23/07/25 10:18 PM
8

Wait until they and the rest of society find out men have it FAR worse when it comes to violence.
/r/MensRights23/07/25 10:12 PM
0

What about that implies social media?
/r/MensRights23/07/25 04:57 PM
1

Did OP explicitly say that?
/r/MensRights23/07/25 10:38 AM
2

I'm also interested in knowing if there any particular people in the men's rights field who got you into this area or who got you motivated to go public on these issues. I know a lot of people credit Karen Straughan.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 03:08 PM
4

Love it! I want you to know I really appreciate you and people like you who proudly and publicly stand up for the legitimate rights and wellbeing of people when it's comparatively unpopular to do so. It's brave and it's so incredibly important (because of how few people do it in public). You actively make my life better because you provide an empathetic place I can go to when I'm struggling with blatant misandry and "all men = evil" narratives, and I'm sure others feel that way too.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 02:32 PM
3

I'm obviously not the OP but man hate is everywhere and unavoidable (at least where I am)
/r/MensRights22/07/25 12:59 PM
7

If this is the real TheTinMen, I'm a big fan!
/r/MensRights22/07/25 12:56 PM
8

You seem a lot more confident than you are intelligent
/r/MensRights22/07/25 12:51 PM
3

Don't flatter yourself.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 12:48 PM
7

You're exactly what the left tries to demonize MRAs as
/r/MensRights22/07/25 12:44 PM
6

Bingo, dumbass
/r/MensRights22/07/25 12:43 PM
11

If these are the reasoning skills of the top 1%, it's truly not the best and brightest who rise to the top.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 12:40 PM
2

In wealth or status maybe - not sure about your thoughts though
/r/MensRights22/07/25 12:27 PM
8

You're a disgrace to men's rights (what is supposed to be a human rights movement)
/r/MensRights22/07/25 12:26 PM
1

I support the dictionary definition of feminism. Digging below the surface is where you get to the grime.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 12:14 PM
20

This is you -> "You’ll be surrounded by traditional gender roles and feminine women who embrace them. You’ll realize how far the west has fallen instantly."
/r/MensRights22/07/25 12:00 PM
7

Ain't that the dream. If only we could get all men to stop approaching and let women know if they don't make the first move, nobody else will.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 11:58 AM
29

Traditional gender roles are the opposite of men's rights. Men's rights is about gender equality, not enforcing traditional gender norms. These posts are what'll actually give this subreddit a bad name.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 11:54 AM
0

Enjoy la la land
/r/MensRights18/07/25 09:40 PM
41

That's a common trend with violence towards men. It's a super sexist assumption
/r/MensRights18/07/25 09:52 AM
58

Drug dealers are so amazing for distributing drugs but the addicts who buy from them are such scum
/r/MensRights18/07/25 12:55 AM
64

Most men have such a hard time getting free sex and then they're exploited for it with OF etc.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 11:20 PM
56

So many women are sooooo weird and creepy around men they like. The big difference is most men are invisible to most women.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 11:19 PM
2

I've been raped and sexually assaulted many times (including by women). The responses to me sharing have been laughter and doubt - and people have admitted to my face that their response was like that because I'm a man. The responses have been brutal. I feel uncomfortable sharing what happened to me in most spaces now.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 11:16 PM
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I've been raped and sexually assaulted many times (including by women). The responses to me sharing have been laughter and doubt - and people have admitted to my face that their response was like that because I'm a man. The responses have been brutal. I feel uncomfortable sharing what happened to me in most spaces now. I get you, mate!
/r/MensRights17/07/25 11:14 PM
1

Lots of men, in general, are self hating. As in, soooooo many men are self hating.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 05:29 PM
1

You clearly did if you honestly think the focus of my dislike of this narrative is that I think empathy, as a concept, is wrong. -_-
/r/MensRights17/07/25 05:26 PM
1

If that were the narrative I'd have no issue with it
/r/MensRights17/07/25 03:09 PM
2

Queer privilege I guess lol. I do genuinely pity the straight kings out there (or at least those who aren't in the top 10% of straight men).
/r/MensRights17/07/25 10:55 AM
1

I think autistic men need to usually be really lucky to get a girlfriend. They need to be super hot or have particular women just see the good stuff in them enough to want to date them and overlook their autistic ways. Also being in the same social group could hurt an autistic man's chances though because he's probably gonna be on the edge of that social group and most women will lose attraction to him because of that. An autistic man would just be hoping there's a woman in that group who doesn'…
/r/MensRights17/07/25 10:52 AM
1

The likely reality right now is that most women want a small % of the men. Women generally aren't attracted to men on their level (evolutionary biology). Those top guys would rather sleep with a bunch of women than get into a proper relationship (that's why "Men are such trash" and "Men are such players" - only a small % of men are like that and many of them enjoy the "perks" of it). Most women would rather share a top man than acknowledge the masses of normal men out there. Sooo many normal men…
/r/MensRights17/07/25 10:33 AM
1

It makes sense why so many incels are autistic men. The archetype of a conventionally attractive man is just basically the exact opposite of an autistic man. Imagine James Bond on opposite day. The stats reflect this too. Autistic men do far worse at dating than neurotypical men but autistic women do about as well as neurotypical women. It's no wonder. Autistic men are not gonna get a pass on having to approach or be a great conversationalist to get a date just because women feel sorry for them …
/r/MensRights17/07/25 10:07 AM
1

Sounds like the worst disadvantage for a man is being autistic. If social circles and conversational skills are so important for a man in getting a date, autistic men are truly the most hurt.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 08:55 AM
2

How many men have an easy time getting either (especially considering dating is a prerequisite to commitment)?
/r/MensRights17/07/25 08:51 AM
2

Me being able to date other men is a great privilege that I don't take lightly. Far easier than dating the fairer sex.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 08:48 AM
4

No. All men have no emotions and do not feel anything when groups of people make unchallenged demeaning comments about them. All I do is drink bud light, watch sports, and play pool. My only emotions are hungry and sleepy.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 08:46 AM
2

Yeah but only the top 10% or 20% of men have enough options to actually refuse someone because they also have conventionally attractive women open to them. Beggers can't be choosers and most men are beggers.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 08:42 AM
2

All men get hate. That's my observation. Can't keep on going around and around. Bye!
/r/MensRights17/07/25 08:36 AM
1

Women have this far better. Do you realize that most men will never experience a point in life where their dating options will come anywhere near the dating options of the average 25yo woman? Also "the right guy" is usually code for HYPERGAMY.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 08:33 AM
3

Men have to get dates to gatekeep a relationship - not too easy for a man. A small % of men are the gate keepers of relationships. You aren't much of a gate keeper in nobody wants to enter through your gate.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 01:27 AM
34

If this is about getting men in the top 10%, my empathy goes out the window. That's not a dating crisis - that's just being more picky than you ought to be.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 12:52 AM
18

The difference is crazy. Most men are in a dating desert and would be grateful for anything from a woman - sex, dating, being taken seriously. Meanwhile, conventionally unattractive women I know of all ages get dates like it's the easiest thing ever
/r/MensRights17/07/25 12:48 AM
9

I think the Henry Cavill comparison is an exaggeration but I agree with you otherwise
/r/MensRights17/07/25 12:44 AM
4

I wonder whether standards are just baked into our evolutionary biological makeup? How can someone overturn that.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 12:42 AM
4

This whole women "hitting the wall" at 30 or 40 thing honestly seems hard to believe for me. Sure, maybe women's options decrease a bit but that's after so many women start at a point of having a literal world of options. From what I've seen, even when people are in their 40s, women have a far easier time getting dates than men. Also what % of men get to a point where they have so much leverage that they experience options (and, importantly, ease of getting on dates with those people) similar to…
/r/MensRights17/07/25 12:04 AM
3

