Last year came out of a 9 year relationship, bad breakup so fairly new to the singles game. Yesterday was feeling like having some fun so texted a girl I had hooked up casually twice last year to see if she wanted to meet, she agreed we go for a drink near her place. Its been about 6 months since I saw her. We went to a pub close by and chatted. A lot of the conversation was taken up with her talking about all these guys she is currently in contact with/seeing, saying she thinks they are nice guy but etc. etc. I relate to her stories of girls I am seeing/in contact with. This seems t only intesify her talk about the other guys. She tells me one story about a guy she is going to meet for dinner and 'friendzone' him at that dinner. Another guy is too needy for her, another too arrogant. She seems to enjoy holding it over these guys.

So we walk back to her place, we get to the door and she asks where I am parked, I ask her if we can go inside then she comes out with it and says i have been 'friendzoned', she is not doing the casual sex thing anymore.

Now Im thinking WTF, she knows why I came over what is this 'freindzone' BS. So I make small talk a bit then say i need to pee so I need to go inside. She says ok. Once we are in there she is saying I should leave, she doesn't do it anymore blah blah. I tell her i don't understand this 'friendzone' and i don't accept being friend zoned. Then she ask why I came over, i said to her you know why I came over you just want me to say it, she says yes she wants to watch me squirm. So i told her I came over to have sex. She says she doesn't do that anymore, why did I think it would be ok after 6 months etc. etc.

She then moves into her room (next to the living room) sits on the bed and plays with her phone so I go over and sit on the bed and do the same. we talk a bit more, get closer, she keeps saying im friendzoned, waving her hands about. We get closer, i go for the kiss she sort of rebuffs, we talk some more, I tell her I still want to F%$, play with her tits a little, she syas i should not be doing that. Go in for the kiss again, this time she is really into it, now Im completely confused waiting for her to suddenly push me away or something. She doesn't and we end up having some good sex.

Afterwards she asks If Im happy now in a sarcastic manner. We talk a bit. She tells me Im no good a communicating in regards to wanting sex and also that my shoes are crappy (vans), i think just to make me feel a bit bad. I leave, later on in the night she messages me to say I am friend zoned and we can't do it again.

Now im not sure what went on, was i too persistant, was she making me work hard for it, did I do something wrong? Being sexually assertive is a new thing to me so I does feel strange. but really why say Im friend zoned then sleep with me? What kind of game is this?

TLDR: Girl I have slept with before insists Im in the friendzone now, but then we have sex anyway, whats going on?