I (25m) just got contact from my ex(f22) about signing divorce papers, we separated about 3 years ago and have had no contact up till this point. Ive hade the paper work but just couldn’t do them so I knew one day this was going to happen but still was blindsided by the news.

I’m glad to say I’m better but the heart still hasn’t recovered and I’m just in a fog going forward, I still love her even after everything and I don’t want to let her go in my heart/mind.

Context to why it ended: she cheated once and told me so I gave her a second chance (should have ended right then and there) because she owned up and felt bad, the second time I was just in denial and tried to not believe it until I came home one night and she had her stuff packed and ready to leave the next morning.

* no kids/ property that would have to be disputed, just a quick clean process?

So any tips/advice that I should need/use?