Honestly, soooo many men don't have options and rarely ever get to feel desired. It can be difficult to have good self esteem or be romantically confident when that's what you're working with. Almost all men will barely be thrown a bone (no joke intended) on dating apps, and, in real life, men feel like they have to always be the ones chasing women or trying to win women's favour. Research says both genders, on average, would prefer being approached over doing the approaching and that seems supe…
/r/MensRights16/07/25 11:52 PM
13

I haven't seen the movie so I can't comment on the movie, itself. My post isn't blaming the movie itself either. It blames a narrative surrounding the movie. I agree that one ideally shouldn't be impacted by what people think but everyone is also within their rights to be insulted by a demeaning narrative.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 02:27 PM
44

My sister shared this narrative and my mother responded by saying "all the men in the family should go see it". Firstly, she'll personally admit that her father is kinder than her mother and that a lot of the men in our family are more empathetic than a lot of the women. Also, even if that weren't the case, how is it okay to say that in front of your son and husband. Imagine if I said the inverse about women in front of my mother and sister.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 01:57 PM
42

No wonder people feel they can act so terribly towards us - they're under the impression we're incapable of having feelings.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 01:48 PM
2

I agree that hot guys get the benefit of women desiring them. I get the pain of not being that hot guy (I have a face that is so ugly it has literally made small children scared and I'm autistic - so I'm not exactly popular in the dating scene). I'm talking about general misandry here and I believe it applies to all men (even the ones who do receive other benefits from women for being attractive).
/r/MensRights16/07/25 01:33 PM
1

Women feel desires towards Chads, yes. That does not also mean those Chads don't receive hate for belonging to the status of Man.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 10:52 AM
1

Ah I see it. Reddit is telling me there's a Server Error whenever I search for this subreddit's stuff but there's no such error for the general search function. Bit weird but oh well.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 09:52 AM
2

I think the pushback is partially correct and partially incorrect. It's correct in the sense that a gay man (or at least a gay man who does not outwardly present as stereotypically gay) will still receive the demonization of being a potentially dangerous man unless he comes out to someone and he can't realistically come out to every woman he meets in public. It's incorrect in the way that a gay man isn't considered an oppressive pig for simply expressing attraction. A gay man isn't called a cree…
/r/MensRights16/07/25 09:45 AM
1

"men", as a group, are blamed for just about everything. Society sees nothing wrong with that.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 09:09 AM
18

I disagree. All men are hated. Chads are just hot enough to get banged while they're being hated. Don't think sleeping with someone means you're not bigoted against their gender - it definitely doesn't. Man hate is spread out to just about everyone, Chads just get sex as well.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 08:48 AM
3

I completely agree that heterosexual males gets more hate. I'm bi and if I express my attraction to a man, people in my life will actually celebrate me. If I say literally the exact same thing about a woman I'm a attracted to, I'm automatically scum. Straight men are considered the devil in this supposedly wonderful age where anybody can be whoever they want to be without shame (as long as they ain't a straight cis white man I guess).
/r/MensRights16/07/25 08:42 AM
1

Is this available on a phone also?
/r/MensRights16/07/25 08:32 AM
2

I don't have advice but I just want to say I'm really sorry you had to go through this. I can't imagine what that's like. I've been sexually assaulted multiple times but I'd so much rather experience those SAs again than be accused of even one sexual misconduct. I hope things get better for you.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 11:56 PM
1

It's good (and right) of you to feel that way despite what he did to you. I admire your level-headedness!
/r/MensRights15/07/25 11:50 PM
1

Can you search for posts only on this subreddit in the search bar or are you referring to reddit's general search bar?
/r/MensRights15/07/25 11:36 PM
125

Incredible how when men struggle, people shit on them for it. How many other groups do we treat like this?
/r/MensRights15/07/25 02:58 PM
1

If you weren't implying that, I don't understand the point of bringing up antidepressants in that context. Being on antidepressants (on its own) is an advantage - they make (or are at least supposed to make) you feel better and thus improve the energy levels you need to improve your life.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 02:51 PM
37

So r/ MensLib is just women telling men what to think and do?
/r/MensRights15/07/25 01:54 PM
13

How can you see the stats on that - I'm not too familiar with reddit
/r/MensRights15/07/25 01:44 PM
1

This was quite poetic
/r/MensRights15/07/25 01:42 PM
1

Men tend to be less likely to get their depression diagnosed or receive help for it (part of that is stigma or conditioning surrounding men getting help and part of that is that men are more likely to not have their depression correctly identified). 'Who is more likely to be on antidepressants' does not equal 'who is more depressed' - there are too many steps in-between. 'Who is more likely to be on antidepressants' only actually measures who is getting more help for depression.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 01:37 PM
1

Don't think that was a yes or no question lol
/r/MensRights15/07/25 01:17 PM
12

Men's rights might unfortunately always be an uphill battle
/r/MensRights15/07/25 10:04 AM
3

If you ask them the reason why they still believe her, they'll be like "bEcAuSe VaGiNa"
/r/MensRights14/07/25 10:08 PM
107

Do trans women not realize that the discomfort and dirty looks they may face in women's spaces are literally because of misandry. It's because they're seen as the proverbial "man in a dress" by some people and those people might also think men are inherently untrustworthy (aka MISANDRY).
/r/MensRights14/07/25 08:36 AM
6

Not exactly easy for anyone to control hardwired biological impulses
/r/MensRights09/07/25 07:21 PM
5

Are you a masochist? If so, I can see why that could be sexy in a way. It's like those people who wrap themselves up in rugs and lie across streets disguising themselves because they have a fetish for being stepped on. I respect it. If life gives you a shitty situation, I can't knock you for trying to make it less bad.
/r/MensRights09/07/25 07:18 PM
7

Do you think a lot of men just generally feel an inferiority complex around women?
/r/MensRights09/07/25 05:45 PM
6

I agree that the left is more misandrist than the right. It still doesn't mean the right aren't often anti-male though - gender stereotypes are negative for everyone and they are often anti-male as well. Gender stereotypes about men mean male victims of violence generally don't receive as much attention as female victims, they mean that men are viewed as workhorses and dispensable, they allow men to be spoken about and treated in very harsh mechanical ways that often strip men of the vulnerabili…
/r/MensRights06/07/25 07:58 PM
1

I recognize your experiences. For me, I have seen it be referred to as a heightened issue now as well. I agree that there is still a stigma among men about not doing things that may make them get labeled gay. However, at the same time, at least where I am, most men have skincare routines, they care about getting in shape, they wear attractive clothes and their hair is usually in line with what's considered nice at this time. So, in summary, I think men do still have some level of stigma surround…
/r/MensRights06/07/25 07:44 PM
2

Many women say there aren't many attractive men "these days (that being a key part of the statement)". Men are physically more attractive now.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 04:48 PM
2

Men are statistically far more likely to do this now than they were previously
/r/MensRights06/07/25 04:38 PM
3

I agree. Also I think the longer anti-maleness is the norm in society, the longer (and further) men will fall behind. It does seem like society's way of responding to men falling behind is to just call them lazy instead of addressing issues behind that and I fear this won't change unless something drastic happens. In regards to men checking out of relationships, it seems like that might further decrease population growth. Unless of course women are all happy to get pregnant from the subset of me…
/r/MensRights06/07/25 01:17 PM
5

What do you think the long term effects of our country's culture of acceptable+celebrated misandry will be?
/r/MensRights06/07/25 12:02 PM
3

I feel like this issue applies to all men. It may apply more to bigger men (you should include tall men in here as well btw) but it still is an issue for all men. Actually maybe the only way for a man to not be seen as the assumed threat is if the man is a dwarf or severely disabled.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 11:59 AM
87

You have this and, at the same, I am CONSTANTLY hearing online how 100% pure and wonderful women are in their dating preferences and how it's just all about connection and personality. Maybe it's like that for some women but they can speak for themselves.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 11:51 AM
32

