Today I heard women make crude jokes about male circumcision, in public, to their male friend. Of course nobody batted an eye.

It's okay for women to joke about that and, when men debate abortion, they're told "nO uTeRuS, nO oPiNiOn". Abortion, by the way, is an issue that impacts men so much more than male circumcision impacts women (especially since men lack their own reproductive rights).