I've only been seeing this girl for a few weeks. We are not exclusive, I don't even know if she is really all that interested.

We've been on two actual dates, one we actually fucked, the other we were making out and she was feeling sick.

Anyone, my actual question is, what do I do when I try to make plans but she's already committed to plans with another guy? i.e. I says let's get dinner, she says she's seeing a movie with John.

How do I steer her more my way?