The way the daily mail reports on men is evidence that both the right wing and the left wing dislike men.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 11:48 AM
1

Is women finding facial hair unattractive a common occurrence where you are?
/r/MensRights06/07/25 08:46 AM
3

What rough % of clean shaven men are you attracted to?
/r/MensRights06/07/25 08:20 AM
24

From what I've heard from women and Google's AI answer, women are actually, on average, more attracted to men's bodies than they are to their faces. I think the big difference is that gay men are just less picky in regards to how many men they find attractive. I find it's so much easier for me, as a bisexual man, to get with a man than a woman.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 09:20 PM
10

I notice that too - I'm bi btw. I feel like the explanation of the disparity between how attractive men are to queer men vs straight women may also have a lot to do with standards. It's my experience that men are FAR less picky than women are.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 08:50 PM
3

Aye, almost all of the time when someone makes assumptions or jumps to conclusions, it's done through them expressing their opinion. You clearly think you're a lot smarter than you are. I don't have any more time to talk to clearly arrogant people. Bye!
/r/MensRights05/07/25 08:43 PM
3

Maybe you jumping to multiple conclusions about what the purpose of my post is.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 08:20 PM
1

I think that men are, overall, putting more effort into their appearance now than they were previously. On the topic of male bodies, I've seen MANY women thurst like anything and be super super inappropriate around men with great faces+bodies. I think that women are sexually turned on by men's bodies - it's just the case that most women don't care for most men. This isn't something that you brought up but I've seen it brought up elsewhere. There are apparently studies that suggest that women pre…
/r/MensRights05/07/25 08:03 PM
10

Wow lots of assumptions there buddy
/r/MensRights05/07/25 07:42 PM
14

Firstly, many forms of violence are self reported. People are less likely to report female strangers as opposed to male strangers. Secondly, even if I did accept your notion, it's pure sexism to treat an entire group worse because it's perceived that they're more likely to commit a crime than the another group. Do you know how many men I know who have been victimized either sexually or just through pure assault by women they aren't in a relationship with or aren't family with - it's most men I k…
/r/MensRights05/07/25 07:41 PM
16

This reply, in no way, undoes the message you put across in your original comment. Keep in mind I did acknowledge that you showed empathy to him also. You did both. Funny man calling that "libelous".
/r/MensRights05/07/25 07:32 PM
15

My friend, you have drunk the societal kool-aid when it comes to violence.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 07:10 PM
19

"Man is made to feel uncomfortable. Women have it worse."
/r/MensRights05/07/25 07:05 PM
19

Literally - I wonder whether feminist subreddits have regular members with apparent anti-female biases. The ways in which he diminishes male experiences (in comparison to female experiences) are also incorrect. Women do like the naked male form - it just happens to be the case that most men are seen as garbage by most women - one would logically think men suffer more from that situation but oh well. Also, men don't appreciate feeling unsafe either - this post shows it. He's really just doing thi…
/r/MensRights05/07/25 07:04 PM
22

Weird comment
/r/MensRights05/07/25 06:15 PM
21

If a man cups a woman's crotch and strokes her breasts, it's considered a definite sexual assault
/r/MensRights05/07/25 06:11 PM
8

Agreed. When I've told people close to me that I've been sexually assaulted by women, they have chuckled and said it's "no big deal". They've even been open enough to say their reaction was like that because I'm a male victim of SA. They don't even hide their misandry. Then we wonder why men are far more likely to underreport sexual assaults. Then we wonder why 'such few men get sexually assaulted".
/r/MensRights05/07/25 05:47 PM
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Sorry to hear that
/r/MensRights04/07/25 11:40 PM
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Also I've been sexually assaulted by women multiple times before, as have many men. Some men are coerced, some men literally can't fight back because of an involuntary freezing response, some men won't fight back because if they do they will be seen as the aggressive one, some men just get groped etc and don't have time to block it, and so on. Men are vulnerable to sexual assault by women.
/r/MensRights04/07/25 11:01 PM
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With me being a bisexual man, I have experience of what it's like to be attracted to both men and women (in the west). Even though I'm from a somewhat traditional background, I still am far more shamed for my attraction to women than I am for my attraction to men. Me openly talking about my attraction to men brings me literal praise from so many people in my life, but if I say the exact same thing about my attraction to women, I get called a pig and an oppressor. Queer men still face some backla…
/r/MensRights04/07/25 10:55 PM
10

You do not have to make adjustments because other people are bigoted towards you
/r/MensRights04/07/25 09:46 AM
1

Sorry you went through that too
/r/MensRights04/07/25 09:39 AM
1

I think you're confusing someone who disagrees with you with an incel
/r/MensRights04/07/25 09:38 AM
3

It was a joke about the "no foreskin" part
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:37 PM
4

You know all the hot women are gonna be swarming around him now that he's flaunting his 30 pounds
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:16 PM
3

Gonna be an all-out war for that 30 quid
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:14 PM
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LOL must be a slow news day if someone winning 30 quid is a highlight.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:14 PM
4

Damnit! Does that mean they took away my right to have an opinion on this when they mutilated me as a baby?
/r/MensRights03/07/25 11:57 AM
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That cow analogy they make is incredibly stupid. Bulls are separated from cows and calves after birth. This analogy would not work if the bulls stayed with the cows/calves and/or were required, under threat of criminal sentencing, to pay child support for the calves. I have no doubt being pregnant is impactful but the biggest effect of having a child is being a parent afterwards. Men are parents too. In fact, men are forced to be parents while, even if a woman chooses to not get an abortion, she…
/r/MensRights03/07/25 11:50 AM
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Men already face so much prejudice in these fields and now public voices are calling for more prejudice. Just imagine for a second this happening to women in any field.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 11:32 AM
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Is that not just a way to get victimhood points out of a situation where women are obviously far more benefitted? It's also not just about being harmless, people are more likely to attribute positive traits to women than they are to men. Men are ALL inherently seen as harmful unless they prove themselves otherwise and even that can never really be achieved. Furthermore, the "women are wonderful" effect applies far wider than just causing harm and definitely far wider than just causing physical h…
/r/MensRights03/07/25 11:18 AM
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Reminds me of Amber Heard. It takes a certain level of arrogance to accuse your victim of the crime you perpetrated against them.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 05:20 PM
1

I don't know but aren't your courts also inherently ideologically driven as well or is that just my trash corner of the world (the UK)?
/r/MensRights02/07/25 05:09 PM
1

From the impression that I get of the American left, black vs white comes slightly above woman vs man. They are seen as "the big 2" though. LGBT+ gets it's pride marches and all but nobody shames heterosexuality as much as they shame men or whiteness. My exception there is that heterosexual males are shamed plenty but I honestly think that's more to do with them being men - hetero women aren't called pigs for expressing their physical attraction to men.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 04:48 PM
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Also the gender based sentencing disparity is 6 times higher than the racial sentencing disparity but it doesn't mean women are never sentenced (though we shouldn't say that too loudly - it'll give the British government ideas). It just means that women are less likely to be sentenced and that they receive shorter sentences. I think the article highlights how her punishment was not that bad.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 04:31 PM
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Aye, but she was being racist against another protected class of people so that might explain the conviction. Also, from what I hear, in the US, woke people give black people higher status than white women when it comes to their "hierarchy of victimhood". That's just what I gather from American media and talking to Americans. I've heard a fair amount of american white women call themselves privileged and I have little doubt they're talking about the left wing white-black dynamic.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 04:27 PM
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No country in the world cares enough about male babies to fully outlaw their genitals being mutilated. Let that sink in.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 04:18 PM
7

I know it is but fluff feels a lot better than hate.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 04:13 PM
20

