My ex’s best friend became my best friend

hunterpua · 2026-05-20T08:44:15+00:00

She definitely will at some point but to stop it from hindering sex as things escalate in that direction, be the one who voices the objections while you're physically escalating.

So lets say you've already started making out and it's getting hot and heavy, you could say, "this is bad" while you move on to kissing her neck, and then maybe saying, "we shouldn't be doing this" while mounting her on top of yourself, and so on and so forth.

Make sure it's only the words, make sure that none of your actions match them at all, so while you're saying those things, you shouldn't have any hesitation at all in your escalation.

As for the hours, days, and weeks after sex, do you want to be in a relationship with her? Because I don't think it would be fair to convince her that she was justified to do that if it's just a hookup.

water_reducer · 2026-05-20T15:20:11+00:00

tbh i wouldnt do what that other guy is saying at all, dont talk about your ex unless she brings it up, talk about anything other than her. she might find it hot to hookup with her besties ex but leave all of that unsaid.

“we shouldn’t be doing this” isn’t something i would say at any point during whatever is going on, even if you’re saying it sarcastically or trying to be playful about it. i would treat it as casually as possible and like no big deal, just bh it really isn’t anything all that “crazy” or taboo where you need to play it up with cheesy lines. people in close proximity hookup all the time, people at work, people at school, people at parties. the context of the relationship between the two of you can make it hotter, like your ex’s sister or her mother or her friends etc. but it happens all the time, act like you’ve been there before and it doesn’t faze you at all. there’s really nothing weird or abnormal or “shouldn’t be doing this” at all about the situation.

tbh I think what the other guy is saying is really over gaming and sort of lame, but to each their own

MilkyMacaroons_ · 2026-05-21T17:48:41+00:00

hoping i can experience it too

Illustrious-Tooth702 · 2026-05-20T09:02:28+00:00

"How do I sleep with her her without her thinking about betraying her best friend ?"

You don't. It's her choice to make.

If you reverse it,- would you flirt with your bff's ex behind his back? You may or may not do it.

If you're a godd friend then you either won't do it or ask his permission first. This way it won't feel like a betrayal.

Title	My ex’s best friend became my best friend
Author	Logical_Procedure260
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	May 20, 2026 8:05 AM UTC (2 months ago)
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