It’s been a tough year and a half, been going back and forth in my mind if I want to do this. Divorce doesn’t scare me, being alone doesn’t either. It’s the unknown of what’s to come… alimony, what assets do I have to give up, my investments, pensions, the house, which I bought before marriage. Been married going on 3 years in a few months, live in California and didn’t sign a prenup, would love some feedback from anyone