My guess is that this post is about the "pussy pass"
/r/MensRights02/07/25 04:09 PM
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I'm honestly kind of impressed by the person who managed to keep track of her saying it 200 times. As a side note, why is the daily mail (a British right wing newspaper) covering a minor story from some university is a small flyover state in a different country.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 04:07 PM
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"Immediately I got downvoted by a lot of men white knighting for feminism and saying men are to blame for impregnating a women out of marriage (?)." How does their argument even make sense???? It's usually the committed partner who is the victim of the paternity fraud. They're saying your wife/girlfriend cheats on you and that's your fault? White knights are hella stupid sometimes.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 04:03 PM
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I think it's possible you might have misunderstood this post. The "women are wonderful" effect is a societal phenomenon where women generally are seen as more inherently wonderful than men are. This post is not saying women are particularly bad - if you want evidence of that, look at the last two or so lines of my post (they make it pretty clear I view the genders as equal). I'm literally only complaining about a phenomenon that comparatively discriminates against men. It's very clear that I'm s…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 12:51 PM
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I agree everyone should be allowed to wear the same things and I don't mind people dressing in revealing ways. At the same time, topless men are very rare (even in the summer). Women wearing very revealing clothes (that men would be mocked a lot more for wearing) are extraordinarily common. I probably could come across 300 women wearing very revealing clothes before I see a topless man and that might even be an underestimation. Nevertheless, I believe both double standards should be challenged.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 12:22 PM
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Just one point on pregnancy. Wives officially have reproductive rights and husbands officially don't. Wives can use baby Moses laws while, if a husband does it, and doesn't have the wife's sign-off on it beforehand, it is a crime. Even after that point, a man often has less rights to their children, in case of family breakdown. Also in regards to not being a woman for 18 years, in any half-decent marriage, a wife is not being contained by someone else to the home. Partners can agree on how they …
/r/MensRights02/07/25 11:20 AM
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Courts tend to not be too kind to men
/r/MensRights02/07/25 10:48 AM
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I'm real close to liking your response. I agree that ideally men and women should work together and I also agree that every human has struggles. My issue is that my response to you was literally just following on from the energy you give me. I hope you'll honestly reflect that you haven't been too warm and cooperative towards me either. The martyrdom and 'thinking I have it worse' is not exclusive to me or my side of this debate. I'm happy to meet halfway if you are. Just one note about the ment…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 10:44 AM
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Male and female sentencing in the UK is night and day. Men already are treated far harder and the government actively wants to increase the gender sentencing gap. Also, if you go around and see which gender overall tends to wear more revealing clothes, there is absolutely no comparison. If I wore those skin tight shiny leggings as a man, I'd be shamed so much more than a woman would because it's socially acceptable for them. Do you know how many times I've heard people mock men who wear anything…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 10:23 AM
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My parting advice to you: just because one group (in this situation women) feel far more safe sharing their issues in public than another group (in this situation men), does not strictly mean they have more issues. It just means they have the notable privilege of sharing them and having that sharing be met with compassion by so much of society. Check your privilege and enjoy your life! Bye! Also just another side note: when you called me an incel, you were wrong. I've been raped by women. The re…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 10:04 AM
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Ah yes, no proof of me being an incel but you saw something that wasn't to your liking and thought: "iNcEL".
/r/MensRights02/07/25 09:56 AM
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Compare how women and men are spoken about mainstream headlines, by most politicians, by employers, on billboards, in movies, in tv shows, on posters etc etc etc. At least if you live in the UK, there is no discussion. I could talk about the constant shaming of men also (just to name a few: height, too skinny, being a macho man, not being a real man, their "size", their performance in bed, simply explaining something to a woman, sitting in a way that doesn't compress their balls, them not sharin…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 09:52 AM
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I love that you saw facts and changed your opinion - I honestly aspire to be as open minded as you seem to be. Also it can be a shock to the system to see entrenched gender-based narratives about violence challenged - I get that. If you're looking for a possible explanation for why most people perceive sexual violence as being a female issues, I've got a few for you: (a) men are conditioned to not share their sexual violence stories (I was personally chuckled at by people close to me for sharing…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 01:56 AM
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Might be better to ask this to people who have money. My guess is that people (at least in the public eye) are scared of reputational damage from being nice to men because that'll do damage in most of society. Just look at movember and their shambolic use of resources. Another factor is that men are time and time again shown to not have as strong an in-group bias and to also morally type-cast men as not being victims. Getting help for your issues easily is a huge privilege and should be recogniz…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 01:39 AM
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FINALLY - I thought I was the only one. Naked people look gross. No idea why people like it. Sexy clothes are way hotter.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 01:22 AM
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I find it's more often the case that feminists come onto my posts and resort to name calling instead of engaging in a good faith discussion. I will put my hand up and say that I've been closed minded as well in the past at times and I agree it's good for us to be open-minded. It's just also my observation that we do usually seem to be a lot more willing to engage in real discussion than the other side. I genuinely can't remember the last debate I had with a feminist where she wasn't being openly…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 01:20 AM
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I absolutely can not wait for the Netflix series
/r/MensRights02/07/25 01:13 AM
1

Rich men are shamed as being the archetype of the rich old man, and poor men are called bums.
/r/MensRights01/07/25 05:39 PM
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I've seen on this subreddit that when I make posts that outline reasonable arguments, feminists come on here and call us incels in the comments. They really know nothing but following pure ideology and throwing out insults ("incel" should be a slur at this point with how it's mainly used to attack men for outlining legitimate concerns).
/r/MensRights01/07/25 05:34 PM
1

Oooooh good one
/r/MensRights01/07/25 05:27 PM
1

I disagree but don't really have the energy to prolong a reddit debate beyond a couple of replies. Have a good one!
/r/MensRights30/06/25 11:04 PM
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I overall agree. I just think that there's a fine line to walk here to not be victim blaming at the same time. We can acknowledge that we have struggles that are caused by people we can't control while also looking to be the best version of ourselves we can be. I think that, in the context of this post, it's important to highlight both. Have a good one, mate!
/r/MensRights30/06/25 09:43 PM
1

It's called sexism. It's not about you as an individual but it still hurts.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 08:58 PM
1

You are way too self-critical. You are facing society's misandry and it's making you think you're in the wrong. As someone who doubts himself a lot, I can kind of relate.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 08:56 PM
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I think women have a bit more compassion for men who were victims of other men. Men who are victims of women on the other hand....
/r/MensRights30/06/25 08:24 PM
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That women never going to prison thing is honestly just 1 step away from the UK's real stance on female crime and punishment
/r/MensRights30/06/25 08:07 PM
2

Really makes you question the women are wonderful effect.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 08:03 PM
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He's literally 1 person - believe it or not, all men are not controlled by one mind that @nick690000 from reddit just happens to control.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 07:33 PM
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I've seen the responses men get for sharing their issues on most subreddits - it's a whole lot of demonization and not a lot of compassion. As a man, I feel like there's an extreme shortage of places for me to get advice or help on issues I face that are specific to me being a man. What's even more insulting is that this demonization is done by the same camp of people who tell men to reduce their "toxic masculinity" and share their issues or go to therapy. How many misandrists does a man have to…
/r/MensRights30/06/25 07:28 PM
3

I wish men would just do this for a month. I know it'd be disastrous but, God, would it be great
/r/MensRights30/06/25 10:58 AM
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Misandry is booming
/r/MensRights30/06/25 02:01 AM
1

This is what I'm thinking - is being a feminist bootlicker the only way to talk about men's issues in the mainstream?
/r/MensRights29/06/25 06:55 PM
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I agree that everyone should receive support they need but the focus here is probably on men because this is subreddit is about men.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 12:04 PM
1

