Somehow, I’m finding myself struggling at certain parts of the process that should be easy (seemingly). I can:

A) Attract women, who then become curious, typically through frame

B) be playful and banter

C) set up proper first dates,

However most recently, things started to unglue leading into creating an opportunity for sex. There’s a co worker who her and I have been “doing the dance”, we’ve made out, and expressed sexual interest in each other. The problem now has to do with logistics, and the other day I messed up I think by being overly eager, and now I’m not 100% sure where things stand (which is fine, I’ll carry on regardless). She basically fished out of me that I was trying to fuck (which shouldn’t be surprising at this stage), but I laid it out on the table and now feel like a fool for it.

I’ve noticed too that even though I can be playful and banter, when things get a little hot, I tend to fumble, and I’ll say the wrong things. It hasn’t always been this way, but I’ve been in a dry period and it shows whenever the sexual tension is high/at peak.

Any pointers would be appreciated. I can take it or leave it regarding the co worker, but I can’t help but think there’s a bigger issue that needs to be addressed if I want to successfully seduce women from here, and I could be doing a lot better than I am once I figure it out.