Hey, I got sent a letter from my wife’s parents funded expensive attorneys that she’s divorcing me, no heads up, great, I’m behind and I’m at a financial disadvantage.

So far conducting my research and response by myself, I need a kind of unbundled limited scope solicitation at this stage, don’t need to meet face to face, I just want a fair rate I’ll send the documents across for review and suggested edits at this stage.

All of the family law practices I have looked at seem like sales and marketing funnels where you need to go down get your free 10 minute assessment and then next thing you know you are cutting into your side of the asset pool heavily.

Welcome to any advice thoughts and suggestions, married 19 years, 3 kids, 13, 9 and 9.