Single sex schools are definitely not the norm in the UK and, for younger children, they're almost non-existent.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 12:02 PM
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This is a great post btw.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 11:22 AM
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I've been sexually assaulted multiple times by women and when I've shared those experiences with people who are close to me, they have chuckled and said "what's the big deal". People will say this and then say "why don't men share how they feel more often". I remember this social media personality who got sexually assaulted by multiple women and his mostly female followers attacked him for it. Feminists pull a real dirty trick where they shame and attack men for sharing their sexual assault stor…
/r/MensRights29/06/25 11:22 AM
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I have a rule about Internet arguments where I don't waste time in them beyond a certain point. My parting advice to you - actually analyse issues deeply when you are fed ideology, and assess what societal norms about violence are (it's far more acceptable to be violent to a male) and think about what that would imply about rates of victimization among different genders.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 11:14 AM
1

You make a baseless assumption about rejection in my personal life and tell me to prove you wrong - how stupid can you honestly get?
/r/MensRights29/06/25 11:09 AM
2

Was this specifically to do with male issues?
/r/MensRights29/06/25 11:06 AM
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Murder stats. Males are more likely to be killed from infancy throughout life. Sexual violence and domestic violence stats once accounting for predicted rates of male SV and DV underreporting and coercion by women as well. Also read about the Duluth model and how laws surrounding sexual violence in many countries are literally built to exclude many male victims. I know it'll be hard to find mainstream reporting on this because of the women are wonderful effect but if you actually believe women e…
/r/MensRights29/06/25 11:05 AM
2

Unfortunately there may not be too much you can do to shield your son and nephews from misandry but you can always be a safe space for them to come to to talk about what's getting them down (including misandry) and you can instil in them the notion that regardless of whether society calls them trash, inherently toxic, dangerous etc., they should always know that that is not who they are. Society's portrait it paints of them does not need to be believed. Furthermore, it may mean more coming from …
/r/MensRights29/06/25 01:45 AM
3

Sounds like mainstream modern feminism honestly
/r/MensRights29/06/25 01:37 AM
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Has anybody seen a article in the mainstream media about men withdrawing from society or falling behind that actually bothers to ask men why they feel the way they do? I haven't.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 01:15 AM
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If only you were as correct as you are confident.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 01:02 AM
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If you think women suffer more from violence than men do, you are clearly all about narrative and not that much about analysis or facts. I can't be arguing more with someone who doesn't understand basic analysis. Hope you learn more in the future!!
/r/MensRights29/06/25 01:01 AM
1

Sounds like you may need to learn what subtext is
/r/MensRights29/06/25 12:57 AM
2

I feel like the UK and Australia both are incredibly misandrist.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 12:53 AM
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In this tiny subreddit, men's victimhood is brought to light. Men have that power in a tiny discriminated-against corner of reddit. Women have it in most other places. That's a weak comparison.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 12:50 AM
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Most of society is brown nosing women so much that any criticism to you just can't be tolerated, huh? Must be nice! Too bad I'll never know that feeling.
/r/MensRights28/06/25 06:11 AM
2

I disagree. The victimhood business is still booming. The right wing is not winning this war!
/r/MensRights28/06/25 06:07 AM
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Oooh real good comeback
/r/MensRights28/06/25 06:06 AM
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Always interesting to hear people complain about violence and make it out that women are the bigger victims - it's very interesting.
/r/MensRights28/06/25 06:04 AM
1

I think we might be discussing different things.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 08:50 PM
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Will that day ever come? Probably not in my lifetime.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 08:42 PM
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Oh they'll solve their own problems - they'll just pretend they haven't. Take work or violence as examples. Women don't have it worse in those areas and steps have been taken to improve the situations of women in those areas but they'll never accept that they have it good - that'd mean giving up power.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 08:39 PM
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It's not dying. Unfortunately misandrists are winning.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 08:26 PM
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I'm not talking about absolute freedom - choosing what you want to do with your life is pretty core freedom.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 08:23 PM
4

I appreciate that. Wish my life experience were more like yours!
/r/MensRights27/06/25 08:10 PM
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Why can't men and women just both do what they choose to do???? That's literally what men's rights is about - equality.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 07:53 PM
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I appreciate that some women don't but almost all of the women in my life actively buy this crap so I really don't believe this is a problem that only exists in the realm of social media. I see this stuff on tv ads, public billboards, posters, in schools, when I meet family, when I meet friends, at work - it is genuinely everywhere in my life where I live (UK).
/r/MensRights27/06/25 07:39 PM
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I feel like feminism is pulling a trick because their dictionary definition is quite acceptable but I guess if you dig below the surface, that's where you get to the grim stuff. That way, if you criticise feminism, they can always say that you are just against equality because the dictionary would back them up.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 11:51 AM
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I might be slightly naive about this but I hope we can live in a way where there can be cooperation between feminists and MRAs. I do agree that it'll be a difficult journey to get there though - most feminists I know are openly misandrist (even if they won't say they are).
/r/MensRights27/06/25 11:17 AM
2

I think they've stopped the podcast style content and now it's just short videos about men's issues.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 11:14 AM
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Never too early to start demonizing males I guess. Teach them early that they're trash and they'll be less likely to question it.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 11:06 AM
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I mean on other issues besides gender. But I think I'm being a bit harsh there - I appreciate the honey badgers a lot.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 10:58 AM
2

The absolute horror of having to emotionally help your partner when they have issues. Society: "why don't these toxic men just open up". Men open up Society: "why can't men just shut up! Look at what they're doing to these poor helpless women"
/r/MensRights27/06/25 10:56 AM
6

The superman guy shares a similar surname but his first name is Christopher (I believe).
/r/MensRights27/06/25 10:52 AM
2

Similar surname. Richard Reeves is perhaps the slightly "palatable" mainstream face of men's issues. That however does mean he can't fully fully support men's rights. He does grovel but at least he's better than nothing (in my opinion).
/r/MensRights27/06/25 10:51 AM
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All teachers or just pedophile teachers? Either way, I agree.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 10:46 AM
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Viciously torturing a young child might just be the worst crime ever
/r/MensRights27/06/25 09:34 AM
3

I think there's just a lack of respect for what men want.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 09:18 AM
1

I get that. I've been queer in a Muslim country. I'd agree over there. I, however, live in the UK, where I genuinely think straight men are the most shamed.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 09:01 AM
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I find lots of men don't need it to be done and some are even uncomfortable with it. That won't stop so many women from doing it anyway and proceed to complain about this voluntary act of theirs forever.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:18 PM
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Also, for my own experience, I find yard work and auto work to usually be a lot more physically demanding than house work. My back rarely hurts after even a day of intense housework. Meanwhile, it can hurt after an hour or so of yard work.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:06 PM
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I see this constantly. Ultimately it's just that men are shamed for not doing whatever women say. Either that or men's preferences for their own living space are just considered invalid.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 05:57 PM
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I'm a bisexual man so I get to experience a bit of both and, in my experience, it's easier being a man attracted to men than it is a man attracted to women (despite the fact that I come from a more traditional family). I genuinely believe nobody experiences more shame for their attraction today than straight men - I'm made to feel like scum for liking women - I'm actively celebrated in my life for feeling the exact same way about men.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 11:40 AM
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I'm a bisexual man so I get to experience a bit of both and, in my experience, it's easier being a man attracted to men than it is a man attracted to women (despite the fact that I come from a more traditional family). I genuinely believe nobody experiences more shame for their attraction today than straight men - I'm made to feel like scum for liking women - I'm actively celebrated in my life for feeling the exact same way about men.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 11:40 AM
1

Lol imagine women actually thinking that have it worse when it comes to violence than men. Also I don't live in Afghanistan - I live in the UK - my country hates me. Also women's issues being only seen by women is the biggest lie ever - society is obsessed with women's issues. If you don't think that, you are legitimately stupid.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 10:22 AM
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You are honestly such a miserable misandrist bigot. Imagine saying some of what you say about black people. God, do you even know how much of a piece of shit you are? You're the reason men kill themselves.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 10:18 AM
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Lol lol lol lol. I've been raped. I've been sexually assaulted more times than I can count (including by women outside - by the way, women who are very close to me laughed at the concept of me being sexually assaulted by women - hmmmmmm I wonder why men report sexual assault less and therefore sexual assault stats are unreliable). Rape stats and DV stats are literally set up in many countries (including mine) to exclude male victims but reported numbers if you view it more fairly are actually a …
/r/MensRights26/06/25 10:14 AM
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Lol lol lol lol. I've been raped. I've been sexually assaulted more times than I can count (including by women outside - by the way, women who are very close to me laughed at the concept of me being sexually assaulted by women - hmmmmmm I wonder why men report sexual assault less and therefore sexual assault stats are unreliable). Rape stats and DV stats are literally defined in many countries (including mine) to exclude male victims but reported numbers if you view it more fairly are actually a…
/r/MensRights26/06/25 10:14 AM
2

The "and even after" part is so true. A man can rarely ever socially escape the impact of a false allegation.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 09:45 AM
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I get your point but honestly any message that conveys actual empathy towards men is fine with me. We're scraping the barrel these days to find phrases that convey care towards men. That being said, it's been a LONG time since I heard anyone else say this phrase. The FAR more common phrase is something like "men will be what we make them".
/r/MensRights26/06/25 09:39 AM
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I can always tell how intelligent/empathetic someone is by whether or not they bring up the "wHo SeT tHe SyStEm Up" point. The fact is that now we live in an age where the advantages and disadvantages that currently exist exist - that's what matters - not what the situation was like thousands/hundreds of years ago (but it benefits feminists to argue as though we live in the past so I see why they pathetically do it). Also men are not 1 individual (despite how much you may want to dehumanize them…
/r/MensRights26/06/25 09:29 AM
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Firstly, not all people become parents so that's not applicable to everyone. The need, however, to be financially supported is applicable to everyone. Secondly, I've seen mainstream society complain about what you're complaining about - women's issues are seen (that must feel nice). Thirdly, it's so funny that you bring up parks - have you heard of the real fear many men feel to do with baseless accusations of being a pedo when they're at kids park - yeah, sure, men are super appreciated in that…
/r/MensRights26/06/25 09:15 AM
4

Everywhere is a cesspool of misandry.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 06:14 PM
1

Can you blame men for becoming misogynistic, when their gender is shit on constantly and when they face insane misandry right to their face that is not even challenged in the mainstream of society. Most women struggle to empathize with what it's like to be constantly shit on and then to have that be supported by the mainstream. They struggle to empathize with it because they are too privileged to understand what it feels like.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 06:12 PM
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Can you take the same approach when you see misogyny from women? Can you speak up to them and spend less of your energy on here lecturing men? Misogyny is a reaction to misandry.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 06:05 PM
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Can we blame men for responding to misandry with misogyny? Society sure says yes.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 06:02 PM
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A long long time before I was born.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 06:01 PM
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Wtf are you talking about? Women only doing the the bare minimum???? Young men are the ones falling behind - not young women. This generation's women are so privileged compared to this generation's men. The issue that's being highlighted here is about how the bar for receiving praise is far lower for women than it is for men.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 06:01 PM
1

True. The ultimate aim is that. I just think the issue along the way, when it comes to PR, for us is the fact that we're judged by our worst far more than feminism is. We're all seen an Andrew Tate despite the fact that Andrew Tate is not even an MRA - he's a traditionalist who spends most of his time calling most men broke losers and wanting to enforce damaging gender stereotypes on men as well.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 07:54 AM
1

I'm a man with gender dysphoria and I would love to transition but I am scared to because (with my physical characteristics) I don't think I'll pass and I'd be terrified to go into women's spaces. It's sad but it seems like nobody assigned male at birth, regardless of whether they transition or not, can escape the demonization of men that our societies actively encourage. It really really gets me down.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 11:32 PM
1

I agree and actually made a very very similar post on this subreddit a few days ago but it for some reason got deleted after a while (so maybe be aware of a possible deletion). You won't find most trans allies agreeing with this though because they overwhelmingly tend to also belong to political camps where it's very unpopular to show any kindness to men as a group.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 11:26 PM
2

I think this sub overall is very grounded. Far less misogyny on here than the misandry you regularly see from many feminists.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 11:16 PM
2

Most of society is just one big feminist subreddit
/r/MensRights24/06/25 04:09 PM
9

If you have that poor an understanding of the context surrounding safe haven laws/adoption, I doubt you have. Also it's so funny how people act like the biggest consequences of getting pregnant is 9 months of pregnancy - while that is a serious consequence, the biggest consequence is obviously having a child after. If you're okay with such a huge imbalance surrounding which parent has any say about the biggest consequence, you might need to go back to the drawing board.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 08:46 AM
2

That's a terrific point. If you're raised in a misandrist society, you are raised to dehumanize men (even if you don't consider yourself a misandrist). I have recently seen so many women say they aren't misandrists while simultaneously being openly misandrist.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 11:16 PM
2

I'm honestly shocked she got charged at all.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 10:50 PM
16

Apart from the many issues surrounding that, imagine telling women to just get their tubes tied to avoid needing to get an abortion
/r/MensRights23/06/25 10:48 PM
10

You really haven't thought much about this, have you?
/r/MensRights23/06/25 10:45 PM
6

They should tell that to the men who get 60% worse sentences for the additional crime of having a penis.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 10:19 PM
6

I appreciate you! Do you mind if I ask if there was a moment where you began to really notice today's culture of misandry or did you always feel this way?
/r/MensRights23/06/25 10:15 PM
13

Simply put, r/MensLib is pathetic.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 10:12 PM
4

Also it's not much better in real life. I've had so many (mostly female but some male) family members and coworkers say disgustingly misandrist things to my face. To name just a few examples, I've been pressurized by an aunt to say women are superior to men, I've had very close family members chuckle at the idea of women sexually assaulting men (despite it happening to me), and women in my life, to my face, have proudly said men are lower than dogs and men are trash etc..
/r/MensRights23/06/25 09:59 PM
5

As a man, every time I go on social media, I'm playing with my mental health. It's crushing to constantly be pelted with hate (and not even have mainstream society call that hatred out). I literally just saw a post on reddit where a man was sharing an issue and he received SO MUCH undeserved hate in the comments because he was a man. This wasn't even on a feminist subreddit btw - this is just what most of reddit is. Not many male safe spaces around these days.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 09:53 PM
3

I disagree. In my experience, the misandry business is booming I'm real life (about as much as it is on social media). I face it from family, friends, coworkers, billboards, posters, all sorts of news and entertainment. I face it when I go out to local fairs. Misandry is inescapable and is largely considered to be acceptable.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 02:18 PM
3

I don't know if I believe that feminists are overall unpopular. Almost all companies, employers and media outlets are still in their pockets. I don't believe that'd be the case if they weren't overall popular. Why do feminist posters, politicians, and advertisements far outway ones showing any kindness to men?
/r/MensRights21/06/25 02:15 PM
6

I've dealt with 2 before posting this this very morning. I just don't name and shame. White knights are white knights regardless of the impact they have on whether this is an echo chamber or not.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 01:20 PM
1

Overall, when gender is involved, it's brought up in the context of "man bad, woman good" "men are problems, women have problems". Just look at how male issues are talked about in the mainstream (on the rare occasions they can no longer be avoided) - it's almost always centered around why men are the causes of their own problems. The system constantly tells men they don't have the right to complain and many men believe what they're taught.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 01:17 PM
7

I gotta ask did this post trigger some insecurity in you? Because it obviously doesn't lack content and you seem to be very keen to make wild assumptions about me. You seem like a hurt animal.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 01:12 PM
3

If only your intelligence matched your confidence.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 01:06 PM
3

Funny how wrong you are.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 01:05 PM
3

Not to be rude but are you a literal child?
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:59 PM
5

You made a comment about men. That's the topic of conversation. All of your bs aside, the only measurement that matters is whether, as a group, men or women whinge and self-pity more. The answer seem pretty obvious to me. Some men do whinge as well and I'm one of them (I'll admit that - I have things to whinge about and I enjoy it) but we are nothing compared to the numbers of women who do it. We are raised in gynocentric societies - so many men, as a result, are conditioned to shut up about the…
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:56 PM
6

I agree people of both genders can do bad things but you'd have to be just a tad bit blind to not see how your original comment came off.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:49 PM
4

Wow great argument dude. You seem like you're more about the "gotcha" sound bites and less about content.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:47 PM
10

Your above comment didn't really give off that vibe
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:45 PM
5

Lol I wonder which gender does more whining and self pitying. Hmmmmm
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:42 PM
11

You seem to hate men a lot more.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:41 PM
6

I've seen them taking bloom lately. I agree, however, that white knights are a minority on this subreddit - can't say the same for other men's issues subs though.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:35 PM
10

Everything's an opinion. Doesn't stop people from correctly being labelled Nazis, racists, sexists, homophobes, white knights etc.. If someone meets the definition, they meet it lol. Deal with it.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:30 PM
8

I've dealt with 2 on this sub today alone. Not sure I wanna name and shame. I can't comment on your situation as I don't know the context. However, even if you weren't a white knight, it obviously doesn't mean nobody else is.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:28 PM
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It can show up as multiple things. However, it is, in this context, when you're on a forum dedicated to men's rights, and legitimate and serious issues are brought up, and some man (out of their duties that have been consciously or subconsciously baked into them by virtue of living in a gynocentric society) has to jump to shield systems that benefit women from criticism or even disregard those systems and do "their manly duty of always framing the discussion around putting women first no matter …
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:08 PM
235

What she means is: bring back sexism (when it benefits us)!
/r/MensRights21/06/25 10:01 AM
3

"Dependent" or "worthy of compassion"/"having value ascribed to their lives"? I'd say the latter is more likely. Evolutionary biology says women's lives are more important to us because they are the limiting factor in population growth. People who kill women get worse punishments than people who kill men. Our lives are not valued the same. Also how much public compassion do you see for women's suffering vs men's suffering - it's night and day.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 09:52 AM
11

It's like comparing shopping with being in a job interview.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 09:04 AM
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P L E A S E, media narratives don't even accept the claim that women have it better than men in finding dates in the first place because most media would never expose female privilege like that. Also, if a woman is absolutely extraordinary shy, I get why she wouldn't be on a date. That, however, is very rare. What's a lot more common is someone who's socially impaired because of something like autism. Look at dating when you're autistic stats - they're a lot kinder to women than they are to men.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 08:59 AM
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They're not. Also "women and children" (based on even evolutionary biology) receive more compassion than men. Furthermore, what's happening in Gaza is not even a proper war but it doesn't stop the "women and children" line from being used.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 08:45 AM
8

Are you actually incapable of realizing that gynocentrism is beaten into everyone in society these days? The average person is therefore, obviously, more likely to over diagnosis what is misogyny and under diagnose what is misandry. That's a pretty obvious one. Maybe you're in that crowd so you can't see it.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 08:41 AM
6

Is that how you'd conduct fair research lol??????? Ask people who are often conditioned by their religion (the church of feminism) to call just about everything misogynistic? Why are you even on this subreddit if you interpret everything as misogyny - are you a trolly troll? I noticed that you took a lot of your quotes out of context to make them seem explicitly misogynistic. If you had a fair mind and read through this subreddit, you'd see that the hate is so small compared to the vile things s…
/r/MensRights21/06/25 08:37 AM
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Our corner of the Internet is small. Feminism controls almost all of the rest of mainstream society. If you're worried about anybody's issues being ignored, you should be worried about men's issues being ignored. We decide and control nothing because the men's rights movement has such little power in society.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 02:37 AM
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LOL you probably see men complaining about their issues compared to women's situations or rightfully calling women out on things and call it hate. I've been on this subreddit a while and have seen VERY little hate towards women. Misogyny must be the most overused term in existence today.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 02:33 AM
6

Men need their own sexual revolution
/r/MensRights20/06/25 11:58 PM
11

For women, it may be insulting in a way but at least it conveys care towards them. For men, it's insulting but without the care.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 11:44 PM
2

If they're talking about reproductive rights, they're correct. Women in some states have reproductive rights. Men, on the other hand, have no reproductive rights in any state.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 11:43 PM
5

It'd be difficult to find a man who hasn't been assaulted.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 06:03 PM
7

I agree that that's the main reason why male disposability exists. The end product of that is that men receive less compassion, and many of the other things I mentioned in my post. On the topic of war, men definitely are more pressured/forced to go to the front lines than women. In regards to Gaza, in particular, many children are fighting so the women and children stat is not surprising because of that. Also so many of the death in Gaza aren't even happening in direct fighting. That's why it's …
/r/MensRights20/06/25 05:19 PM
2

I'm sorry. That is disgusting. It's also telling of how little men's suffering matters and the disgusting lengths men (like those thugs) are willing to go if a woman tells them to do it. I've also been undeservedly physically assaulted hard many times by both men and women in public. An older woman also sexually assaulted me repeatedly in public. Everyone saw all that. Nobody said anything about it. The only help I got was after this one time I got randomly punched on the mouth. My mouth was lit…
/r/MensRights20/06/25 05:00 PM
3

True. Could you imagine if she'd said she's scared of black people she doesn't know because she's been raped by one? She would rightfully get a lot of hate.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 04:18 PM
5

And men are also raised with pressure to do things that'll get themselves in trouble to defend a woman's honour. As a famous example, Will Smith laughed at Chris Rock's joke about his wife, but then after his wife's reaction he decided he had to go on stage and physically assault Chris Rock. Will Smith even in an interview said he, earlier in his life, always made a commitment to defend a woman. Defending anybody who is in "real harm" (a joke does not count) is a noble thing to do but that commi…
/r/MensRights20/06/25 04:15 PM
2

Unfortunately hate causes hate
/r/MensRights20/06/25 04:02 PM
19

If a man gets even slightly aggressive or even just angry (especially around women), that man is unsafe. Women aren't usually viewed as unsafe for the "sin" of being angry.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 02:37 PM
31

If violence happens to a woman, it's seen as an attack on women. If that same violence happens to a man, it's not an attack on men. It's just a person hurting another person.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 02:35 PM
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If a woman or multiple women have been violent to a man, that man is widely considered a bigot if he starts to hate women. If a woman does the exact same thing, society doesn't dare call her a bigot.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 02:32 PM
1

I've also noticed that dressing in a sexually explicit way is so much more appropriate for women than it is for men.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 12:36 PM
2

Every single person is 1 person so, yes, a sample size of 1. However, the people I've spoken to on the phone are far far more than 1 person in total. In phone calls where they have no indication that I'm a man and even refer to me in the way you'd refer to a woman, they tend to be warmer and more understanding towards me.
/r/MensRights19/06/25 10:45 PM
1

I think men demonstrate some misandry but it's wild to say they're the biggest misandrists.
/r/MensRights19/06/25 01:57 PM
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You're a funny guy. You must be truly tone deaf if you think your original message was innocuous but I think you're super cool for trying to play it off as that now. It truly concerns me that this is how you behave on a morning where you have nothing to be grumpy about. Maybe make yourself a nice calming herbal tea or take up yoga or something. You sure are in need of it!
/r/MensRights19/06/25 05:57 AM
21

Woke up on the wrong side of the bed today? My post is obviously highlighting a gender equality issue. Why are you such a grump about it?
/r/MensRights19/06/25 05:43 AM
9

Could you imagine a male presidential candidate putting forward the idea that women (in particular) owe him their votes? It would be a media sh*t storm.
/r/MensRights19/06/25 03:45 AM
1

Also the rape victim will have no reproductive rights whereas the rapist can decide whether or not to keep the child.
/r/MensRights19/06/25 03:02 AM
23

I love it honestly. Makes me feel all warm. However, it also makes me feel sad because it reminds me of the treatment I'm missing out on when people can see I'm a man.
/r/MensRights19/06/25 02:37 AM
8

Not a false claim. Also, even if I go along with your claim, if you're able to get first dates, you're doing objectively better than someone who isn't. That pans out in how content the two genders are with their dating lives. It's just not comparable. The loneliness and desperation of feeling that undesired and never even getting your foot in the door can't be understated. Furthermore, your odds of getting a long term relationship are also obviously higher if you can get a first date. Also why w…
/r/MensRights19/06/25 01:21 AM
6

I get what you mean about the increased aggression and depression. I also think that the difficulties autism can cause when it comes to the things that tend to matter to people like getting a job, keeping a job, and getting dates can possibly build up feelings of anger and sadness as well. On another note, interestingly, I remember a reddit post saying that women get worse reactions for their autistic behavior because women generally tend to mask better and you inevitably receive less compassion…
/r/MensRights19/06/25 12:59 AM
4

It's really sick that they don't seem to think the difficulties we face because of our autism are worthy of their compassion and, then, to add insult to injury, they view us with suspicion because of the issues caused by our autism (like romantic loneliness).
/r/MensRights19/06/25 12:45 AM
6

Ooo salty
/r/MensRights18/06/25 11:43 PM
23

It's funny how they say autistic women date nt men. Are they really that unaware of their own privileges? Of course it's easy for them to get dates with nt men. The rate of autistic women who receive romantic companionship is very close to the rate of nt women who receive it - and of course it is, it's not too hard for women to get dates. Autistic men, however, usually never receive romantic companionship. I wonder whether they'd have an inch more compassion for autistic men if they had to actua…
/r/MensRights18/06/25 11:01 PM
12

By "open minded" do you mean people in the 'progressive' political camp? I've seen that a lot from progressive people. They have compassion for autistic women. Autistic men, on the other hand, are often seen as potential walking red flags.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 10:52 PM
13

As long as the excuse is blaming one of the groups they deem it acceptable to hate on
/r/MensRights18/06/25 08:23 PM
3

They're destroying sexual freedom for men. Women's sexual freedom is still considered liberating.
/r/MensRights15/06/25 05:30 PM
1

I appreciate you asking the question, and I think the biggest issue is the gendered compassion gap (this is the bedrock of so many other big men's issues). In almost all of society, there is very little compassion for men's issues and the way men are impacted by them. Men's issues are usually only brought up if there's a way to blame men for them. Men are seen as being problems and women are seen as having problems. If the crux of a discussion of men's suffering is always about how men need to d…
/r/MensRights15/06/25 04:46 PM
3

I agree to an extent but the amount of men in public positions who use their power to shit on all men is something else.
/r/MensRights01/06/25 01:56 PM
13

Even in countries where men barely use guns for suicide or barely have access to guns, they still successfully commit suicide far far more than women do. I live in the UK and this 100% is the case. I don't believe women are so much more incredibly incompetent at killing themselves - I believe that more men are actually at the point of being truly insistent on making sure they really die when they commit suicide. I find that most men will not bother attempting if they don't truly 100% need the su…
/r/MensRights01/06/25 11:47 AM
3

All of the issues mentioned in my post are very real. If you or your son never went through them, I'm happy for you and envy your luck!
/r/MensRights01/06/25 10:14 AM
6

I DM'd you because reddit won't let me post my response here. Hope that's okay!
/r/MensRights01/06/25 10:05 AM
8

There are an abundance of reasons for men to kill themselves unfortunately
/r/MensRights01/06/25 08:19 AM
2

It was a joke but would be nice based on how hetero relationships are
/r/MensRights01/06/25 08:10 AM
18

I saw an interview of hers that was fairly recent and she said something like 'making content makes me want to put my head in the oven' . To be fair, you could see, as time went on, how she seemed to become less hopeful.
/r/MensRights01/06/25 02:52 AM
23

Is that THE Karen Straughan?
/r/MensRights01/06/25 02:21 AM
9

I can't seem to find my messages or your message. That's sad about the boy - I guess the demonization of boys and men starts early and end late
/r/MensRights01/06/25 01:47 AM
2

Probably a lot less man bashing there than here in the UK as well
/r/MensRights01/06/25 01:43 AM
5

Does anybody know if it's possible to turn gay because I'd totally be up for that
/r/MensRights01/06/25 01:36 AM
25

If I weren't suicidal I would agree so bad. My country (the UK) is not currently a place worth defending. Maybe people who the UK government and media don't hate should defend the country
/r/MensRights01/06/25 01:19 AM
4

I'm not strictly implying that the boy meant otherwise. I wouldn't be surprised if he's been fed that boys are bad - that message is everywhere.
/r/MensRights01/06/25 01:14 AM
75

Dr Phil and so many other men like him are good examples of how having some men in powerful/influential positions doesn't really benefit most men that much. Powerful men tend not to care about other men - in fact, if they see that their reputation can be improved by bashing other men, they won't think twice about doing it.
/r/MensRights01/06/25 12:39 AM
14

What was that conversation on this sub about? Also did that toddler say he's a bad boy in a serious way (as in he's being fed the message that's boys are bad), or did he say it in a cool/joking cool kind of bad boy way?
/r/MensRights01/06/25 12:36 AM
65

Dr Phil is generally pathetic
/r/MensRights01/06/25 12:33 AM
34

It means what was the moment that turned you towards men's rights or made you question the mainstream feminist narrative on men?
/r/MensRights31/05/25 11:46 PM
1

Where'd you move to? Is it better or worse?
/r/MensRights31/05/25 11:19 PM
11

Society puts more emphasis on what they say and, therefore, what they say becomes what the mainstream says
/r/MensRights31/05/25 10:11 PM
1

Mainstream society is constantly brown nosing you. Imagine being absolutely adored by mainstream society and still needing to come onto a men's rights sub to say "bUt WoMeN ToO"
/r/MensRights31/05/25 08:52 PM
3

I had to remove Facebook from my phone. The gender wars are-a raging there.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 09:26 PM
0

Can you share what he said with me?
/r/MensRights29/05/25 10:58 AM
2

It probably won't surprise you that the only results Google gave me had to do with misogyny (the most reported issue in the world).
/r/MensRights29/05/25 10:21 AM
2

It's an epidemic because mainstream society does not challenge it and the majority of feminists alongside so many non-feminists actively encourage it.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 10:17 AM
2

That's such a great comparison! It's centered around demonizing a group of people and having that demonization be socially acceptable. I hope one day I'll live in a society where the mainstream will recognize that it's wrong to say vile things about men.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 12:55 AM
5

I'm constantly being traumatized by women. If I became hateful, I doubt I'd receive compassion. Them (as well as all of the rest of polite society) constantly being sexist to me is quite miserable for me. I see what you're saying and there's sense to it. It's just hard to be empathetic to people who regularly pile on to society's bashing of you for the original sin of being born as you are.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:30 PM
7

I could but it would be a complete reputation ruiner among me and my closest family. The issue is that bigotry against women will be viewed as terrible, whereas bigotry against men will be seen as completely acceptable.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:23 PM
6

That's shocking. I wonder whether this may contribute, in any way, to why there are so many men out of employment.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:20 PM
9

I was like them. I'll never go back to being a sexist ever again.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:15 PM
1

Rape is often defined to exclude male victims
/r/MensRights27/05/25 05:01 PM
1

In the court of public opinion, men tend not to receive due process. It says something about how misandrist society is that 90% of your friends would automatically assume that the accusation is correct.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 05:00 PM
4

Can you explain that to someone who is very uninformed (me)?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 04:06 PM
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